What were the circumstances when you lost your virginity?
Or are you still a virgin?
What do you think are the best age or circumstances to have sex?

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SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Paul

Some of these stories on this site are a little disturbing. I dont mean to be disrespectful and im not homephobic, but I really can not understand how a guy can be attracted to another guy when there are so many beautiful women! to me it just dosent make any sense. Well anyway thats my view, sorry if that offends anyone!

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SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: babygirl

it was with this guy I had known him since we were 5.well we were 14 and he came to my house as usual to spend the night.well anyway he wanted me to suck his dick so I did then he wanted to go inside me we fu-- till it wasa daylight.we are 25 now and we still get with each other once in a while.one time we were riding in the backseat with friends comming back from fl on the interstate well lets say while the friends were driving we were in the backseat getting it on we have done some pretty freaky things that we wouldnt dream of doing with anybody else.our first time was great he went real so not to hurt me but it kinda got to him sowent pretty fast .we did it everyday since then

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: woodie

Lost mine at age 18 by older cousin, 33. he kept teasing me while I watched tv in the am before school. finally, went to fla. during summer and he seduced me in the motel on the way down. asked me if I ever had a suck job and the rest was history. my first anal sex was many years later in keywest, got drunk, wnt home with someone and he f'd me. it hurt at first. I was top several years later with a trick. guess my favorite remains blows.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I was 19 and had gone off to college. I met a great looking woman in the bar one Friday night. We went back to her place. We started off by kissing on the couch. I got bold and started to feel her breasts. She responded by rubbing my crotch. I got her shirt and bra undone and sucked her nipples. She undid my jeans and started sucking my cock. I told her I figured things would be easier in her bedroom, so she led me there. We nearly ripped the clothes off each other undressing. I had always wanted to go down on a woman, so I did, licking and sucking until her body shuddered with a huge orgasm. She asked me where I'd learned to do it - I didn't tell her it was my first time. She repaid the favur by giving me a blowjob. I was kneeling on the bed and she was crouched down in front of me. I nearly collapsed on top of her when I shot my load. It was incredible. While I didn't penetrate her because we didn't have any borth control, I still consider that the time I lost my virginity.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Dunc

Always been a horny bugger and pretty well as soon as the opportunity arose I went for it. One of the girls at school and a party for her birthday and I ended up with a girl I'd always quite fancied who was well pissed. I took her out into the garden and we ended up snogging against a wall. My hands were all over her and having got my fingers up her knicker leg and felt a hairy mound and a damp slit for the first time, I knew just what to do. It was over quickly, my pants round my ankles, no rubber and no resistance and me doing all the work. I remember that amazing first time feeling as I nobbed into her and opened her up. Then nature took over, her _____ walls gripped my old fella 3 or 4 thrusts and out shot the white stuff. I never went out with her again and there was no romance to it but I'd proved I could do it and, of course, I could boast to my mates who were still virgins that I'd had a shag.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: lostinnocence

I didn't lose it, it was stolen from me, and I can't believe how many of these people have posted about losing it to adults when they were young children. I'm not saying they're lying, but it feels like they're making jokes about it, and saying how much they enjoyed it. I was seven and my dad had been called into work, it was also in the middle of summer, so I didn't have to go to school. He didn't want to leave me alone, so he asked my Uncle to watch over me. We played some regular child games, but then my Uncle started getting serious with me. I tried to refuse to play games that involved me getting naked, but he had overpowered me and stripped them off for me. He stuck his penis in my vagina and had his way with me. It felt like it lasted forever. But later, my dad returned and my Uncle left, my dad asked me if I had any fun. I shook my head and told him what happened. My dad actually started crying and hugged me, apologizing for leaving me, and all he did was blame himself. It wasn't his fault, and to this day if it ever gets mentioned I try to tell he wasn't to blame. We've cut off communications with my Uncle, my dad confronted him about it and told him to never come around me or him. But still it feels like yesterday he did it, and there are days when I feel so miserable I just want to kill myself. Now as far as age of having sex is concerned, I think it's actually adorable if children explore their bodies with other children their ages, but it's definately not ok for a child to do it with an adult. I think 17+ is the right age to really feel physically, and emotionally responsible and mature.

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SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Male
TITLE: D to the Z

Okay, So what's up? I'm 24 and STILL have not had sexual intercourse. I'm a really good looking guy with, from what I've been told, "A lot to offer" if you know what I mean... so why haven't I had sex? You tell me. I'm kind of shy at first with sexual things, most likely because it's never happened yet. It could have a few times, but I have morals and standards and I knew that girl wasn't going to be around much longer. So why lose it with her? It's not really that being a virgin 'means' a lot to me..or that I have to wait until I'm married or anything... Heck I'm a guy.. I'll take it when it's there... but only when it's right! So far it hasn't been right. The girls I've come across need to grow up some before I let them have any of this. They need to prove to me that they're truly GOOD people and not some fly by night biotches who want one thing, and then will quickly move on. I'm not into it. SO.. hear that loud and clear dudes!!! I'm no NERD or FREAK.. just a good lookin 24 year old who hasn't found 'the one' yet. Don't feel like you have to get out there and DO IT before you even turn 20... it's over rated.. and the longer you wait, the better it'll be when you finally get some. Oh yeah and to this day.. still single for the moment. So I'll probably be 25+! It kind of sucks, but I want to get my life in better order before I go bringing some innocent chick into it, and possibly a family. There's always that chance with the big "SEX" word... waiting is tough...but I'm living proof that you'll be JUST fine without it!!

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER:
TITLE: Ryan

I lost my virginity when I was 15. My bestfreind "Tommy" was spending the night at my house. Him and I were watching a movie and I began to get really tired. At one point I fell asleep, when I woke up Tommy had his shirt off and he was holding me from behind and kissing my neck. From there, him and I began to make-out and eventually he _____ me. That was the best night of my life and I'll always remember it, right now I'm 21 years old and my bestfriend is now my roomate and boyfriend.

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: mono

1967. 16. seduced by an older female ; she took me to a neutral apt. , made me hard ,and incerted me into her body ; she caused me to have an orgasm inside of her. not a virgin. for myself , I enjoyed sex quite young. with an older person. the setting was private , and we both seemed to enjoy it. I didn't mind at the time. knowing what I know now , I would go back and do it again ; slightly more hygenic , more lubricated and more involved.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: fly

I lost my virginity when I was 28. It was increasingly more difficult to keep it a secret as I grew past my teen years, particularly after 25 when I felt it was becoming a problem. I felt ashamed of my virginity especially when people spoke about sex and I felt It showed itself. I became especially careful after an experience I had as a conscript in the army. When I was 22 I innocently admitted that I was a virgin to my room mates (who weren´t) and immediately got teased for it. Hoping to limit the damage I asked them not to tell the others. Some days later having an evening shower some were talking about sex, and as I felt an erection coming I left the shower. Spotted by one roommate before I got my towel on, he immediately grabbed me from behind and got everyones attention looking at my erection through the towel. He pulled me out inte the hall and with the now large crowd said "admit you are a virgin or I´ll take the towel of", sobbing I was made to said "I´m still a virgin" several times and immediately afterwards the towel was removed and I stood naked with my penis fully erect. Hulmiliated I was led with my hands on my back on parade through the living quarters with the crowd cheering on before I got away. Having this in mind I didn´t speak of sex until I was 28 when I met a teacher in meditation. We became friends and spoke of lifes meaning. When sex came up I admitted that I was a virgin, she bacame interested in me, but I said I wasn´t in her. She had a 19year old daughter I subsequently met and became interested in and she soon found out from her mother of my virginity. I got angry she had told her at first but got over it as I got used to speak about sex with them and their sexual experiences, and they also told me it was OK to be 28 and a still a virgin. On one of these visits they said the girl had broken up with her boyfriend, they both giggled and led me to small bed I a corner of the small flat. Soon, me and the girls clothes were of and I finally could see a naked woman. The bed was too small for two, and the mother had prepared a mattress in the livingroom for us. At this point I was so horny, the awkwardness of the moment didn´t strike me as we were giggeling going to the other room, where I finally lost my virginity. Afterwards the mother found us holding hands, looking at the ceiling. I was not ashamed her seeing us naked with our bodily fluids still showing, insead I wanted to stay like that to enjoy the feeling, while the mother prepared sort of a "picknick" on the livingrommfloor which we then shared.

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