NAME: Adam 521 Q: Last night, me and my girl friend
had sex, and the next day I realized a huge bruise on my penis! I was wondering
how this could have happened? A: I don't know. Maybe the sex was a little rough. NAME: yyy 522 Q: I have a 20 year old sister and
I am 17. We recently got very drunk at a friends party and we were both involved
in the same sexual orgy, (about 6 people). I accidentally put my wang in
her mouth, and when she saw it was me she giggled, and then deepthroated
me until ejaculation. I did not pull out because it felt so good. My question
is this: Should I talk about it with her and is it ok for us to do this?
I am wondering if she would want to do this again because it felt so
good. A: I'm not going to tell you that it is OK to do that with her. It
will be up to you to solve the wreckage of the past by making amends with
your sister if she is troubled by it. If she comes to you with worry or concern
about it, you need to take responsibility and realize the mistake. Otherwise,
just put it behind you as a mistake in the past that you cannot do anything
about.
P.S. -- Alcohol and/or drugs combined with sex is a dangerous mix. NAME: (Anonymous) 523 Q: I masterbate 2 to3 times a day.
I can cum in about a minute. I read when you said that it can make for premature
ejaculation. I want to slow but I don't know how. Should I just flat out
use mind over body and stop or should I progressively slow down? And if I
do so will I last longer in bed? I also last 5 minutes in bed. What can I
do other then the stop and go method? A: The
stop-and-go method
takes a lot of practice. You have to desensitize your orgasmic response to
"last longer". This can often be accomplished by changing the method of
masturbation -- possibly adding lubrication or eliminating lubrication (depending
on what you do now, you can try the opposite). Changing your grip on
the penis can also be effective. It takes patience and practice. If
you can last five minutes in bed now, it is realistic that you can extend
that time with practice and communication with your partner. Combining
intercourse with oral sex, manual masturbation to your partner, and foreplay
can all be effective in helping satisfy your partner. Experimentation, practice,
patience, and communication are the basic rules. Don't expect results overnight.
Plan on taking weeks and months to perfect your sexual experiences. NAME: mikey 524 Q: Can you get hurt from receiving
anal sex? A: Yes, and it must be done very carefully so the rectum, colon, and
intestinal lining does not tear. Temporary bleeding, constipation, and pain
can result from anal sex (among other things such as STDs -- Sexually Transmitted
Diseases-- if your partner is infected with an STD). NAME: (Anonymous) 525 Q: I am 12 years old and have had 10 girlfriends
in my life and I had sex before, with protection when I was 11. Do you think
that's wrong? A: I do not recommend having sex at age 11 or 12. Personally, I think
it is too young. However, I'm not going to say it was "wrong", and I won't
condemn you for what you did because it's not my purpose or responsibility
here on this website to do so. However, your experiences were premature.
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NAME: Babish 526 Q: When do you feel the right age
to have sex is? I am 14. Do you think it would be a bad thing to have sex,
with a girlfriend, using protection? I would just like to know what age is
right. A: Personally, I feel an appropriate age is 18+. Otherwise, a young,
yet potentially good relationship can become complicated with adult
issues and problems (e.g., fear about the "protection" not working properly,
moving to a "new" and complicated stage within the relationship, and a false
sense of bond that may or may not be true love). The fact that you are asking
this question shows you may have some second thoughts or doubts about having
sex this soon. You may want to carefully consider the 'conscious' you are
feeling.
NAME: GirlHelp 527 Q: I like this one girl a lot. I've
told her and stuff, and I think she might have a feeling for me but I don't
know. What should I do? I'm on the edge! A: You have to take time to get to know her better. Think of things
that you have in common, like school, teachers, community, TV shows, etc.,
and talk little by little about these things. Breaking the ice with common
conversation makes it much easier to make the next move. Once you have more
confidence around her, you might ask her to do something with you or ask
her to spend a little time together. It doesn't have to be a "date" right
away.
NAME: (Anonymous) 528 Q: My girlfriend and I had sex for
the first time the other day... sort of. I couldn't get very hard, and several
times when I did, it went away quickly. I know I'm not gay, I'm very attracted
to her, but I don't know what's wrong. Also, putting a condom on seemed to
contribute to how fast the hardness went away. I know I was having trouble
focusing because I was very tired and very hungry at the time, and I'm hoping
that was it, but I really don't know - would this have to do with masturbation
at all? I also found it very difficult to get an erection the day after she
left, but easier than when she was here. What should I do?! A: As you partially said, none of this reflects whether you
are gay or straight. I just wanted to make that clear first for the benefit
of other readers who may see this question. I think the main problem is that
it was your first time. Sex takes some getting used to. It is very easy to
lose an erection when you are anxious or distracted. Being hungry and tired
does not help the erection either. Many men have the "condom problem" you
mentioned -- especially if it is the first time you had sex with the person.
The only things you have to do are (1) Be patient with yourself and do not
let this ruin your self-esteem (2) Have an open and honest line of communication
with your partner. You are sensitive and there is definitely nothing wrong
with that. Maybe the timing just wasn't right for sex. Concentrate on the
aspects of your relationship which are going good for now. Other things that
can possibly cause a man to lose his erection are alcohol intake, marijuana,
or other drugs. These things tend to cause more frequent erections at first,
but they generally cause lack of potency in the long run.
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NAME: (Anonymous) 529 Q: Is the best time to have sex is
when the girl is going through her period or after? A: To be honest with you, that depends on the girl. But I'm not really
sure what you mean by "best time to have sex". NAME: (Anonymous) 530 Q: I was just wondering if its safe
to swallow a woman's liquid from her vagina while giving her oral sex. Is
there anything to be aware of while licking her vagina? I am mostly concerned
about any side-effects that can happen while giving her oral sex. A: It's not a harmful fluid. As far as your question about "side-effects",
you may experience a difference in the typical way your mouth tastes and
possibly a change in the texture (feeling) of your tongue if you push it
against the top of your mouth shortly after oral sex with a woman, but these
are not dangerous side-effects.
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