What were the circumstances when you lost your virginity?
Or are you still a virgin?

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SEXUALITY: Monosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: D.R.

I wish I could answer the question of when is the best time to have sex. Most of my friends and co-workers think I'm experienced; I'd never tell anyone that the total opposite is true. I am 31, and have a very successful career and I'm an okay looking guy. I've never been intimate with another person; I discovered masturbation at age 29. My religous convictions and fear of STD's had caused me to avoid sexual activity with another person; however, I'm not happy with or proud of this situation and I envy most teen and 20 year olds who have active sex lives. The single reason I continue to abstain is fear of STD's and intimacy. I have passed up countless opportunities. I'm seriously debating whether or not to seek counseling because I know that this is not a healthy lifestyle; sex is apart of healthy living. I just feel that I would be taking advantage of someone if I engaged in sexual activity with a person without a relationship/commitment which would make me personally a bad person. I don't knock others who engage in casual sex or think I'm any better than them. I think they are more honest with themselves than I am with myself.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: bullwinkle

I lost mine to my wife during our honeymoon! I am proud to say it. So very glad that I waited.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
SEX: Male
TITLE: Bob

I lost my virginity at 22 when I got married. I think the best age would have been 18 or 19. I think I was mature enough, and I don't think waiting for marriage was necessary.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Steve

When I was 15 I used to go swimming with my friend Pete. One day we were getting dressed (we shared a changing room) when I noticed he had an erection. I mentioned it to him and he let me touch it. It wasn't long until I had an erection too and he suggested something fun we could do. It was fantastic.--I don't think that there's a best "age" as such - just as soon as you're ready

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I lost mine at the age of 22 with my wife on my honeymoon. To me that is the way it should be.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: scudder

I lost mine at 17 with my now wife. I had messed around before, fingering girls, and a whole lot of heavy petting and oral sex, but never intercourse until then.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: Redneck

I had an early experience with an older guy when I was 13. There was oral sex and I did _____ him. I lost my cherry when I was 14 and a woman in her mid 30s who's lawn I mowed was flirting with me. I knew she was known as a slut and heard rumors that lots of guys did her and so did her son's, but until she shread em for me, I tought it was just BS talk amongst guys who wanted to talk big. I have mixed feelings about when the right age or circumstance s. The correct thing to say is when you are in love. I woul want my boys to get it as soon as they could IF the were adult enough to handle it and not brag about it.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: jp

Lost it to a girl who was also in the high school band, we were both 17. I was new to town, she had a reputation, and I wanted some of that reputation. I was not her first. It was in the back seat of a 1974 Ford Custom 500 (old State Police car), on a country dirt road. The first Friday night we went out, she was on her period, so I only got her half naked. The next Friday night, we went all the way. I lied and told her I was not a virgin. We dated for several years, and did it every chance we got, in all kinds of places...... in my car in the church parking lot after church; on a catwalk under a tall bridge, in full view of downtown; in a pool; in her bed; in a friends apartment; in the back seat of that Ford; in the back of a mustang hatchback; in Ravine Gardens state park.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Eric

I lost my virginity at 24 to my now fiancee.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Female
TITLE: Whit

I'm 14 and a virgin... can't decide when I want to lose it

SEXUALITY: Undecided
SEX: Male
TITLE: Dont bother

Me 14, still virgin, AND HATING IT

SEXUALITY: In-Between
SEX: Male
TITLE: Bren

Lost it when I was 17 with a girl and from then on _____ anything that moved. Had sex with a guy for the first time when I was 19.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: bendles

i was playing with my freind in nursery. I went to the toilet and so did she . we stared kissing then snoging and then she graped my willy sucked it bit it pulled the skin . we stared stiping so I told lay down on the floor and I had her up the bum for 20 mins then my penis was hard so I had her up her vergina she screamed I was like a pro . I will always rember loseing at 3

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Mortemo

still a virgin,age 16, people make you fell pressured but i'm just going to wait till I find someone special

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Female
TITLE: Jessie

12, I was young and stupid

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Surf'n

17 in the college dorm with my girlfriend

SEXUALITY:
SEX:
TITLE: mike hunt

22. I lost my virginity to a prostitute.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX:
TITLE: Chas

I was 21 and worked at a retail store. Foor several years this guy would come in with his family and shop. They lived around the corner and the guy would come into the store my his self. We became friends and then started hanging out and stuff. One night late he called me at home and asked me to come over that he had to give me something. I got to his house and we went to his bedroom. He as watching MADONNA'S TRUTH OR DARE video. So I sat on the side of his bed and we were watching it. He asked me if I ever Jack Off? and I told him yes. He said, "jack off for me now, I want to see it." So I pulled my jeans down and started jacking off. He took his shorts off and joined me. Then he said. "Lay back on the bed and close your eyes." I did and I FELT THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER FELT IN MY LIFE! He took my whole penis into his mouth all the way down and it felt so hot and wet. With in 15 seconds I shot a load into his mouth with out even thinking. He just spit it out and said, "tell before you cum next time. I was so rattled and caught off guard I dressed and went back home. We had sex together for years after that. He was a senior in high school. I'm still in Texas and he now lives in California.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: NiceGuyHere

19 years old . . . I would play basketball with friends most every afternoon. of course, there were girls that would hand out and watch us. one girl and I would flirt with each other alot. I asked if she wanted to go, and she said sure. I picked her up later that evening, and off we went. she knew I was a virgin and I later figured out she basically went out with me cuase she wanted to get it. one saturday, people were pairing up to go to out to the drive-in movie. I picked her up later that evening, and off we went. a little bit into the movie I tried to kiss her, and she responded happily. I then went for the buttons on her blouse, expecting resistance as would be common on a first date, but she just let me. so in about 5 minutes, I had her bra off and basically she was just going along with whatever I wanted. after the movie, we left the drive-in and I asked her "do you want to go for a ride in the country" which here in kentucky is a nice way of asking "do you want to go _____". we found a place to park and the bra came off real quick this time. I then asked if she wanted to go "all the way", and she said "i don't care". is said, ok, take off your clothes and get in the back seat. well there I was just staring (first time I had ever seen one whole naked girl up close and in person). she grabbed be at the shoulders and pulled me down on top of her. I then tried to figure out what angle to try to put it in, then in it went. oh my god, it was an awesome sensation. my only thought during the process was "i can't believe i'm doing this", cuase I knew I wasn't "in love" or anything like that. i'm sure I wasn't too good as far as she was concerned, as I came in like 2 minutes. it was another year before I had sex again, this time with a girl that lived next door to me, and it was my turn to take someone's virginity. and the world keeps spinning

SEXUALITY: In-Between
SEX: Male
TITLE: hurrah

When I was 14. I visited a whore on a dare. She sucked me without condom. I had a fat load jizzing into her mouth and she spat and coughed. Afterwards she told dme, she hadn´t thought that there would cum so much. I was so proud and bragged about it. I had about 70 hookers in my life.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I'm 15.and I am eager to do it, RIGHT NOW!!!.

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
SEX: Male
TITLE: Jon

Hey, yeah virgin. Like my hand though!

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: huge dick

Lost it when I was 15. I'm one of the better plauers on our football team and after a game in which I did very good in I was changing in the locker room and the next thing I knew 2 girls came in and we had sex

SEXUALITY:
SEX:
TITLE: Anonymous

18,and iwas not smart enough because the person who took it was a married man ,and ihate myself for that I was so dom I don't if I could ever forgive myself for that.

SEXUALITY:
SEX: Female
TITLE: claudia

18, and iwas stupid because I give it to amarried man . I hate myself for that I should have know better,not only he was a married man he had akid too .i wasn't smart enough ooohh I don't if I ever could forgive myself for that.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I was 17, met a random girl in a chat room who turned out to be a slut, did it the first night. I came in about 20 seconds. I am now 22, with my first real girlfriend....who has had about 20 partners in her life...she has no idea shes really my first...

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: Josh

When I was 8 I did my teddy bear. Yah take that Pooh! Now we have kids running all over the hundred acre woods. Ahh... the memories!

SEXUALITY: Metrosexual
SEX:
TITLE: GR

When I was 21, a trip to thailand. Has sex with a girl but didn't cum, couldn't feel anything through the condom. She wanked me off after though. Does that still count.

SEXUALITY: Straight
SEX: Male
TITLE: .

23 and wish it had been sooner.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX: Female
TITLE: Amber

I lost my virginity a month after I turned 16. It was the day after Homecoming, he was 20 and we had been dating for 2 months. I thought I was in love and this was the man I was gonna marry. The best age or circumstance is whenever you feel it in your heart that its the right time. We're broken up now but I dont regret loosing it to him because at the time I was in love and I know he loved me but people change and life moves on.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
SEX: Male
TITLE:

No im still a virgin and im 17 I masterbate alot and cum all over my boxers and get erections everytime I see a hot guy on tele. I want to lose my virginity now does any want want to get to togeher and shag

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