NAME: (Anonymous) 500 Q: I have a girlfriend who wants
to have sex. I told her repeatedly no. She wants to have a baby, but I'm
only 13! She's two years older than me and tells me she knows what she's
doing. I want to give her a pregnancy pill without her knowing. What would
be a good way? A: (1) I don't think she knows what she is doing. You might want to
hold back on this relationship for a while. (2) You would have to give her
a birth control pill every day for it to be effective. That is just not possible,
especially since they are prescriptions. NAME: Nick 501 Q: I just found out my cousin is
turned on by little girls (10 or 11 year olds) I told him that he is a crazy
pedophile, that it's against the law, etc., and I tried to end his fetish
but he still hasn't changed, and he's been really pissed off at me lately.
Is there any advice I can give him? Is this normal for his age (16)? I'm
19 and I definitely remember I never had any unhealthy fetishes when I was
growing up, and I don't want him to b sum pedo freak A: It's typically not normal for a 16 year old male to have sexual
interests in 10 year old girls. Every state, province, or nation has laws
regarding age of sexual consent and/or statutory rape. If he were to engage
in sex with a 10 year old, he would probably be held legally responsible
and serious charges could result. It is true that laws vary from state to
state and even more from nation to nation, but sex between a 10 year old
and a 16 year old is not legal in any industrialized nation. I'm not sure
there is much you can do other than to try to encourage him to seek psychiatric
counseling. Also, let him know that any thought or fantasy is legal, but
going through with that fantasy in real life can bring serious consequences
if the young girl's parents pressed charges. Other than that, treat him as
someone who has an illness which might be able to be treated or cured if
he can develop a desire to get help. The earlier, the better. NAME: porno 502 Q: I have recently become impotent. (When
I say recent ,I mean 6 months ago) No kind of Viagra works whether it is
prescribed by the doctor or from an internet site. I am close to suicide
because my wife is no longer true to me, but how can I blame her? A: You and your wife have to work with your doctor(s). You may have
a psychological issue that Viagra can't cure. Don't give up. There are other
ways to address this issue. Keep in mind, your problem is a recognized diagnostic
condition among all respectable physicians. Plus, there are other ways you
can have sex with your wife. I'm sure you have heard of oral sex, sex toys,
and mutual masturbation. Get creative until you can find a solution to your
impotence problem. Viagra certainly is not the answer for everyone! If you
love your wife, let her know you have a strong desire for her love and you
want to fix this problem. Open communication is very important with the partner
with any type of sexual difficulties. Once again -- Don't give up, even if
the discussion breaks out into a verbal argument once in a while. NAME: Need some info 503 Q: A while back, I had an urge to
wear girls panties. One day I was at my cousins house, and I stole a pair
of her panties. I took them home and put them on myself. I instantly got
an erection. I continue to masturbate and ejaculate on them. Is there something
wrong with this? I've had the urges again, but I don't want to steal some
more of my cousins panties. I cant go to the regular store to buy some because
I am embarrassed is there any men's underwear that feel exactly like girls
panties, preferably the low rise cotton thong panties? Also I've fantasized
of being with an older women around the age of 40 and I'm 19 is there any
website I can go to meet women interested in younger men. A: (1) It might be unusual to take your cousin's panties and masturbate
with them. However, I'm not going to go as far to say that it is abnormal
or illegal. However, stealing more things will eventually get you caught
in the act and cause real embarrassment. There are all types of men's underwear
on the market. I've seen men's cotton briefs that look like bikini bottoms.
Even some regular department stores have these brands. Believe it or not,
a lot of guys like the feelings of the low-cut bikini briefs, so they must
sell them somewhere in men's departments. (2) Sorry, this website is not
really here to help you find sexual partners. NAME: tang 504 Q: I'm 13, and I really want to have
sex with a man. Is there any way of meeting a older man in my town and have
sex without getting in trouble with the law. A: Sorry, there is absolutely no way I can fully answer a question
like that. You should wait for a few more years before you have sex anyway.
If you are only 13 and do have sex with a man 18+ years old, he could get
in very serious trouble with the law in just about any state, province, or
nation. Most likely, he would go to prison.
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NAME: (Anonymous) 506 Q: When ever my friend comes over,
we always talk about girls, masturbation, and similar topics. So when it's
night time, he usually masturbates so I let him. I'm kind of curious about
him masturbating me or the other way around. Is this normal for the age of
13-14? How do I ask him or what do I do so we can try it? A: I've been asked this question several times before.
(1) Yes, it is normal for young men ages 13-14, and guys ages 23-34, and
even older guys age 53-64+ to have these feelings and wonder if they should
ask their close friends to masturbate together (or do something else sexual).
(2) Generally, if you are already talking about sex and masturbation, you've
already crossed the barrier of "what to say" in order to start a conversation
about mutual masturbation. However, I think if you don't really feel
comfortable asking your friend about masturbating him or him masturbating
you, the fact is that you might not be that comfortable with the idea of
it yourself. Don't rush into anything that you aren't sure about doing just
to solve your curiosity. Maybe as your friendship goes on over time, you
will feel more comfortable asking him about these things. Right now, it just
might not be the right time.
(3) Also, it is important to mention that mutual masturbation sets up the
"comfort zone" for more advanced sexual activity like oral sex and/or anal
sex. Of course, mutual masturbation does not always lead to these more advanced
types of activities. But before you set up the boundaries of how far you
want to go before you even ask to do anything. Otherwise, your friend might
feel you want to go further than just masturbation when you might not really
want to. NAME: Horse 507 Q: I've always wanted to try the
finger-in-ass masturbation because I heard it greatly increases the orgasm
and the ejaculation. Is this true? What would be the best thing to do this
with? A: For many men, this is true. However, there is no "best" way to
do it. You can use any number of your own fingers or sex toys to enhance
your experience. Most people advise to (1) take a shower before touching
the anus (2) Also, use lubrication when trying anal masturbation. Most people
say KY Jelly or other water based products are the best anal lubricants.
Household cooking oils are safe to, but they can be thick, messy, and difficult
to wash off. NAME: (Anonymous) 508 Q: Are there any good products in
adult stores that really work? That jack you off while you watch a porno
movie? A: I think the masturbation devices you'll find in adult stores vary
in quality, effectiveness, and personal preference. I think some sex toys
work well for some guys and others work well for other guys. Often they are
called penis pumps or ejaculation machines. These penis pumps sometimes say
they can increase the length of your penis also, but that is not really
possible. NAME: (Anonymous) 509 Q: I've had a total of 10 girlfriends
all my life, and I'm 13 years old. They all want me to kiss them and hug
them, but every time I'm about to I can't pull my self to do this? I mean
it's just that when I'm about to I pull my self back I don't know why do
you have any information on this? A: Pull yourself back? What do you mean by that? You're 13 and have
had over 10 girlfriends? I think you are more experienced with women than
me. I'm more than twice your age and have had less than half as many. 510 Follow Up Q: What I mean as I'm about
to do a kiss a hug or something I pull my self back and I don't know why.
like as I lean in I stop my self but I want to but its like my body wont
let me. I need help A: I really don't know. I have never heard of what you mean. Maybe
you could stay away from the girl(s) for a while. You're only 13 and more
experienced than most your age. Give it time, relax, and make sure you are
in one relationship at a time.