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(11g) Q:   I know sex is illegal if under whatever age your law puts out, but is oral sex illegal under that age?
471 A: It could be (depending on where you live). Maybe you should consult a lawyer if young oral sex is important to you.
(12g) Q:   What will happen when I get a blow job from my girlfriend?
472 A: I don't know. Maybe you should wait until you are older to have sex.
(13g) Q:   I am 23 years old and my husband is 37 years old. One year ago we married. We do sex 2 or 3 times a week -- sometimes 1 time a week. Is this normal?
473 A: I guess so. It doesn't sound unusual to me.
(14g) Q:   How many times a week does a normal person have sex ?
474 A: It varies greatly. It could be anywhere from once a month to every day. It depends on a lot of things.
(15g) Q:   I want to stop having sex (due to religious reasons), but a friend told me that you must ejaculate at least once a month. It is harmful to stop having sex? What happens when you stop sexual activity?
475 A: It is true that it is healthier on the body to have sex, or to ejaculate through masturbation. However, the body has it's own ways of dealing with the stress of no ejaculations. Chances are, if you quit, you will have nocturnal emissions ( wet dreams ) when the semen builds up to such a point that the body cannot take it any more. Most people have these erotic dreams that result in the unconscious loss of semen if they go for a number of weeks without ejaculating. You probably won't end up with any immediate health problems from quitting ejaculation, but in the long term you might be increasing your risks of prostate cancer or enlarged prostate disorders. Anatomically speaking, the male body was "designed" to ejaculate at least a few times per month, but there have been some people (not many) who quit entirely and usually have wet dreams, which may dry up before you wake up.
(16g) Q:   Why when I have sex with my girlfriend, I like to ejaculate in her face or mouth? Is this behavior abnormal?
476 A: Well, it is probably more common than you think for people to do what you described. However, you should take your partner's feelings into consideration when engaging in this activity. Does she like it? If so, then don't worry about it. If not, maybe you can find something else to do that she likes.

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(17g) Q:   The first time I had sex with my girlfriend, it lasted for around 45 minutes before I ejaculated, but since then, we've had sex 3 more times and every time, I've ejaculated in 5 minutes or less. It's pretty embarrassing because I want to pleasure her more than I want to get pleasure out of it. It seems like I had "beginners luck" the first time. Is it most likely that I got "lucky" the first time and am now a 5-minute man?
477 A: You have only had sex a total of four times. It's impossible to say what the future will be like. There are many many things you can do to help sexually pleasure your partner. Also, what a lot of men do not realize, is that if they are having an orgasm in 5 minutes, they might just need to calmly take a break for 10 or 20 minutes before they will once again get another erection. During this time, you can do whatever your partner thinks feels good such as oral sex, manual stimulation (partner masturbation), foreplay for the second time, etc. The key is to not get down on yourself to kill the mood. If you are ejaculating in 5 minutes, it is safe to say that your girlfriend must be really pretty and special. She probably just causes your body to respond fast because you like her so much. Tell her these facts. You might also want to give yourself time to "un-learn" the quick orgasms you are having. But keep in mind that the average ejaculation time for a man is about five minutes. Often women do need longer to achieve orgasm, which makes it necessary for partners to work together on these issues.
(18g) Q:   Is reading stories about sexual fantasies considered pornographic?
478 A: In today's lingo, the word "pornographic" usually means "naked photographs" or "pictures of nudity". However, I have heard of erotic literature referred to as "pornographic literature" in some cases. On our site, we try to get people to discuss the psychology behind their sexual experiences, but much of it comes in as plain erotic text. Nevertheless, there is a science behind both the psychology of sexual experiences and erotic literature. Both say a lot about the norms, values, and ideas inside people of any given time in history
(19g) Q:   Every time my girlfriend and I are engaging in fellatio, I want her to swallow my semen, but she thinks she can get a disease or something that way. Is it possible?
479 A: The act of swallowing semen will not cause a disease in and of itself. However, if one partner is infected with a sexually transmitted disease, then yes, it is possible to catch a disease from oral sex. The mouth is a port of entry for germs. A cut or cold sore in the mouth/throat increases your chances even more. It does not happen as often as catching a disease from sexual intercourse, but it is still definitely possible. In fact, she may not even have to swallow the semen to contract a disease.
(20g) Q:   My little brother just turned 12, but since he was 10, he would try to feel me and my female friends up when they come over. He would hold me or my friend down, and pretend he is having sex with us. I talked to my parents about this and they say its a phase he is going through. What's really going on?
480 A: (1) It is hard to say what is really going on without interviewing your brother. However, regardless of any "phase" he may be going through, he is still responsible for his actions. It sounds to me like he is holding people down against their will. A 12 year old can be reasoned with in a conversation. I would first have a conversation with him about it and let him know that he has no right to hold people down against their will. Second, if he doesn't listen, insist that your parents talk to him about it. He is too old to be play-acting like an animal. If he hasn't already, he will become sexually developed. Sometime soon, he will be able to be held legally accountable for such actions. He is old enough to know this fact. (2) If he is trying to feel you or your friend's privates, he needs to be stopped as soon as possible. That could be taken as sexual molestation by many people. Chances are, he just thinks of it as "teasing girls". However, he needs to know there are consequences for this kind of thing when a boy becomes a young man, which he is now.

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