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SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lou

My cousin about 8 at the time had a little birthday party and I was being mischevious and was shooting rubber bands and spit balls at them to annoy them. They finally had enough and all three of them got me down and were tickling me and it made mu 6yo little penis stiff and in the scuffling it slipped out the leg of my shorts. One of the girls touched it and showed it to the others and they all started playing with it and and feeling of my little sack of "marbles" . One of the girls whispered that she had seen her brother playing wtih his penis and had rubbed it up and down and he seemed to enjoy it until he couldn't stand to do it any nore and it turned limp. She took it in her fist and began rubbing it up and down and the three of them took turns. By this time they had my shorts off and I was completely naked and one of the girls started slapping me on the bottom which seemed to make my penis stiffer and soon I had this wonderful feeling where my whole body shook and jerked and I grabbed my penis in both hands to keep them from touching it. -----While they were playing with it and rubbing it it was a wonderful feeling and after I recovered I wanted to get that feeling again and started teasing the girls again and they took my shorts off again and took turns rubbing my again stiff penis until I got that feeling . This time they played "keep away" with my shorts and I was naked sort of wrestling with them to get my shorts back. They would hold my shorts over their head and I would try to jump us and grab them but instead the girl would grab my penis. After a while they grew tired and sat in a circle and made me stand naked in the center and took turns rubbing and grabbing my penis and found that after it had been rubbed a lot and turned limp it didn't take long for it to get stiff again if they continued to paly with it and they made me get that wonderful feeling several times before they got tired of the game and hid my shorts leaving me to have to sneak home and in spite fo being sneaky my mother caught me and demanded to know where my shorts were and I told her the girls had taken them and got them in trouble and they apoligized but that didnt't keep them from getting me alone and playing with my penis and when I was alone I rubbed it a lot and enjoyed it. I still masturate today and enjoy it, sometimes several times a day.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Scout

It was the summer of 1983....and I had just finished the 7th grade. My parents sent me to a YMCA camp in the middle of the Adirondack State Park in Northern New York State for a month. It was summer that was the end of my childhood. I rememeber standing on the dock of the lake the camp was on for swim class, and it was a really hot day. Maybe it was hormones, or the fresh air, but in my swim class was a girl my age who was very "cute" I felt strange. I never felt an "attraction" in a physical sense for girls. But watching her, seeing her in a swimsuit excited me in ways that were thrilling at that age. Before I knew it, just seeing her talking to her friends, my penis started to swell, and got a life of its own. I was a little embarassed, because I didn't want people to notice that my penis was stiff. I dove into that lake, and it was icy cold in the middle of summer. In the cabin that night, with about six other boys my age, in the dark I told them what had happened at the lake earlier in the day. Many of them laughed, in a playful way. They told me about sex (I already had a general idea) and about the pleasure you can get from it (which I had little or no idea about). We all ended up sitting in a circle on the floor of the cabin, and they were going to show me the pleasure sex can give. We all took off our underwear and several started showing me how to stroke my penis. They told me to think of the girl I would like to put it inside of. They showed the sensitive parts, and I started to stroke my penis in time with them. I felt a little strange because I was the only boy with an uncircumcized penis, and the pleasure I did feel...waifed away, but as I thought about the girl at the lake, with luminious blue eyes, my penis swelled. Quickly. The other boys were stroking themselves as well, and the cabin got quiet. All that could be heard was our deepened breathing, the sound of hands stroking. My mind started to race, the tension was building which...felt....great. I stopped for a moment, but the foreskin of my penis almost 'begged' me not to stop the stimulation. I started to stroke myself again, I could feel a light, cool sensation start to sweep me, I felt my testicles, pull hard and close to my body. I could feel tension, and almost a strong pressure of fluid building up inside me. By this point all of us were stroking very fast, and right before the release came, sensations of intense pleasure washed over me. A pleasure that felt like a tickling sensation starting in the head of my penis, and pulsating over me. At that moment, my penis felt like it was going to explode with estactic pleasure, and it did. An intense pumping sensation mixed with my semen, spurted into the center of the circle. I was gasping, with pleasure. The waves got stronger, and it was such an intense feeling......I wanted it to last, I didn't want the sensation to end. It felt so good. While all of this was happening, my hips were involuntary thrusting. I remember gasping and saying "ahhhh! ahhhhh! ahhhhhhh! Laura! Laura!" (laura was the girls name at the lake) while pleasure, spurting, pumping, and the stroking was happening. All of us boys came roughly at the same time. After it was over, we talked about the feelings we had, and how good it felt........... and it still feels great, however....that night is always special to me. I've had weak orgasms over the years, and a few that were even stronger than the first one. I like sex, and the estactic pleasure it gives.

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Male
TITLE: bigballs

When I was in second grade (8-9) I began talking to my neighbor, Salvador who was about 12/13 about sex when I went over to his house for sleepovers. We would lie next to each other under a blanket and talk about boobs and rough sex versus smooth sex and a few times I would pretend that he was the girl and I would lie on top and bounce up and down and grab his ass and he would do the same to me. Once we were both very horny and so we went behind the apartments garage and took out our penis's to compare. mine was surprisingly slightly larger and today my penis is still aabove normal size. I first began to jerk off when I was in third grade (age 9). I had been thinking about Sex for a couple of years and wanted to experiene it but didn't know how. Then one night I was pretending to have sev with the pillow and I suddenly started to get this feeling which grew and grew till I orgasmed (no cum of course). From then on I began to do it with my hand often and looking at porn on the internet.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: b boy

My first orgasm happened when I was in 7th grade. I was reading a book on sexuality that my parents got me and I had got to the part on masturbating. So following the instructions on the page I rubbed my penis for quite a while until some semen came out! It stung the first time and there wasn't that much. But the second time it felt a lot better and a whole lot more came out.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Harry

Well, I didn't realize I had my first orgasm until I started masturbating with my hands. I was eight and we had a massager with a round rubber end and I was playing with it one day before my family and I went on vacation and I happened to rub it on my genitals and shortly after doing that I felt this great sensation. I always used that for years until one of my friend's brother grabbed my penis through my shorts and told me that all men touch other men's penises ... that didn't make sense to me, but I was in the shower one day and I was tugging on my penis pretending he was and then I felt the great sensation again. I didn't know what masturbation was until I got the internet in the 5th grade (go figure).

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lil john

Growing up on the farm I knew what reproduction was because we saw it all of the time, but my first orgasm was a total suprise. My neighbor and I, we were about 12, had grown up together and we were always spending the night at each others house. One night he suggested that we play cards while we got ready for bed. He got out these cards and they had pictures of naked ladies on them. We sat on the bed and he said that we should play strip poker. I didn't know what that was so he told me that when you lost a hand that you had to take off a piece of clothes. I was game because we had to get undressed to get ready for bed anyway. We played until we were both naked and by now looking at the pictures of the naked ladies on the cards we both had hard-ons. I was a little smaller than him and I was uncircumsised. He said why don't we play truth or dare. He dared me to rub his penis and I started to rub away and after a few minutes he said that was enough. So I dared him to rub mine and I couldn't believe the feeling that I got. I started to tingle all over and I told him that was enough. We did a few truths and I found out that I didn't know anything about masturbation. He asked if I had ever had my penis sucked and I said I hadn't and he asked if I would like it done to me. I was a little reluctant but he said just lie back and relax. He started to suck and the tingling started almost immediately and I thought I would explode but he told me to relax more and let the feeling cover my body. I finally told him to stop because I had to pee and I went into the bathroom and I did pee. I came back and asked if he wanted me to do him for a while so I started on his penis and I found that it really made my penis get really hard so he told me to stop because he wanted to suck mine at the same time. We laid on the bed and started to suck each other at the same time. He started to grab my buns and squeeze them as he sucked and this made the sensation get even stronger. All of a sudden I was shaking and he was starting to thrust deep in my mouth as he shot a load in my mouth and in just a moment I shot my load in his mouth. I was shaking and I couldn't believe the feeling that was running from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. My penis was still hard and throbbing when he stopped. I took my mouth off of his penis and it was starting to go soft. He asked if I liked that and I couldn't hardly answer because I was still in ecstasy but I let out a breathy yah. We put the cards away and put on our PJs and went to bed. The next day we went back on the farm to the pond and it was hot and we didn't have any swimsuits with us so we decided to go skinny dipping. While we were swimming he came up under me and started to suck my penis while he was under water. This was great and when he came up I said that we should go up on the bank and try it again like last night. So we got out and sucked each other again. This time I came first and he came about a half a minute later. It was great but wasn't as good as the first time. We lived near each other until we graduated from high school. We would spend nights together quite often but I don't remember any of the nights as good as that first one. We both kind of went our own ways in high school and we dated girls but still think about the night of playing cards with the pictures of naked ladies. I still masturbate after all of these years and there have been times that the feeling has been better but most of the time it can't compare to the first time.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Matt

The first time I had an orgasm I was seven. I was naked after a bath and I had a big erection. (have always gotten those). I was sitting on the side of the tub after I was dry thinking about things and I scratched my penis because it itched for a second. When I touched it I realized it felt good. I took the foreskin with my thumb and forefinger and rubbed up and down the head with it slowly. It was too slow to do much but it felt good. I sped it up till it got really fast because it felt so good. I was interrupted by my mother knocking on the door so I stopped until the next night. The next night in the shower I remembered what I had done. I started rubbing my penis again and moaning with delight. For some reason I decided to take off the removabel shower head which had a massage. I turned the setting to high and sprayed it on the underside of my penis head on the sensitive spot. After a few minutes I had an explosive orgasm that made my body tremble all over. I didnt stop though. I kept doing it while rubbing my testicles and had four more until my penis was getting raw and I had to stop. I dont know if I ejaculated or no because the water washed everythin off but the next night I masturbated by hand and I ejaculated all the way across the room. It was not much and it was very watery but it shot far. The first orgasm I had was definately the most extreme. I had never felt pleasure like that. After learning new techniques over the years I can do a lot more though.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: chocolate

My first orgasm was reallly good. It felt superb and it happened when I was in the shower. Yes I did ejaculate through my first orgasm it went everywhere. the feeling of my orgasms are better because I masturbate for a longer period of time.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Joe

One day at school on the way to gym class, my friend told me how to jack off. that afternoon, I ran home to try! when I got home I was there all alone. I layed down on the bedroom floor and started pumping my 8 in dick.(i was only 12 and it was 8in.! I also had a ton of pubic hair) as I was pumping my dick, I had this intense feeling in my dick and ass. I decided to stick my finger up my ass b/c I had seen that on some mastrubation videos my dad had. it was so awesome. I started pulling my finger in and out of my ass and all of a sudden I shot about 7 long white sticky strings of cum. they flew over my head and landed right in my hair. the next day I told my friend what I did and now every satruday night, my friend and I mastrubate together and occasionally my sexy dad joins in

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: anon

I was probably 12 or 13 the first time I had a proper orgasm. It was also the first time I masturbated. I had heard about 'wanking' from a boy in school and decided to give it a try, just out of interest. I locked the bathroom door and sat down on the toilet. I probably took some time to achieve orgasm as my technique was not exactly well practised. I can't remember much pleasure from the wanking stage of the act.-----When it came, the orgasm was almost overwhelming; I felt faint and almost toppled from the seat! I remember being a little worried afterwards. The sensation was similar to subtly different from badly wanting to pee (a sensation I do not consider pleasurable nowadays). I tried to continue wanking after the orgasm but gave up because the pleasurable sensation faded and was replaced by slight discomfort. I think I did it again later but was disappointed by the weaker orgasm.-----I did ejaculate. It landed on the carpet and I remember being very thoughrough about cleaning it up, as I didnt want my parents to know about my private habit.-----I'd say my first orgasm was probably the most intense in my life, but I have been able to recreate the feeling after about a week of restraint (very rarely, in other words) or by repeatedly bringing myself to the brink. Anal masturbation with normal wanking also comes close, as does actually having sex with another person with lots of foreplay!-----I cannot be sure, but I think I may have had some sort of orgasm a few years before this. It was the same feeling but without the rhythmic muscle contractions. In addition, it was not overwhelming, just very pleasurable. I didn't do anything to induce it and I wasn't erect either. I definitely remember hoping to get that feeling again and even resorted to precisely copying my movements to induce it! (I was swimming at the time).

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: g-smooth

I had my first ejaculation/orgasm at the age of 11. I think that's kind of early as I was pretty scared when it happened. My folks had a book on human sexuality that has some masturbation exercises for men. I decided to try one of them. It suggested using a lubricant like vaseline, so I put some on my penis and started to stroke. It couldn't have been more than a minute when I felt something building in my penis. I went over to the toilet with shakey legs and some greyish cum oozed out of my penis for the first time. Felt great but I felt I was too young to start doing that. I later learned that it was natural to masturbate so I do it regularly with no guilt or fear. My ejaculations now are more powerful than back then and my semen has taken on a more whitish color (as opposed to greyish)

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: hoser

I had my first orgasm when I was 13. It was not particularly earth-shattering. I'd fooled around with other kids when I was about 5, and then again once when I was 8, but never with orgasms, or any real sense of purpose. I do remember it feeling nice in Grade 4 when I'd sort of jiggle my knees with my little penis and scrotum being rubbed by my thighs, my jeans, etc. I remember being introduced to masturbation by a friend who was about a year older than me. When he jerked off in front of me, and had me do some ov it as well, he produced peckersnot. He also had a full wiry bush. So, I knew what my objective was, and didn't really stumble across it accidentally. I was masturbating quite frequently, but it was all pretty unremarkable until I actually ejaculated. That was quite different! I was getting ready for church one Sunday morning just after I had turned 14, and started to play with myself. I used the technique shown to me the previous summer, and, quite unexpectedly, I felt something welling up inside my penis. I then shot my very first load all over the carpet in front of me. I don't recall a much heightened sense of enjoyment with this first orgasm; my recollection is that subsequent orgasms were more satisfactory, since I was able to choose the time, place and cleanup materials. I'm around fifty now, and am not in the best of health. It's usually pretty good. Let's face it, otherwise, why would I bother? I think my mose intense orgasms are when I do wierd stuff like doing it inside my track pants when I know that I can put them right in with the next load of laundry. For that little trick, I like to rub my knob on the fleecy inside of the fabric, and can actually come to an orgasm without even having to make my fist glide past my knob. Those sorts of orgasms are the ones that are most explosive.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I was 14 and on vacation. I had to take an outdoor shower. I got in the shower and took my bathing suit off. I looked down at my penis and thought about masturbating. I had previously thought it was kind of gross, but I had this urge to do it. Without thinking, I started to rub it. In a matter of about 30 seconds, I was at that tingly feeling just before orgasm. I started and stopped a few times, but then I decided to let go. I did, and it felt HORRIBLE! It stung really really bad. I did ejaculate, though. About a week later, I tried it again in the lake we were at and it felt a little better. Then, when we got home, I went to the back yard behind our shed and did it and it felt great and now I am 15 and I do it at least twice a day. No orgasm I've had was quite like the 3rd one I had in my back yard.

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