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NAME: jhu 199 Q: What is the best method of anal
stimulation? This arouses me, and I would love to experience someone doing
it to me. Should I be worried and how would I go about it? A: Since everyone is different when it comes to these things, the
"best" way can only be the best technique that works well for you. However,
I would definitely suggest starting with one or two fingers. Then, you can
choose a variety of other objects if you so desire to experiment further.
Things like carrots or bananas are generally safe, but it can still be painful
if it is forced. Also, adult stores sell many objects that can enhance the
experience and "hit the spot" you are seeking to stimulate. You have to be
careful during anal stimulation because the intestinal lining can tear and
cause a temporary bleed (not to mention pain). It's also possible to get
objects lodged in the rectum if what you are using is too small. This tends
to cause people to panic. Some people actually have to go to the hospital
to have the stuck object removed. In the beginning, stick with using fingers
until you learn your limitations.
NAME: jhu 200 Q: I have been trying what you said about
using my fingers first then I tried a pen its sooooo amazing I'm not gay
but love this type of stimulation could you give any more e.g technique advice
as to this practice and any other methods of general male stimulation that
you have heard of that I might enjoy I'm just soooo f****n horny A: Sorry, we only give general advice to maintain a general audience
here. But there are other websites on that topic. You may want to search
the Web for
"Anal Stimulation" - Google NAME: cute teen 201 Q: Must the penis be lubricated before
anal sex? A: It generally best if it is. However, some people can do it without
lubrication, although I don't recommend it. NAME: Guy
119 Q: When I was masturbating, I could
lick the tip of my penis. Is this normal? A: Most men can not lick the tip of their penis, but I'm going to
say something like that is wrong to do. It's totally up to you. NAME: (Anonymous) 144 Q: When I'm with my girlfriend, sometimes
semen is let out in my underwear. Is this normal? A: Yes, it is definitely normal. What you see and feel in your underwear
is pre-ejaculatory fluid from the cowper's gland (pre-cum). Some guys notice
it more than others. Some men secrete very little or no pre-cum, while other
men secrete quite a lot of pre-cum. All the cases I just mentioned are totally
normal. NAME: mark 148 Q: I tried anal stimulation by using
a banana covered by a condom. Will it cause any abnormality? I have a slight
pain. A: The pain will only be temporary. What you did is generally safe
if you feel comfortable with it. NAME: 164 Q: I have a strong sexual urge towards
my mom. I'm only 15 and masturbate 4 or 5 times a day. Does this make me
a sicko? Should I carry out my plans to have sex with her? A: No, it does not make you a sick-o. And no, you have no need to
carry out sex with your mother. It is natural to become aroused by attractive
people. However, this does not mean you should act on every single
fantasy, impulse, or desire. NAME: confused 159 Q: When I was 10 and my older sister
was 14 we use to have sex at least twice a week. Then my parents divorced
and she moved with my father. Since then we stay in contact but she has a
husband and I have a girlfriend. The problem is when I have sex with my
girlfriend I am thinking of my sister, when I masturbate I am thinking of
my sister, I even masturbate over sexy photos of her. Is this becoming obsessive?
What should I do? A: Maybe you need to talk to a counselor about this issue. Obsession
can be a very big problem if it is taken to extremes. Until then, try to
stop thinking about your sister. If you believe in God, say a prayer for
the strength every day.
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NAME: 163 Q: I was wondering when having sex
and using a condom if is it dangerous if after cumming inside a girl, if
you keep on going, will the cum leek out of the condom? A: No birth control method is 100% effective, except abstinence. Although
a condom will cut down on the chances of the semen leaking out, there is
a very small possibility that it could happen. It's best to use condoms that
come with spermicide. There is a chemical in them that kills the sperm on
contact. There are also spermicides sold separately in some places that sell
condoms and birth control devices. NAME: (Anonymous) 169 Q: I am 37 years old. The last few
months, my husband would rather have me give him a hand job every night than
have sex with me is this normal? A: It just sounds like you need to communicate about experimenting
with new techniques and your own desires. Partners have to come to agreements
and compromises to make sexual relationships work. NAME: Ryan 173 Q: I go on porn all the time. Will
this cause effects for the future? So, what is wrong with me? A: Pornography can become an addiction just like gambling or substance
abuse. I do not know the extent of your pornography experiences, but you
should be aware that it has the potential to become a serious problem. Generally,
when you start to think something like this might be a problem, it usually
already is. People who use pornography in a non-problematic recreational
or casual setting usually do not take time to inquire and wonder if they
have a problem. However, you may not have a pornography addiction at all.
Only you can find out the answer to that. See if you can relate at
http://sa.org NAME: xxx 174 Q: How old do you have to be to legally
be able to have sex in the state of Pennsylvania in the United
States? A: The age of sexual consent in the Commonweatlh of Pennsylvania has
been known to change from time to time without any real notice to the public.
It is also a more complicated law than you might expect. You cannot just
give it a number (age) and expect everything to turn out legally for you
in the future. You have to use your judgment. You should only be involved
with partners that are similar in maturity to yourself. They should be in
the same age bracket (age group). For example, if you are in high school,
your partner should also be around high school age. If you are over 21, it
is best to develop sexual relationships with persons no younger than 18
(approximately). In my opinion, if you are over 30, you should definitely
not be involved with anyone younger than 18, regardless of law. See -
State Age of Sexual
Consent Laws. NAME: 175 Q: My husband has told me he gets
erections at women's sexual parts (all women, even unattractive women) is
this right? Does getting an erection mean he fancies them or wants to have
sex with them? Is this just his body responding to sexual stimuli, does it
necessarily mean anything? A: His body may just be responding to unintentional sexual stimuli.
This is more common in men than it is in women. However, most men do not
admit these sorts of things to their wives. Based on what you told me, it
may not necessarily (probably not) mean anything abnormal or unusual. NAME: strait male 179 Q: Is there any way to safely intensify
orgasms? You, know, make them better or last longer? A: Absolutely, there are may techniques described out there on the
Internet. The editorial we published on this topic is called the
Stop-and-Go method.
NAME: help! (Female)
181 Q: I am a 22 year old female and
my boyfriend is 23. When we have sex, I notice that right before his climax,
he seems to get weak. During his climax he starts to sweat and sometimes
he collapses on to me. When he is done, he is usually always out of breath.
I don't want to think he is weak, but what is wrong with him? Is the male
orgasm that great that it "Stuns" them? A: I'm not sure there is anything wrong with him. And I'm not sure
what you mean by "weak". An orgasm takes a lot of energy out of a man, but
it's nothing more than running or jogging for five minutes would do to the
body. NAME: high boy 182 Q: Lately I have noticed that I am
getting easily aroused, and often find myself with an erection, at home,
gym and at work. I am embarrassed about this because I know someone has to
be able to see my erection through my pants. Sometimes the sensation overwhelms
me and I have the strong need to go into a bathroom and masturbate. Why is
this happening to me? I also have noticed that my scrotum is always pulled
tight up against my crotch. I have noticed other guys (in the gym locker
room) and theirs hang down most of the time. What’s with that? Could
this have a direct effect on my ejaculating very far? A: Spontaneous erections are something that all males have to deal
with. People cannot prove you have an erection even if it looks like you
do. I don't think there is anything wrong with your scrotum. I also don't
think ejaculation distance has anything to do with the scrotum at all. Be
careful when comparing yourself to other men. You are looking very closely
upon yourself at restricted angles (even if you are using a mirror). You're
seeing the other in unrestricted angles. Perception of your own body can
play mind tricks on you if you try to over-analyze it. NAME: Might be a stupid question 186 Q: I'm 19 and still a virgin. My
girlfriend keeps pressuring me into having sex, but I feel if I do, I will
disappoint her because I'm not sure how long I will last before I cum. When
I masterbate, it usually only takes 10 minutes, from that fact is there a
way on determining how long I will last. And also if I decide to have sex
with her, ("Obviously I am going to use a condom"), I was wondering like
when I need to cum, do I need to pull out or can I stay in her. A: (1) There is really no way to tell how long you would last during
sex. Unfortunately, there is no mathematical formula to determine the time
correlation of masturbation and sex. (2) Normally men do leave their penis
inside the woman if they are using a condom.
NAME: mug25 187 Q: I'am a 27 year old straight male.
But when I do cocaine, I fantasize, and sometimes participate in gay sex.
How come? A: Cocaine is a mood-mind altering drug that can affect the sexual
libido. Generally, illegal drugs cause people to do things that they normally
wouldn't do. That's why they are illegal or controlled by many national and
local governments. In your case, it is just causing you to engage in sexual
activity that is unusual for you. For other people, it causes them to commit
crimes, steal, drive recklessly, spend all their money, act irrationally,
develop mental panic/anxiety, develop mental depression, develop psychosis,
or abuse/neglect their friends, families, and/or partner(s). NAME: providenceri
193 Q: When I masturbate, sometimes I
can put my penis in my own anus hole. Is that normal? A: It has been known to be a thing some guys do. But most men cannot
do this because their penis will not bend in that direction or because their
penis simply cannot reach their anus. I wouldn't say it is "abnormal". I
think it's just "unique". At the very worst, it could be considered "unusual"
by some other people. Nevertheless, I bet most guys (including myself)
have been curious enough to try to do it, even though we couldn't physically
reach that far. NAME: PM
194 Q: Is male multiple ejaculation
harmful? A: No. If you can ejaculate multiple times in a row, it does no physical
harm. Some guys experience some mild to moderate pains after ejaculating
or orgasming multiple times, but the pain does subside. NAME: veryhot 204 Q: What determines whether the gay
is active or passive? A: Within the orientation of homosexuality, there are different
preferences among those who are gay. Each male may have his own tendencies
towards being passive or aggressive just as one might have tendencies to
be heterosexual or homosexual. It is interesting to note that not nearly
all homosexual relationships contain a passive and an aggressive partner.
It's very possible for passives fall in love with passives and aggressives
fall in love with aggressives. Then, there are those men that engage in both
roles equally. On top of that, there are those that are on the borderline
between the two roles and may seek out any of the above for a partner. It's
kind of like a spectrum, which tends to cause vague explanations of "why"
people are the way they are. I have found it interesting that feminine gays
are not always the passive ones, but the degree of femininity or masculinity
can be a factor in many cases.