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somebody pleasured my cock older person when young, which encouraged my bisexuality. being pleasured sexualy by same sex when young can alter sexual prefference yes they can
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I think that people are born with a sexual preferance. I do not know if a person's sexual preference can be changed,however I do think that people's actions in terms of who they have sex with can be influanced by many factors, such as birth enviroment and life experiances. the only egzample I can give for birth is my own personal belief that all people areborn with a sexual preference. an egzample of the way someone's enviroment infulences their sexual preferance is most likely far more complex then I could ever explane, but I will atempt to give a brief sinario. If a person grows up in an atmosphear that potrays homosexuality as the worst thing that could posably hapen to a person then in many cases that person will have had no contact with other open homosexuals in a normal enviroment so they will grow up believeing they are heterosexual be it true or not. those that do think they are homosexual may deni it and may suffer sivear social and phicological problems.
I can't remember a time when I wasn't attracted to men. I believe it is genetic. I feel I was put on this earth to be with men. I was married once. The most awfull time I can remember. Not because there was any thing wrong with my wife. I just hated having sex with women.
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Curves. Heterosexuals are subconsciously fascinated by curves and most things round. Hence, the shape and form of the female body with all their parts cause a reaction in all males heero or homosexuals alike.
My sexual preference is caused by the same thing that causes my eye color... It is within my being. This can be the same as allergies. Do you choose to be allergic to something? No, you just are. Since I have only been me, I can't speak for other's sexual preference being caused by the same thing as mine. Deep down, we all know what our sexual orientation is. The perception that we give out to the world may be at odds with who we really are. I can change my sexual orientation for a small time period if there is enough cash yet it will always come back to me being more comfortable and sexually aroused by men.
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My sexuality was determined by the same factors that determined by all the things that make me uniquely me. I believe that our sexuality is determined at the time of conception and that we can not have an effect on someone elses sexuality.
My sexuality and preference was determined by my genes. I believe that gayness, bisexuality, and heterosexuality is determined by the genes that we inherit. We cant change our sexual orientation any more than we can change our size or eye color. No one can change the fact that I am a gay man. I firmly believe that I can not change anyone elses orientation
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I believe sexual preference isn't a choice, but, I believe in God, and there fore I believe that homosexuality and bisexuality is immoral and should not be encouraged. Please don't think I hate gay people, I have 2 friends that are gay, and they know my Point of view on the matter, but it doesn't mean that I force my opinion on them.
I was in my late 20's when a buddy and I were wresling. He pned me and started rubbing my penis through my genes. I resisted at first but soon found the pleasurable feelings too much and just relaxed with mixed feelings. He noticed that I no longer resisted so he opened my pants and pulled them down, then took my penis in his mouth. I had an orgasm with no delay and shot more cum than I had sense my first sexual experience. This session made me realize that I could enjoy sex with both sexes and have sense. Prior that time I had masterbated with a few friends but nothing further with males. He awakened a desire that I guess had always existed and one I still enjoy even though I am happily married for many years and have children and grand children.
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I came from a female dominate family, older sister and mother in control. Discovered masterbation first and girls next. As explained in another question in this survey, I found out by accident that I could be sexually attracted and enjoy sex with both sexes while wrestling with a friend. Until that time I did not know he was bi.
I feel we are born one way or the other. I was born gay, those who are not and say we can change do not know what they are talking about. They do not have the answers. I was indeed born gay.
I beleive we are all to a degree attracted to both men and women. I think if the right opportunites were to present themselves to any of us we have the ability to react to them, that could result in sex with a man if you are a man or female if you are a female. I think part of us is what society poo poos. Let's be honest if we had no risk of being disclosed would we have the fear of having same sex relationships.
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I believe we are all born as either gay or straight as a default but can change over time either through our experiences or by choice. I was born straight and have always had a strong sexual attraction to women. Over time I've gone from being very attracted to slim blonde women to prefering plump brunettes to mature women etc... but I had never had any attraction to men at all and I don't mean I repressed it, I mean it wasn't there before but by looking at pornography of transsexuals and slowly becoming more aroused by it over time, I begun to want to explore if I could enjoy sex with a proper man. The idea aroused me but I was never able for many years to find any images of men that were arousing in the same way as I had for women and transsexuals. I often came back to the subject and would look for gay pornography with men I found attractive and slowly I have become more attracted to men not just in pornography but in every day life. At the same time, I have begun to lose my interest in women. I don't mean I don't like women anymore but rather I prefer to think about men both romantically and sexually and am slowly becoming less restricted in the types of men I find attractive. I believe that I can and will become gay and that my heterosexual desires are subsiding more each day. I also believe that I can stop this transition if I want as it has only been by intentionally persisting in trying to be gay that I have come so far and been able to change my natural heterosexual tendancies. I wanted to share this experiance as I have read about gay people wanting to become straight but not the other way round. Am I the only straight person who wants to be gay?? Also, unusually, I have no gay friends at all though the friends I have confided in are supportive of me. I know many of you will wonder why I want to be gay and I can't really give an answer other than I want to experience love with people that I had never considered before and I know I'll regret it if I don't.
I'm 33 and my first gay thought was 5 years ago so it's been a long process but I'm convinced that becoming gay will be the best thing I've ever done. Finding a man to fall in love with has now become my greatest hope for the future. I hope my story helps someone else in my position to understand that they are not alone in wanting to change their sexuality for whatever reason!
Brian
I don't know. My guess is that sexual preferences are caused by genetics and environment. Gender preference is probably more genetic, but I think sexual practices and techniques are more likely determined by experiences and environment.
I think people are born with their preferences. Some get a chance to discover that they have options and others do not. I got to try bisexual stuff and discovered that I am straight. I did a lot of anal and oral (both giving and getting) when I was in school. It was way easier to find a horny guy or group of guys than to find one horny chick. Now, if someone asks at a party, sometimes I will do anal on a guy or let them suck me. Partly I am being polite but mostly it is that I when I am erect I will put my penis anywhere it is welcome. I say I am straight because I never have fantasies about guys or look at guys on the street the way I look at chicks.
I think what you are exposed to shapes your mind. I went to boarding school were everyone talked about wanting to screw girls but did homo things to relieve the pressure. No one had a choice. It was a tradition. Senior boys did what they wanted with junior boys. It was a way of being accepted. I am married and still want sex with guys. Most gay guys want to kiss. We never kissed at school. We sucked or pumped, no formalities. I don't feel right kissing a guy.
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I've always thought the human body, male and female, can both be attractive. Because I have quite an imagination, and having the libido that I do, I had sexual thoughts about both sexes. This had me confused through my teens and into my early adult life. I had only experimented through mutual masturbation with cousins and friends at a young age. But it was always about getting off. I was a horny teenager. When it comes to sex and relationships I think about women. I have fallen in love with women, (I am now married) I can imagine spending my life with her, growing old with her, having children with her. When my thoughts would turn to men, (which occasionally do) it was just about the physical aspect. Not love, or commitment or loyalty, just sex. It was always fantasy about my own sex and looking for someone to be a mirror image. I know what it feels like to cum and seeing another man cum, just showed how great sex feels. I think most men are created this way (they have the ability to look at both sexes and see how beautiful they are). Some men can show how they feel and not supress it, while others can't admit that God made two beutiful forms. Part of our make-up determines who we are going to love (with commitment and loyalty - and not just sex). Genetics tell us who we will have an emotional connection too.
I believe that sexual preference has no single cause. I feel there are different causes as each individual varies. I believe my sexual preference to be bisexual was caused from several factors. My mother was overprotective, and was more dominant than my father, who I feel was more like the average person. At an early age, I identified with her more, and even wanted to be a girl at one time. There were older girls in the neighborhood who would come over to our house and spend time with me. I really LOVED doing girl stuff, like playing with dolls, painting my toenals and fingernails like they did, and even playing a female role when we were playing. Needless to say, I was a pretty good girl! But then there were some boys who I was friends with as well. They came over and we played our usual boy games and all. But there was one type of playing that helped shape me into what I am today. I had sex the first time with a guy when I was 5 years old, believe it or not, with my 8 year old cousin. He introduced me to it, and I didn't even know what it was. Even though it was not so exciting, I did enjoy it and still don't regret doing it one bit. The next year, two other friends of mine were at the house, and asked me if I wanted to have sex. I agreed, and this was the start of many, many times we would have sex together. From age 6 to age 9, we had sex very regularly, and I enjoyed it very much. But what I didn't know was how sex was connected to romantic relationships with girls. I just thought that sex was what a bunch of guys did when they were together to have fun. When I was 10, another friend of mine explained to me how girls got pregnant. At first, I was really turned off with this. Doing this stuff was not a nice thing to do with a girl. My dad had always taught me to treat girls with respect, and to never talk dirty around them. Thinking of sex as being something dirty or not nice, I didn't go for things at first. It would not be until I went through puberty at the age of 12 that I would start to have sexual attractions for girls. From age 12 to 16, I was attracted EXCLUSIVELY to girls. But when I was 16, all of a sudden I started to notice guys in a sexual way as well. I didn't even want to feel this way, it just happened. I had heard all the things about gays and all, and had later found out that the sex acts my friends and I were doing were the same thing that gay people did. I still was attracted to girls, but was becoming increasingly attracted to guys as well. While in college, my attractions toward guys skyrocketed. I had a guilty complex because of this. At first, I thought this same sex attraction was a phase, but year after year, it never went away. Over time, I soon came around to accept these feelings, and after I was able to accept them, I felt better about myself than I ever did. Today, I'm bisexual and VERY proud of it. I feel that I have the advantage of being able to be attracted to BOTH girls and guys, and therefore have a larger pool of people to choose from. I would NEVER change even if I could. And I do not regret having sex with my male friends at a young age, as I feel they introduced me to something that no one else could ever do. I don't really think that someone can change their sexual orientation. I really think mine was set from the start, as I seem to have been half boy, half girl from as early as I can remember. Even though I'm mostly masculine, I still have that slight feminine side, and still like to hang out with women today!
there is no cut and dry answer to this question. if it were that easy then a lot of people would be out of a job. i do believe that one is born a certain way, nature but i do believe that nurture factors into the equation as well. i, personally, i am still trying to figure out what i am. i have had sex w/ both men and women, but i can't decide if it's because i am bisexual or simply not very choosy in who i have sex w/. either way, it's a loaded question w/ no definitive answer.
I believe its the persons choice to be gay, bisexual, or straight. I am 200% straight. I hate gay-metrosexuals... If you're gay im ok with that as long as you dont try and be matrosexual or try to recruit people. I dont have much to say about bisexuals but the being half-gay is kinda weird to me.
I guess sexuyal preference is genetic, probably for everyone. I do not think you can change your own or someone else's orientation.
I always though the only sex was with a woman.I was married about twenty years, when my wife had to go out of town. We have always had a good sex life(at least 3 times a week) so i neede to be satisfied and masturbation was not doing for me,I have to have a nother person to enjoy sex so I answared a ad for a exotic rub down by a male. It seemed a exciting thing to do,so I went and it was wunderful. I had never held a mans penis in my hand or mouth be for.I see him now about once a month we do and say things my wife would or cant do,but I still love her and have great sex with her.I cant see how any man would not want to have sex with a man.
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Its the old nature vs. nurture debate. I believe that your enviroment can greatly decide your preference.I live in a house with women and i never determined myself gay or bi but i think about men sometimes. My friends are always crazy over girls and me being a gentleman i dont act that way towards women. Dont get me wrong there are some girls in my school i find good looking. However i still look at the boys in my school to. So i believe that nuture has everything to do with it.
I am not 100% sure that we are born with our sexual preference, but that may be the case. Upbringing and circumstances may have a lot to do with it. I think most of us are bi to a certain degree, but of course I can only speak for myself. When I was quite young I thought I might be gay and actually went to far as to have a few homosexual experiences. I cannot say that I did not enjoy it, but at the same time did not find it fulfilling or very sexy. I just prefer sex with females and find it much more satisfying. I also masturbate a great deal and like that also. Everyone is different.
I'm not really sure what my sexual preference is, as I get turned on by both men and women. I think that in nature we are set up to be a certain sexuality, however through nurture we can change. For example, when I was quite young, me and one of my freinds, were playing around and ended up giving each other blow jobs and jerking each other off, and i think that this is one of the reasons why I am undecided.
1. I don't know. I'm gay since I can remember.
2. I don't really know. Maybe there are many ways to be straight or gay. Maybe it's only genetics, or nurture, or both. Who knows? And who cares?
3. There is not scientific evidence for that. But there is people that can say a lie under the pressure of religion's brainwashing, and then their lives become an unhappy lie too. Although all we are free to choice what to do with oneselves.
Many factors contribute to a person's sexuality - nature, nurture, relationships. It is too complex to be fully understood at this time, and I wonder if we can ever fully know what causes sexual preference. It's like trying to understand why some people have a deep craving for sugar, while others desire salt. The question is too complex, and is indeed different for every person.
As far as changing one's sexuality - I believe that no one can consciously change their own sexual preference, and certainly not someone else's sexual preference. Since the vast majority of gay people fight like crazy to not be gay before finally accepting their preference, if it were possible to change their sexuality most gay people would have done so to avoid a lifetime of rejection and struggle. Don't get me wrong - I now love the fact that I'm gay. But before I accepted my sexuality, I tried for a long time to change and I know many many people who have had the same experience.
I believe that sexuality can evolve throughout one's lifetime, and a person can find themselves attracted to people they once thought unattractive. But this is a complex and largely subconscious evolution, and not something that can be consciously controlled or shifted.
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Sexual preference is innate, and shouldn't be an issue in our society, and I don't believe anyone's sexual preference can be changed.
1) Like everything else, a mixture of nature and nurture 2) Probably not
I suspect it's biological, probably genetic, but possibly influenced by prenatal chemistry. If it were learned, it wouldn't be so persistent and universal. I've experimented with men more than once but have never found it to be nearly as intense as relations with women. Nor do I find men attractive and very rarely fantasize about gay sex. I've given it the old college try, but it seems I'm wired for girls.
I believe, like some here, that sexual orientation is something a person is already born with. I don't think it's possible to change whom you're attracted to. I also believe that to some degree, we are all attracted to both men and women and that if an opportunity arises for us to explore that attraction (either hetero or homo), then that's where we proceed. It is only then that AFTER that curiousity is satisfied that it becomes a choice whether we continue pursuing those of the same sex or opposite.
I was raised by a dominant mother, and my father was largely absent from my life. I am sexually attracted to females as I know how great sex is with them. However, I am more emotionally attracted to males, as I don't trust women over the long haul. Also, my father was uncircumcised, but my older step-brother was cut. After my dad was gone [divorce] my mom had me cut when I was in sixth grade, [she thought] so I wouldn't be embarrased in the locker room. However, by this time I had been traumatized by being uncircumcised for quite some time. I was happy to be cut at that time, but I had already experienced quite a few years of feeling different and inferior to other males [because I wasn't circumcised as they all seemed to be]. I think all of these issues contribute to my feelings of sexual confusion. I also feel that genetics are a part of it . . . though in my case, had I been circumcised at birth [as were the vast majority of my peers], and been brought up by two parents therefore having both a male and female role model, I have no real idea what my sexual orientation would be. I feel that my own situation is to a fairly high degree psychological but perhaps I would be bisexual anyway.
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Everyones cause for choosing their sexual preference is differant. Mine is mostly towards the same sex because I'm very sexually pleased being with another male. Not every guy attracted to another guy has this preference because he likes a hairy chest, legs, muscles, or cock and balls. Sometimes it's all about sex and giving or recieving with another of the same sex. I myself get turned on with having a cock and it doesn't have anything to do with me having one. I've also made my preference because I'm more of a male sub to other males and like to be attracted that way.(Like top or bottom) I don't believe anyone could change another person's preference unless they wanted it because they found out that they like it better that way. Everybody decides for themselves in the long run what they like!
There were two distinct ocurrences in my youth that made me by. One, a relative who was close to my age engaged me in mutual masturbation, and when I spent the night with a girlfriend when I was thirteen. My girlfriends uncle, who was in the miliatry, woke me up by sucking my dick and I had never felt anything so good. However, the softness of a womans ass and tits still drive me crazy and it is my preference.
My sexual preference is something very deep and immutable. Naked men are not a turn-on for me, whereas I get aroused immediately when I am with a woman in a sexual situation (even if there is no nudity involved). This is not to say I find men ugly in any way. I think the human body of both sexes is very odd and beautiful. Sexual preference likely has much more to do with someone's experience than their orientation. Having met many men who are gay, yet are married to one of the opposite sex and women in the same predicament, I think that people are much happier when their preference is also their orientation. If you are straight, bi, or gay, be proud and happy. What is most important is that you are caring lover.
It is my belief that some people are born who they are. Yet, it is also my belief that there are others that chose who they had become because of life experiences. I don't believe that there is one blanket answer that covers everyone's sexual preference. I think this is particularly so for bisexuals. I can be as easily aroused by an erect penis as I am a woman's vagina. For me it mostly depends upon the person with whom is the object of my focus, and the situation. I believe that it's possible that a person can change their own orientation, as well as having the ability to change another's sexual orientation. However, I believe it is easier to change another's sexual orientation than their own.
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I think genetics plays a huge role in our primary attraction, but I also think that we humans have the ability to expand our realm of attraction as we grow older. Society in general tends to pressure everyone to fit into neat categories, but we need not submit to this pressure. As I grew older and was exposed to a wide range of people and experiences, I discovered that I love both men and women, and can be sexually attracted to the whole spectrum of gender identification. It was only my societal conditioning that kept me from recognizing this. I'm attracted to certain human characteristics, not to biological characteristics associated with a particular gender. Actually, if I'm attracted to a person, the nature of the genitalia are not important to me. And, I don't give a rat's ass what the church or the guys at work think about this.
i have been gay since as long as i can remeber. i didnt choose to be gay or what not. it was something that i felt as a child and knew all along. i hate the fact that i am tabooed and called a sinner for being gay. i was born this way and i am happy of that fact.
I prefer man to man sex but have the same urges toward women. I enjoy performing orally on both sexes and have the same intensity of orgasms given by man or woman. Being bi-sexual was not born in me, just my longings to satisfy and be satisfied. Availibility of sex partners is more than doubled by being bi-sexual. I wouldn't change anything about my sexuality.
I am almost 18 and I am really confused, as I feel unattracted to either sex. At one stage I was sure I was gay, then I was sure I was straight. I think having unwated sexual experiences when I was very young with a man has stuffed up my sexuality altogether, as my true straight side is clashing with my past gay side, and I am hoping that it will sort itself out soon. Until then, I am happy just masturbating. ;)
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One must distinguish between sexual identity, sexual orientation and sexual behaviour. The first two are beyond one's control. The latter is within ou control. There are many theories about what causes sexual orientation. However the most accepted and plausable explanation is a combination of genetic and environmental factors. Some individuals are predisposed, genitically, to being homosexual and certain environmental factors can trigger off a genetic trait causing one to become homosexual.
I am sure that my sexual orientations caused by my childhood experience. My first rememberances are sexual ones. I use to masturbate since my ealy childhood. My mother masturbated me
As of late I am primarily turned on my men. Getting a hard reaming and sucking cock are my most powerful sexual desires, I'm not sure why I like playing the feminine role during sex, but I know I love it, and I don't believe I can ever change that..
I am 25 years old and strongly attracted to women. But, like a person in a previous answer somtimes look for bi pornography on the internet. This is because i worry that I may infact be bisexual or even gay. I know I was born straight as I always fancied girls. My first sexual experience was not a pleasent one and i ended up losing my erection. This worried me and this is probably why I started looking to test myself. I somtimes worry when im with my partner that I will lose my erection and then wonder why, again leading me on a search for a motive, i.e sexuality. I have found that whilst I begun looking at transexual / biporn i have eventualy started to like it and worry that my worst fear is true. After reading some of the above answers though I feel that I can do somthing about this. I have most likely tried so hard to convince myself that I am not gay / Bi that i have ended up believing that I am, or else I wouldnt be trying so hard to convince myself that I am not (if that makes sense) So I will lay this to rest right here and now, any one who may find themselves in a similar situation, stop testing your self enjoy women and accept that it is natural that when the penis is erect it will happily go wherever it is welcome.
Women make my cock ache. Men do nothing for me. I would like to watch my wife 69 another gal. I'll bet she be a great muff muncher. I've dreamed of a friend of her's eating her. Or her riding my cock, and her friend standing over us, with my girl eating her. I have no desire for her friend, but I'd like to see her make my gal cum. I don't particularly like her, I find her looks, curious at best. I get the feeling she is sexually oppressed and naive. I can't help but feel her and my wife would be explosive. I do admit I wouldn't mind cumming on her face. Especially if my stoke was at my wifes hand. I guess I wouldn't mind ass fucking her. I'd kinda like her to feel it. I doubt she'd ever try such a thing, she looks the missionary only type. But I'd bet a cock up her ass would be addicting. She has black Italian hair, I'd love to see it buried in my wife crotch. My wife would die if she knew I wrote this, lol.
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Without a doubt I was born gay. 110% Gay-Homosexual. I love and respect women - but I am emotionally attracted to other men. Always have been. My family members and neighbors all understood that I was That way, or more cruelly My mother says you're a faggot. Or What did you get for Christmas? More dolls? These comments were directed toward me at age five way back in 1958. Today I'm a six foot 225 lb successful man with a husband living in Massachusetts. It's in the genes...I took my pacifier up the poop shoot. Nobody made me this way. I once read a piece of graffitti written on a wall My mother made me a homosexual, underneath I wrote: If I bought her the yarn, would she make me one too?
Dan
Chemistry in my mother's womb caused my sexual orientation. I could no more change my chemistry than my eye colour. Take testosterone and I only turn more gay. Take antidepressants and I'm a calmer gay man. There never was any choice in the matter for me. I was hard wired this way from my beginning.
Dan
You are born with your sexually preference. I don't think there is a cause. If both men and women followed their gut feelings along with societies positive approval you would not be asking these questions.
I can remember a particular conversation that I had with a friend when I was younger, when we were probably only about five or six years old. He told me that he had accidently gone into the wrong changing rooms at the swimming pool and seen a naked woman, and I distinctly remember thinking that I wasn't really interested in naked ladies, and that I found the naked men in the male changing room more interesting. Obviously it didn't mean anything to me at the time, but looking back on it now, it seems to suggest (in my mind at least) that i've always had an attraction to other men, even before it was anything particularly sexual; this leads me to believe that if it's not a genetic matter, then my sexuality must have been set by the time I was very young. Although, I am also open to the idea that there is somesort of pre disposition which is further established by early life experience.
I was particularly troubled to read the suggestion that homosexuality is caused by child abuse. This certianly isn't the case for me. I grew up in a caring two parent family, and I am the oldest child of three (my brother and sister are both straight). I lost my virginity to a girl when I was 16, and tried until I was 19 to convince myself that I was straight. However, when I got to university I decided that there was no point in living the lie any longer, there was no way that I could possibly divert my innate attractions from men and onto women; I certainly don't believe that anyone has a choice in their sexuality.
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