What were the circumstances when you lost your virginity?
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one night wen me and my sister wer alone i snuck into her room and got scared so she beat me good be4 she new it was me. she must have still been mad cuz she took me down hard and held me against the floor by sittin on my stomach and she kept threatening to hurt me bad if i didnt do stuff to her. i refused until she got the knife then i willingly let her explore me she was all over my face and my penis i still dought she would have used the knife. at the time i was 13 and she was 16 and still a virgin nomader how sick it was it still felt good cuz it was my first orgasm too cuz i tried never to masterbade cuz of religious reasons. supprisingly everything was fine with us but wenever she feels like it she kicks my ass and she is not even fat and if she wasnt my big sis i would think she was hot.lol

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Cam

Me and my girlfreind where 15 when i first lost my virginity. Me and her had been makeing out like for hours on end and for awhile now and talking about doing it for a while now but i dont think she was serious (i was). Anyways we started making out in my moms daycare and i started to feel her body and i had a really hard on on and we wanted eachother so bad u could feel it so i asked her "do u want to do it" and she said ok so we looked for a place and u got to remeber where in one big daycare and someone could walk in at any time my parents where home so we decided on a spot that is under the stairs its a little spot bot big enuf so i took down my pants and so did she. I was kindof shy becuse im not sure how big i am compared. Anyways she gided me in and we started, it was the most amazing sensation when u first go in pushing back and forth at a steady pace. I could feel my self starting to build and i knew i could hold off becouse all i wanted to do was pleas her i went to change her posin and when i pulled it out she said im done. so thats it i still havent had an orgasm with a girl so i dont know how that will feel but its going be a real great experiance and i cant wait

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: dale

Wedding night virgins Thoughts & Advice - Do it with somebody who at least knows your situation, and respects you and will put forth a little special effort. Allow plenty of time. Sex can be very pleasureable without love; it won't create or replace love, but it adds to an already established loving relationship. Wait for marriage? It's certainly something very special to share with your partner, but if I'd done more "playing around" before marriage I probably would have been more faithful. I'd suggest bringing a virgin to orgasm before trying intercourse: for guys, it will slow down his response a bit, and make it better for her. For girls, it will make her as open and lubricated as she'll ever be. If you're BOTH virgins - this is even MORE important to improving the quality of the sex. If you're intending to be life partners a (physiologically) poor first experience may not matter in the long run, but if you haven't made that commitment you should probably put a little effort into making the first time "good". "It doesn't matter as much to guys."? BULL!! It matters just as much, though possibly in a different way. OK - My First Time! Well, let's see - we were both 23(!) and both still virgins. It was our wedding night, 1974. It was lousy sex. It was almost consensual rape. It was also extremely significant for both of us. We are still married - yes, to each other. (Although I occasionally remind her of the list I'm keeping of all the things my NEXT wife will, or will not, do.) We had planned ahead - our wedding was 1:00 in the afternoon especially so that we could have a reception, and start making love at a decent hour. We had known each other for about a year, and been engaged for 10 months. In the last few months of the engagement we had done just about "everything but . . .". I helped her to her first orgasm (her thighs around my ears) and she had done me orally, manually, and dry humping so we weren't exactly ignorant of each others' responses. We had talked about postponing it, but I think we both knew we were going to do it. We got to our room about 7:00 pm and started deep kissing before the door latched. She gave me a choice: she'd get into one of her "honeymoon nighties", or I could undress her, or she could undress herself (while I waited in the bathroom - I never quite understood that part) and wait for me under the covers. I selected the nightie. She went to the bathroom to get ready, and I got into pajamas and waited on the bed. She came out wearing a yellow gauze creation that was only faintly see-through. We talked and stalled a bit. We read each other some love poetry (not original) and Bible verses. This wasn't agreed upon beforehand - we each intended to surprise the other with this romantic touch. We embraced and started necking. Probably 30 - 45 minutes later the clothes were off and I was eating her. After a LONG time of this (we agree that it was 15 minures or more) I was frustrated that I couldn't bring her to climax, as I'd intended immediately before entry. (During our lovemaking while engaged I had noticed how open and wet she was immediately after orgasm, and knew that was the best time to enter her. I also knew that it took only 5 - 10 minutes to bring her to climax) She said, "I'm ready." Big (sexual) mistake! I should have known she wasn't ready. She probably knew she wasn't. We put a pillow under her bottom and put KY Jelly onto our genitals. From some book we had read together we thought these steps would make it better. She raised her knees and spread her thighs. I'd never been so excited - pounding heart, dry mouth, etc. I climbed on top. She hugged me and I tried to make entrance. It hurt! I couldn't find the opening! I mashed my cock head against something. OUCH! I thrust and bent my erection. Extreme OUCH!! I was embarassed, frustrated and impatient. Eventually, I found what felt like the right place. I knew I wasn't really in - my cock head was painfully pinched. When I tried to push in, she'd pull back. When I pulled back, she moved with me so I never could get a run at her. After 5 - 10 minutes of this we were both tense, frustrated, embarassed and sore. This was NOT what either of us expected. I paused to catch my breath. We looked into each others' faces, without a clue of what to say or do. I should have rolled off and started a long session of cuddling and fondling. But I felt her relax just a little, and without thinking about it or meaning to I rotated my hips in a full circle. I didn't actually feel her tear, but I felt myself slip in. She felt it too. She didn't scream, but she definitely vocalized her physical discomfort. She jerked and pulled her knees up, toward her chest, trying to squirm away. Bad tactic - it made everything line up just right, and I went all the way in. Again, not that I planned it, it was just the way we were positioned, how she moved, where my weight was, etc. I HAD NEVER FELT ANYTHING SO GOOD! She began to cry. GOD IT FELT GREAT! I thought, "I'm raping my virgin lover on our wedding night.". THIS FEELS SO WONDERFUL THAT SHE MUST CERTAINLY FEEL IT TOO! Instinctively, I started stroking. She was sobbing. Mercifully, I only lasted about 30 seconds, probably half a dozen strokes. The contractions were still running through me when I felt ashamed and sorry for what I'd done. I uncoupled quickly, and saw what a bloody mess we'd made. Previously, while she was getting dressed to be undressed, I had run warm water in the sink and had a washcloth and towel ready. It was probably the only thing I did right, although I expected to be cleaning up love juices rather than blood. Nevertheless I spent a long time bathing her genitals in warm water and assuring her that I loved her (which was true) and she was a great sex partner (as if I really knew!) and it was everything I'd hoped it would be (I should have been struck by lightning for telling that whopper!). We cuddled for a long time - she didn't say many words, but her body recited an eloquent love poem. About 11:00 we went down to the coffee shop and had ice cream. While sitting there, she noticed a slightly pink stain in the crotch of her white shorts. Thinking her period had come a week early (she's always been very irregular) we hurried back to the room. Well, that's not what it was. In all of our sex education, nobody had pointed out that "what goes in, must come out", and her maidenhead was bidding an oh-so-faint farewell. She came out of the bathroom with no pants on, and said "Let's do it again.". The second time was much better. We were more relaxed, unpressured, and we put her on top. The next day, on our fourth session, she finally had her first married orgasm. It was from cunnilingus, not intercourse, but we were both pleased with that. (It was almost a week before she started coming from intercourse.) All told we did it 5 times in the first 24 hours of our marriage - and haven't kept count since.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Flesh Gorden

All during my teen years I tried but could not find a girl who would have sex with me. Between my first and second year of college in l971 I had a little money and got a cheap ticket to Luxemburg. Back then you could go to the other side of India overland for next to nothing. I travelled south and visited nudist beaches in Yugoslavia and then east through Bulgaria and into Turkey. I met another tourist who told me about an alley which I later found out was the women's jail. I went over there and crossed the floating bridge and then up the hill. Some kids knew what I wanted and even though they could not speak English and I could only say the names of things in Turk. (Turkish is impossible but it is easy to communicate because nouns in Turk are easy.)I went down alley and found many Turkish men staring in the windows of rowhouses. All of the houses were side by side much like one finds in Europe and northeast Unites States and Canada. In the windows were old, skinny women sort of bellydancing to recordings. They were dressed in undies. The men were enthusiastic. I wondered through the area just looking. The next night I came back to take of business. I went to the back where the better looking ones worked. I chose one and paid one hundred Turkish lira which was less than $7, just like the legendary places in Mexico charge. I thought I was getting an hour but only got ten minutes, which is another story, due to exhaustion from a stomach problem I could not do it in ten minutes but I did finally get r done. For years I had tried to have sex and all it took was less than ten bucks. For $10 I got a cheap hotel, sex, and a really good meal from a street vendor. Instanbul on $10 a day. Forget Paris or London.

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Male
TITLE: sean

 i am still a virgin ,and male.I masterbate alot.Masterbating 3-5 times a day thinking of 1 certain girl,i go to school with her she is a year older than me and we are friends but dont talk much.I am completely obsessed with everypart on her body,i love her feet sooo much that when i get to see them at school i stare at her feet as much as i can,and i try to follow her around to see more.i love her feet soooo much that i could fall asleep to kissing them and smelling them and then waking up to them in teh morning.masterbating is a huge apart of my life,i just need advice on what to do and what to tell her because my obsesseion with her is gettin tooooo bad to handle

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dark Raven

I lost my virginity to my (ex?) girlfriend. We had been together for 6 months, and we played around alot. She was really horny one time, and she wanted to try sex, but I didn't want to hurt her. I told her that I would only if she got on top...so she took off her pants and slid onto my dick. She loved it so much, and I though it was pretty hot the way she took it like a big girl and kept going. I blew it all over her body afterwards, but didn't have to after she went on the patch. I would have to say the best time is when you are ready to handle the responability. I still love her, even though we are not together at the moment. Even if she were to have gotten pregnant, I would have dropped everything to provide and care for her. I really miss her and I hope she decides that our relationship is worth enough to try again.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Kyle

I never really lost my virginity, but this was my first sexual experience with another person. Over the past summer I went to spend a few nights with some friends of mine at the house they were renting by a lake. When I got there one of my other friends had already been there for a day. He wasn't one of my best friends, but non the less he and I were pretty cool together. I am a senior in high school and he was a sophmore and we had been on a couple of swim teams together. Latter that night he and I slept up in this little room on the third floor. The room just had two twin size beds and we just laid there in our own beds and talked about stuff that teen age guys talk about. We talked about how we beat off, what porn we like, and who we wanted to do. Well part of our conversation brought us to how some of the guys on his new swim team beat each other off. We talked about it and my friend thought it was pretty weird. Well later on we finally ran out of things to say and we were both extremely horny and we new that there was no way we could fall asleep. So we started beating off dry but then I remembered I had some stuff we could us as lube back in my stuff down stairs. So I went all the way down stairs and got it making sure not to wake anyone up. When I got back up to the room my friend asked me a question really nervously. He asked me if we wanted to try and beat each other off. I was completely surprise because he was the last person I would expect to ask me to do that. So I figured why the hell not. We decided we would do it to each other at the same time. He came over and sat down beside me in my bed but I had to get a hard on all over again since I had to run down staris. So I just wipped out my dick and started rubbing it and he just sat there and watched. Finally I was nice and hard again and I said I was ready so he went ahead and bulled his boxers down. It was pretty cool cause I looked a lot bigger than him. I had about and inch and a half over him (I'm 7 iches) and I was a lot thicker too. He was a little discouraged by this but we got ready anyway. We lubed up and then grabbed each others dick at the same time. It felt incredable being jacked off by someone other than me even if it was another guy. We kept pumping and i could tell it was just as intance for him by the way he kept flenching. I felt him cum first and it was really weird haveing another guys cum all over my hand but I kept jacking him off anyway so he wouldn't feel weird just jacking me off alone. Finally I cummed shortly after he did and it was the best orgasim I had ever had. We both felt really weird after that and went to bed without really saying anything. The next day we laughed about being two straight guys who couldn't last more than 30 seconds by getting jacked off from another guy. He and I both decided that we wouldn't do it again, however, I think I want to do it again. I'll wait till my next sleep over with one of my friends and see if they will try it.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: LoverBoy

I was 25 when I lost my virginity, and lost it in a very unusual way. I tried to get a girlfriend in High School and in college, but was only teased by girls who jerked me around. I was everybody's confidant/doormat, and no-one's lover. During this time a neighborhood girl at the age of eight, extremely precocious kept asking me .          [Remainder of Story Deleted]

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SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Gray

I lost my virginity at 20 when I got married. Yes this is true. I think this is the way it should be. Yeah I know old fashon. All, repeat all my friends I grew up with that had sex before marriage has been divorced, some many times. Me I am still married to my child hood sweat heart. Corney, well maybe but I am still happly married. I have never been with another woman.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Kelly

I am embarrassed to say that i was 12 and it was my first year in school and i remember guys telling me that my body was amazingly well developed for my age and two guys in year senior year got me really drunk at a party and i honestly cant remember that much but one guy tricked me into loosing my virginity through anal sex. he said it wouldnt hurt as much. 'but the grosest thing of all is that he ejaculated all over my face and made me suck on his penis afterwards. But he was a real hotty. i feel bad coz i had a bf at the time and he found out

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tommy

This answer may be a tiny bit off track. I am 19 and I lost my virginity about 2 weeks ago (I know, I know). I was maserbating which I do alot because well, I was a 19 year old virgin, wouldn't you. I was at my friends house in the middle of the day in the living room. I am not the type of person to do this kind of thing but I knew exactly where everyone was and was positive that no one would come by. I started masterbating quickly and I could tell it was not going to take long. My pants and boxers were around my knees and I was really givener. That is when Heather walked in, oh my god!!! I was frozen and didn't know what to do I couldn't hide, she saw it all allready, it was absolutly horrible. Of caurse I stoped jacken off and I whipped my pants up. She laughed at me and just walked into the kitchen, she is really cool by the way and a really nice girl. At this point I had still said nothing. I swear to god this is the truth, for some reason some stupid people make this stuff up but I am not. She was turned on by this and came back in and told me to "keep going", what! I said. She wanted to watch, to make a long story short thats what happened, she watched me masterbate on the couch. After that she pulled her pants down, sat on me(on the couch) and put my penis in her vagina and well... we had sex, it was amazing, simply amazing. I have not seen her since

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: myself

I have been masterbating since I was 9 or 10and lost my Virginity when I was nearly 13. A friend of Mike and I had this mutual girl friend who was 14 which was his age.. We went over to see her and she and her sister suggesteed we go for a walk we did , it started to rain so we headed for a hay barn. Once in the hay barn Mike who new a lot more about sex started to tickle the eldest one. After a while she said I know what you want as my brother does it to me all the time..She told me to take her younger sister to the other side of the barn and do the same thing she an Mike were going to do then it would be my turn. I had know interest in the sister but looked at her split and showed her my very hard willy. I waited for about 10 mins then I went to see how the others were doing.. Well Mike was on top of herbut not real moving. Shhe saw me and told him to get of it was my turn..He got of and his will was big aand hard much bigger than mine. I asked if he had F... her he said not realy.. He took off to the younger one and I climbed on top. My uncut 4inch but slim willy found the right place and nature took its course. I dont know how big her brothers was but I do no that that my un cut willy hurt and the fire skin came back over head for the first time. This did,nt stop me though has I thrust in and out of her hole untill I felt this incredible feeling in my bum and then down my willy which throbbed and throbbed more than it had ever done. It was a dry cum. Then it was Mikes turn again. He spent about 20 mins trying to get his willy in her but for some reason could,nt In the meantime I had got my fore skin back over the head of mine and was hard and ready to go again which I did this time took longer but with the same result. My willy was sore for several days but I could always pull my skin back from that day on. Mike in the mean time wanked of over her and her sister spraying them both with his cun. About a year later I had this same girl again and it was the first time I ever had cum. That feeling was even more intense than the first ones because it not only came from my bum but seemed like it grabbed my balls be fore spurting into her.

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