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NAME: Matthew
072 Q: I understand that five minutes
is about average for ejaculation to take place. Does this mean five minutes
from the start of intercourse, or what? I am a twenty-five year old virgin
and can easily keep an erection for 45 minutes or longer when I masturbate.
Even when thrusting into a pillow if I use the stop and go method. But I
have always worried about ejaculating too quickly whenever I finally do have
real sex, just because the feeling will be so much more pleasurable and intense.
I doubt I will last for one minute, let alone five. Am I worrying for
nothing? A: Yes, you are worrying about a problem you don't even have yet.
NAME: SX
077 Q: I am 20, and I am too much addicted
to porn. Friday is suppose to be my rest day but I waste all my time watching
porn. I do not think its a good habit to watch porn... What can I
do? A: If you don't think it is good for you, you should try to stop.
If you cannot stop but you really want to, you can investigate programs such
as http://sa.org and
http://www.slaafws.org NAME: Buddy 080 Q: Is it normal to have an erection
for more than 12 hours. I tried it once and came after 12 h for the first
time that day. There was so much sperm, that after 2 minutes I came 1 more
time and then again 3-5 times. Is it proper, that your penis gets harder
and harder, if you try to prolong the excitement? My balls are then hard
like rocks and after orgasms they hurt for a couple of hours. But it only
happens when I masturbate more than 3 hours a day. I try doin' it not to
often, but it happens 4 times a month. During work it never happens, only
when I'm at home. Although I am somehow a sexaholic, I can stop even for
a month or more. I masturbate 10 years (from the age of 12). I know it's
strange, but it helps me to win self-confidence. I feel guilty sometimes,
but I know that it's my body. I've read bulls**t that this causes sicknesses.
Well, I have blood pressure problems (152/90;heartbeat 88) but in most of
times I feel great and don't even know that. One day it's 120, and then later
it's 140, even without masturbating. Please tell me. Do I have to worry or
must I stop jacking off, because sometimes I need 1 hour, 5 minutes, but
lately 3-4 hours, then again 1 minute or even 20 seconds. A: It is not normal to have a full erection for 12 hours. It is normal
for the penis to get harder and harder with prolonged arousal. I don't think
it causes a physical sickness that you read about. The only sickness is the
addiction if you do have one. There is not enough information in your story
to recommend treatment, but you can check
http://sa.org and see if you relate.
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NAME: Wonderer 083 Q: Is it OK to masturbate in a pool
or put your penis up to the jet? Also, if I masturbate in a pool, and a woman
goes in can she get pregnant? Does any of this make me a weirdo? A: No, you're not a weirdo... and you won't get a woman pregnant by
masturbating in the pool. Don't feel bad, one time a guy asked me if his
fish were going to get pregnant because he realized he had some semen on
his hand when he was cleaning his fish tank aquarium after having recently
masturbated.
NAME: outside 085 Q: I have a couple of questions .
1. my friend has a couple of stuffed animals with holes in them, is it ok
to stick my penis in them and hump them? 2.does it make gay if I masturbated
with a friend a couple of times? What about if once we masturbated each other
off? I also want to know if this makes me a creepy sicko? A: (1) I don't know if it is OK to stick your penis into your friend's
stuffed animals. (2) Masturbating with a friend does not cause someone to
be "gay". However, it does open the door for some people as far as experimenting
with the type of sex gay men have. (3) These types of questions and
ideas are called "curious" rather than "creepy sicko". NAME: Raj 089 Q: I am 21 year old male from india.
My problem is about a 10 days back when me and my girl friend got close,
I did not have a proper erection (while usually I used to get a proper hard
erection). The size of the penis grows but the erection is not that hard
as it use to be. I am observing this irregular semi-hard erection when I
try to manstrubate also. Yes I also smoke but not many cigs just about 2
cigs a day. Earlier when I used to get aroused, my penis used to get erect
without touching it; but now I have to work on it to get it erect, and then,
too its not as hard as it used to be. Please help very tensed about this.
It never happened 10 days back but now its happening please tell me will
it come back to its original hardness that I use to have or should I consult
some doctor as this is a very early stage? A: I think it will go back to the way it was. However, all the anxiety
you are having over this issue is the primary psychological cause of the
issue itself. When you are worried about your erection, you usually do not
get a good erection. This is the case with every male who worries about it
too much. What you need is relaxation and patience.
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NAME: whatsup 092 Q: Yesterday in my bedroom closet
I found a stash of gay magazines and sexual devices used by and for men.
They belonged to my husband of 11 yrs. I had no idea and am in complete shock
not to mention totally repulsed! When I confronted him he tried to blame
it on a friend but I wore him down and he confessed they were his and he
had been curious about male/male sex. He was a truck driver for several yrs
which gave him opportunity live anyway he wanted while on the road. My question
is. Is he gay, bi or just oversexed? I've noticed since being off the road
now his bedroom technique has really slumped and there is times he can't
even stay erect. Could it be he is having thoughts of other males and has
lost all desire for me? I am at a loss as to handle this. I look at him and
just get sick to my stomach. I won't even sleep in the same bed with him
now. Am I wrong for feeling this way? A: I don't think you are wrong for feeling the way you do. It sends
the body and mind into shock when you find out your partner has been hiding
something so deep and personal. At this point, it sounds like the marriage
is in jeopardy. If you still have a desire to be with this man, the best
thing to do is try to see if you can resolve this issue through effective
communication. Marriage counseling is optimal in this case, but some people
simply cannot reach a counselor and/or afford a counselor. If you have any
third-party-diplomatic type of person such as a Priest, Minister, Mentor,
Family Friend, or any other neutral third party, I would suggest getting
together and talking this thing through. Your husband may or may not be "gay".
Sometimes males go through gay phases and the issue can be resolved. Other
times, the male has deep burning desires that cannot be ignored. He has to
find out if being homosexual is part of who he is. NAME: (Anonymous)
101 Q: If you never had sex but you
masterbate 1 time a day for the last 2 year is it true that you wont cum
as fast as if you never had a orgasm and if you don't masterbate at all and
never had sex how long will it take you to cum A: Usually, the less often a man ejaculates the faster he will come
to an orgasm (through sex or masturbation). NAME: Jake
113 Q: I am 25 years old and am living
with my first serious girlfriend. We have been together for about 1 year
and 3 months. When we first started getting serious, we had sex about 6 times
a week. Now we are having sex like maybe once every few weeks and that is
if we are drunk. I don't think there is anything wrong with my penis because
I masturbate a couple times a week. She wants sex more than I do it seems,
which to me is opposite. I get erect sometimes around her but most of the
time, I just don't feel like having sex. Is this more of a psychological
thing or physical thing? A: Probably a psychological thing. It sounds like you just need to
get more creative in your sex life with foreplay, new techniques, or even
sex toys. NAME: kid
118 Q: I'm 16 and my best friend's mom
is so hot. One day she masterbated me, and that led to so hard-core sex three
months later. She told me I got her pregnant what should I do? A: The better question would be what should she do. She is
an adult that will have to make some tough decisions. You need to talk to
her about these decisions also. If you are 16 years old, I think you know
enough that sex can cause pregnancy. In the future, you have to be cautious
and think things through before you act. (Something seems to tell me that
this question could be a bit of a "pinchbeck").