When Does a Boy Become a Man?

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SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: bullwinkle

A boy becomes a man, when he starts to act and take on the responsibilities of a man. When he becomes married, then this will change as well. Being a man is in part your physical growth from childhood through puberty into adulthood. But that is physical and part mental. As the body changes, the mind doesn't always follow.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I think the same way as when I was young, and I don't feel wiser, more mature, or more responsible. And somehow I manage to realize things I could never have done when I was younger. But does it makes me a 'man' . I think not.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: red

A boy becomes a man when he is able to accept responsibility for his actions. Just because he is able to ejackulate doesn't mean he is a man. Like a girl may start her period at 11, but it doesn't mean she is a woman just because her body is ready to reproduce

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: 40+

A boy becomes a man when he can accept responsibility for his actions and strives to do right by other people. It has nothing to do with sex or sexual orientation. There are a lot of homosexuals who are men and a lot of straight married men who are still boys.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I'm 42 and still trying to figure that one out. Sometimes I wish there was a deciding factor or bridging point, but I never had one. Been married since young and have a lot of responsibility. Guess I'm a man, but don't know when it happened. Sometimes I wonder if my incesent desire to masturbate with other men (even though I haven't since I did with my cousins at an early age) is a clinging factor of immaturity/boyhood that I never got over, because I missed some right of passage.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: CLO

A boy becomes a man when he stops seeking approbation from others but of himself, that means taking full responsibility of himself. Trying to prove you're a man is still searching for that approbation.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: chrono

i'm 21 and i already been through a lot more rough stuff than 40 year old fellas that i've met, and taken huge responsibilities like house hold of your parents as well as taken responsibility with my my wife, so does that makes me man? huh,, i guess i've never asked myself that before....

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TITLE: Anonymous

It has nothing to do with sex. I know people who are still virgins and they are more mature then I have ever been. It all has to do with mental maturity and the circumstances pertaining to each individuals life. All I know is that once you become a so called "man" there is no going back no matter how hard you try. It's a blessing and a curse at the same time. You gain a new perspective on everything while on the other hand you lose your innocence.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: BI MAN

A man is a man is when he can stand up if he evers get a girl\woman pregnant and take up resonsibilty . he grows pubic hair around his penis and testiclesat a young age. So, what if he gets a erection and jacks off till he cums, or if he has anus sex with another man's anus,and he ejaculates inside his anus does that make him GAY? and vise versa if the other man does the same to his partner he does the same to him is he GAY also?

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Ed

I believe that sexual activity has nothing to do with achieving manhood and any male who says it does must be either 1: naive, lacking confidence, and sexually immature or 2: egocentric to an unhealthy degree. #1 is innocent and will leave when he becomes a man, but #2 is a conscious choice made by some men, and it is a quality that produces danger for the rest of humanity. The time when a boy becomes a man is the same time when a girl becomes a woman, i.e. when a child becomes an adult: when he is mentally mature- and confident enough to be self-reliant.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Rick

I'd say about 18. It was then that I began to realize the consequences of sex, i.e. pregnancy and birth. It wasn't just fun and games, even though another couple went for long drives with us during which they drove while we had intercourse, and we reciprocated. The precipating event was the birth of children to the older married members of my family. I realized that some of the older girls were only four years older than I, and probably had been as sexually active as I was when they were my age. A male should realize that eventually he will incur responsibilities that he can't avoid.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: fred

there is no point in time when a boy all-of-a-sudden becomes "a man". It is a slow process. Technically, a boy becomes a man when he ejaculates for the first time. But that doesnt mean he is a mature man. Your a man when you can take care of yourself and do the things that men do

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: A Young Man

I'm not sure exactly what makes a man. Some say sex and others say responsibilty. I wonder if there is any one thing that all boys go through or if only some are even given the opportunities to become true men. Perhaps boys must determine each their own definitions of what maturity and maleness is. For some sexual activity is their answer and for others responsiblity is the key.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: danny

Everyone thinks a boy becomes a man when he starts to have sex, whether it is masturbation or consensual with another person. To some extent this is true, but sexual activity does not mean sexual / human maturity. Maturity is when a male understands responsibility and his role in society. Responsibilty to himself, a family if that is what he chooses, and responsibility to society. Sexual activity changes a male, but a man knows for himself when he has crossed over from sexual and behavioral immatuity and into real adulthood. Sex becomes not only fun, but a responsibility to his spouse, to his own physical well being, and as well as to those around him who may look for leadership and direction in makling sexual decisions.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Seeker

I think a boy becomes a man when he can accept responsibility for his actions, as a sexual being, a thinking man, one who respects all people whether they agree with there lifesytles or not. Having taken responsiblility, for his education, his lifestyle, selection of his friends, girlfriend, military experience, sexual decisions, marriage, having children, taking responsibility for supporting his family, religion, spiritual values and moral values. Not being afraid to experience different sexual experiences, not be afraid to say no or yes, not be afraid to let go, and enjoy life to the fullest.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: 2TL LOU

I believe a boy becomes a man when he shoulders the responsibility of meeting life on life's terms without resorting to depressants or mind altering substances to escape.--- ---In my experience it was getting sober and staying that way one day at a time at the age of 56.--- ---Life is still no bed of roses, but it does keep getting better as long as I keep doing what I am doing.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jock man

this is going to sound childish, and in a way it is, but a boy becomes a man not just when he takes responsibility and so on but i think part if it is when he can get erect, ejaculate and after the first time he geta laid.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER:
TITLE: Corey Bear

I think a boy becomes a man when he understands who and what to give a damn about- so many of us waste too much time, energy, emotion, and tears on caring too much about miserable people and their pathetic miserable problems and beliefs. Let people have their _____- don't try to save them if they don't want to be saved. Get on with your life and share it with worthwile people- and don't go looking for love- let it find you- and it will!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ph-15y

imo there r many little steps. one month ago i reached another stept to bein a "man". i was the first time in love.. not like in grade 5, 6 or else.. real love. we didnt get together but i learned much especially about me and when i got home this day i felt like grown much.. im just 15 and cant tell much about anything in future but thats my opinion: You can't define the year, month, day or instant when you change because it changes continously.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER:
TITLE: Zeke

Being a man is a state of maturity, both physical, and emotional. I don't think there's one defining moment when he's suddenly transformed from a boy to a man. Entering puberty is the beggining, but there's more to it than that. I know guys in their 20's who aren't mature enough to be a man.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Revol

Certainly responsibility has much to do with it. But I think that a boy becomes a man when he not only recognizes the feelings of a woman but understands or at least accepts her capricious mysteries and is supportive of her happiness even if it comes at the cost of his own happiness. Along those lines, a man moves beyond jealousy into compassionate understanding. A boy becomes a man when he puts the happiness of his partner ahead of his own. I should add that I am a Dominant male and don't feel that this thought has anything to do with being "submissive" or subservient, merely being a responsible, compassionate adult male.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Hornyguy

A boy becomes a man once he has first experienced an orgasm with a partner. Once he cums into her mouth or vagina he is a real man and has experienced life to the fullest. This changes the life of a male because i first had sex ant 13 and i have no regrets age is merely a number. A very young man should go and experience sex while he is young rather than waiting b/c it will be embarasing when you are ready and dont know what goes where!

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: BionicJoey

When does a boy become a man? Well, I think, that "transition" has nothing to do with sexual encounters.--I think a boy becomes a man when he is honest about himself, those around him and everyone. He becomes a man when he readily takes responsibility for himself, his thoughts, his actions; and also accepts the consequences of those thoughts and actions: both good and bad.--The "boy" becomes a "man" when he respects others for who they are the way he wants to be respected; he is a man when he makes the hard decisions (and let's face it, most times the hardest decision is usually the best for us;)he's a man when his choices and actions are not self-involved....by that I mean, when he considers the feelings of others and acts accordingly.--Being a "man" really has nothing to do with "anatomy." Becoming a man has everything to do with honesty, respect for others, self-control, self-respect.

SEXUALITY: Metrosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Boy 17

Well I think that boys and men have nothing different, they are the same inside, the only thing that changes is their bodies, let's face it, men think about sex 24 hours per day, just like a boy at age of 15 and over, There is matureness and thinkness in every person's mind. My point of view is that "we all are going to be teenagers forever", but we got to be respectful as a real "male" person. thanks

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Rob 18

it appears to me that bots and men have only one major difference between them and that is their outlook on life. Men can see the world for what it really is knowing that everyone is out for themselvs and will even try to scam others to get what they want. boys on the other hand are oblivious to this fact and dont understand some of the things men do. There is no specific time that this should dawn on a boy but the buest time would most likely be in the late teens. The event can be anything actually. while in danger or a very stressfull situation most people find out things about the world which pushes them to become a man. To a young boy i would say Enjoy life as it is while you can, because it's all gonna change someday.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Xander

A boy becomes a man when he feels the real world.Being a boy means still having that innocence, some may say ignorance, that lets him know that he will become a lawyer or soccer player because he simply wants to be, and that all the world will be one grand adventure.To be a man is, sadly, to realise that dreams are never fulfilled to your expectations, and sometimes cheaters do prosper, and bad things happen to good people, that the pirates beat Peter in the end. A mature boy, now that's what males should aspire to be !

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

A boy first becomes a man when he first has had a good blow job. Once he has cummed in her mouth he is a real man. If you are a boy get a girl to suck your dick until you cum in her mouth then tell her to swallow it!!!!

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Blu

Well, that's a real question. See I think a boy becomes a man when he can fully accept ALL PARTS OF HIMSELF, not just his penis, brains,or his muscles,but his wisdom, knowledge, and responsibilities. Wisdom includes sharing all the experiences, both good, and bad with another male so that he may grow knowing he's accepted and confident. knowledge is self-explanatory cuz not EVERY MAN knows everything, or all the same amounts of knowledge,but anything you can share,or give to a boy that will better equip him for this crazy world, has GOTTA BE knowledge.Finally, among all a man's many responsibilites, SELF-CONTROL would have to be the MOST important becuase, without it, many of us could end up in jail, because we couldn't "keep our hand to ourselves," so there really is NO BIG SECRET to becoming a man other than what I just listed and one more...standing up for what you'll beleive in! That's when a Boy becoms a man, I mean why else would it take so loong to finish puberty?!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: SDMAN

I believe this question is very simple. A boy becomes a man when he feels that he can/wants to label himself as a man. Just like sexual preference, a person attaches that label to themselves. (i.e. heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, undecided, etc.) Nobody else can determine how to label another individual, we make these choices for ourselves. For example, if someone "acts" homosexual (stereotyping..I know) and they say that they are heterosexual, then they are heterosexual. Who am I to say, "No you are gay because you "act" like a gay person." Similarly, if a person says they are a man, they are a man no matter what the rest of the circumstances may be.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: JohnR

A boy becomes a man when he develops those little tadpoles and can put the where the female will end up with a child. His first ejaculation that contans sperm. That if he is going to have sex whit a girl HE shold use a condom. Don't think right away your homosexual if you like the guys better then the girsl I feel a lot of this is a desire for same sex companionship.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dick

A boy becomes a man when he finaly understands that he will take the responsibility for his actions without reservation. A boy becomes a man when he discovers that his actions in life directly reflect upon himself, and nobody else. A boy becomes a man when he discovers that he can control his own destiny by maintaining his actions in life in the directions of his goals. A boy does NOT become a man the first time he cums. A boy does NOT become a man the first time he has sex (straight, gay or otherwise). Manhood is a one part learned and one part earned experience, not something bestowed uppon, or bought, or even sometimes grown into.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Billy

I would have to use physical criteria only for "when a boy becomes a man", as going by emotional development could mean some boys never become men--or do so at an incredibly early age. Usually, I would think a boy becomes a man at 16 or 17 approximately. He would have to have a voice change, his adult body hair--face, armpit, genital, and chest would develop, and he would produce and ejaculate enough sperm in his semen to become a father.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ads,16

A boy becomes a man when he can play an active role of leadership in the household and in his own life. A boy becomes a man when he can make his own decisions and be able to correct the bad ones he has made. A boy is a man when he is ready to enter the real world and take the steering wheel to his own life and guide himself. Some boys dont become men, but a boy becomes a man when he can accept himself.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tag

---I believe that happens as a consequence of many smaller events. When a boy first realizes his true intentions, the things he chooses and the reasons why he chooses them, and can be honest about them is a start. Realizing how his words and actions affect those around him and accepting the responsibility for them is another step. I think one of the biggest "life changing" factors is when anyone can be themselves without getting hung up on the social stigmas about what he's "supposed" to be. Realizing that he's human, will make mistakes his whole life, and still can NOT carry around an excess of self loathing that inevitably spills out on those close to him. Running around in fear of being realized is not a way to go.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Quiet

Being an only child, I made decisions long before I realized just how indepedent I had become. I had had sex by eleven, ran the house, and was much to myself. The folks were always gone. I went to college at 17, try to tell me anything.

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Gary

A boy becomes a man when he accepts responsibility for his own acts. When he sees the difference between right and wrong and takes a stand for the good in life. It's not a sexual thing.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: gibber

Contrary to all of my relatives beliefs, I don't think sex has anything to do with it. In fact I think there is no certain specific point where a boy become a man. It's not like all of a sudden boyhood goes out the door and now your a man. It's a compilation of events. But the biggest event is when there is that moment of independance when responsibility becomes one of the most important things in life. the boy has to make an important decision that will affect his life forever. Now he is a man.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: isaac

i am 17 years old, and consider myself as a man. i think a boy becomes a man when he starts learning responsibility. i would consider myself very sexually active because i have sex at least 5 nights a week with women. sometimes, when i get drunk, i have sex with men. all my sexual partners say i have a very nice cock, it is 9.5 inches and im only 17. i also think when a boy becomes a man is when he penis grows larger.

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Scott

You become a man when you take responsibility for yourself and your action. When I came out to my friends and family which is a very hard thing to do in a very strick Jewish household and small town I grew alot. I lost some friends but some supported me same with my family. I was cut off financially from my father and never alouded to return home I grew up in a very affluent home and brought up with a silver spoon in my mouth. But it was a decision I made and I stuck to it. At the age of 31 the advice I would give to a young man is don'nt take anything for granted and go with your feelings their will aways be consequences but you have to deal with them.

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GENDER:
TITLE: Tim

a becomes or starts to become a man when he goes through purity, is able to ejaculate, more over it's a learned behavior, just like sexual preference, i don't think if you have sex with same sex for many year when your really young has any effect on the adult decision you make to be gay or straight,often other boys are just convenient and easy access to each other, how we grow mentally is instilled by or experiences and other around him expecting him to act his age, so to speak. for example when i was 12 my I walked in on my Dad masturbating, i was very curious, and really liked looking at a large adult penis, he had porn playing on the VCR, he showed me how to jack off, and we did it now and then , i grew up normal and am happily married, and have always had a loving relationship with my Dad, I would never tell anyone that my Dad and i masturbated side by side, for most of my young life, most people would think something was wrong with that, but We didn't and he's heterosexual, except with me, but my curiosity started it all , and he just obliged! all in all it's when he is willing and is actually able to fend for him self, 100% with out any financial help form anyone,even when were 20-30 kinda for ever, we always have a little boy still in us, we so many of us just don't let him out to play anymore, we rediscover him usually when we have kids and play with them. Life is not do definable , it's just a bunch of stuff that happens , and we try to quantify every ting,and it's just not possible. That's life

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TITLE: Anonymous

I told my step-dad outright that I wanted his cock and to jack him off. He said ok. So we jacked off each other while camping. Our orgasms were unbelievably powerful. We jacked then sucked off each other for the three days. I told him that meant ejaculating cum means I was a man at 15. He said not quite. (He was 35) He then spent hours explaining what makes a man and it wasn't cock play!

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Billy

A boy becomse a man when he sucks anthor guy dick. Once I whent into a closet with anoth guy and he started to kiss me and then we locked the door and we started to jump on me so he so we whent on for hours. this sould be a change becaus inspires other young gay kids. Always do it for hours and hours.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER:
TITLE: go

A boy becomes a man not at any age, but when he can accept that life is difficult and get on with it without handouts from others. A boy becomes a man when he realises there is no 'right of passage' such as having sex, edjaculating, or having an education. a boy becomes an man when he can accept what he sees and hears and can understand others points of view. a boy is not a man when he looks old because these people believe that they have a 'right of passage' more than others and that attitude is that of a boy not a man. a boy becomes a man when he defines himself not as a sexuality in particular but goes with what is right, and realises that what is right has consquences. hes a man when he realises the dreams are there not to be fulfiled but to direct and learn from...

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: WOOK

A BOY BECOMES A MAN WHEN HE ACCEPTS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF HIS ACTIONS. SOCIETY AS A WHOLE HAS MANY BOYS THAT ARE WELL OVER THE AGE OF LEGALITY. THIS SI SEEN VERY CLEARLY IN THE POLITICAL ARENA. THE USE OF BLAMING OTHERS FOR DIFFICULTIES IS WHAT MAKES A BOY. WHEN SOMEONE ACCEPTS HIS SITUATION AS A STARTING POINT AND ACCEPTS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF HIS ACTIONS THEN YOU HAVE THE BEGINNING OF A MAN

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: XYZ

I think a boy becomes a man the very first time someone demands sex from him and he delivers it. I'm not talking about mutual masturbation or blowjobs but having someone wanting a male to penetrate his or her body and the male delivering on that. A man is attractive to persons who enjoy sex with men, and those persons will let you know when they want you. A man should be more confident than a boy but not arrogant but self-assured. After all, someone submitted their body to him for pleasure, that should make anyone's self-esteem go up. To a very young man I would say love your partner often, find out what they really need, and give it to them. And remember to get what you need too and not get all wimpy about pleasing someone else.

I believe I left the realm of childhood and started my journey into manhood when I had my first orgasm. I somehow knew that I was no longer a child.

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I think that a boy becomming a man begins with puberty and the ensuing physical maturation process. To be philisophical a boy becomes a man when he begins to take the responsibility of being a man. I think that when a man accepts himself for who he is and determines whattype of person he wants to be.

I would tell a very young man to be the best person he can be. His sexuality is such a tiny part of what makes him who he is.

My advice: Don't be in such a hurry to become a man. Sex and Adulthood is complicated enough, but would be more so when ur really young.

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I beleive a boy becomes a man when he ejaculates for the first time, showing that he is able to create a baby, and start a family.

Physically a boy becomes a man at puberty but maturity is the rest of it. As far as advise goes, I would suggest they sew their wild oats and get that out of the way so when they marry they will have a better chanch of settling down. I didn't and did it after marriage. Taught my childred that masterbation was natural and not to feel guilty. I don't know if they ever had any homosexual contact other than I know that one of my sons friends taught him to masterbate. They donot know that I tend to be bisexual. My wife does know as she caught me blowing one of my friends. We have discussed this completely and she is accepting of it. Although she is 100% streight.

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A boy becomes a man pysically when he ejaculates for the first time. Mentally, probably when he learns how to make some money, and support a family.

I think a boy becomes a man when he realizes his responsibilities. it is nothing to do with when you first orgasm, I did not achieve an orgasm until I was almost seventeen but I had because of my mother being seriously ill had to take on family responsibilities way before I could masturbate to shoot spunk.

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Unlike these folks' opinions mine is that, a boy gets self-confidence that he CAN make a man when he digged and successfully mined own ejaculation out from own body with heavenly pleasure, and then feel ACTUALLY made a man when got married and successfully intercoursed, and in addition, PROVEN when got a baby pregnanted and born. It is yet a basic feeling (in my culture (Japan)) that man is not yet a man, woman is not a woman, unless/until he or she gains at least one or more child, to whom he and she (can, must) share 100% social responsibility. Unmarried old boy is just a wanking boy forever. Sorry.

It's different for each individual. There is no particular event. It is a gradual process - physically and emotionally. In terms of the sexual side of becoming a man, I would advise a boy to ask questions about sex and not be ashamed of his feelings.

A boy is physically becoming a man when he's going through puberty and ejaculates. At this point he is able to create children. But he is not truly a man until he accepts responsibility and is comfortable with who they are.

I think that physically a boy becomes a man when he ejaculates for the first time, through nocturnal emission, masturbation, or sexual intercourse.

 i think that a man is a term that boys and/or guys spend their entire lives in search of. I believe that we feel that we are only able to call ourselves man when we have reached that ideal that we hold ourselves to. only when we have accomplished what we wanted to get out of life, when we can look back at our life and say i've done all I could do, and i've done my best. That, I believ, is when one becomes a man. masturbation, sex, ejaculation, are all tools or experiances that one encounters on your sojourn towards manhood

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A boy becomes a man physically when his penis and balls are developed enough to produce and ejaculate sperm and when he also has grown hair around the base of the penis. However, this varies male to male. A boy becomes a man mentally, morally and spiritually when he can handle his load of responsibilities without having to be harped on to take care of matters and when he learns to show proper respect for others and treats others as he wants to be treated.

I think that a boy can become a man at anytime, physically or mentally. If you would consider it a physical trait that determines when a boy becomes a man, then it can happen around the teen years, sometimes in the late teens, or even some men were given the gift of going threw puberty early, if you consider it as a gift. Mabey it is a coming of age or maturity that determines it, but a male doesn't stop growing until they are at least 20. It could change a man by their wisedom and mental maturity, or the physical traits that give a guy confidence. I strongly encourage parents to not be around the bush about pubery and masturbation, it can be shocking to a kid if they haven't been exposed to it yet, if you don't want to talk to your kid about it, I recomend jackinworld.com, this is a great website with alot of info about male masturbation and puberty, it can be very helpful to you or your teen, it has great techniques to try, helpful info for ur teen, ect. It is great for u and ur kid!

I think a boy becomes a man when he is confident with what he has and he ejaculates through, nocturnal emmisons, or masterbation. I taught my kids masterbationa and how to be confident with themselvs.

 i belive that a boy becomes a man after he fisrt ejaculates and also when he mentally matures and becomes more independant

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I think it's a combination of many things - age, mind set and what makes the man. Guys start to masturbate at an early age, but that does not make them a man. The maturity to take resposibility for your actions does the trick. Any advice I would give would be to go easy on yourself, know who you are, don't be afraid to experiment sexually with yourself or others. Gender makes no difference. It's who you are as a person and what you do is what counts.

I disagree with the person that said that they become a man when they can take on responsibility without being harped on, b/c some people never grow out of that.

Becoming a man has everything to do with how your treat people; the dignity you carry with you, and the sudden desire to become resposible for your actions. It has nothing to do with orgasams, pubic hair and balls.

A boy becomes a man by a slow process. First, as a boy learns to take on more and more responsibility for his actions. A maturing boy takes on more concern for the well being of others - perhaps first for his fmaily members, but later for others outside his immediate family.

More and more, a young child can see, and feel the effect his actions have on others, and little by little will take pleasure in maximizing the happines of himself and others - and not focus on just maximizing his own pleasure.

As the balance shifts toward an equal concern for his own well being as well as for the well being of others , a child becomes a man.

A male's first encounter with sex can fit in at any time in this process. And being so powerful and so overwhelming, sex can also accelerate, or disrupt, or disrail, or slow down this maturing process.

You are a man by what you hold in your heart toward yourself and others.

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1. It depends on the boy. I think there's not a time to become an adult.

2. In my own case, I think it was when my friends and I stopped playing with child games (madelmans, Playmobil's clicks and so) and get into more adult entertainment. About 12 years old.

3. Oh, yes! You begin to discover things, to wonder about life and death, sex and love, future and past...

4. If you feel yourself still as a boy, enjoy your childhood while you can, because it's the BEST period of one's life, without any doubt. If you feel yourself as a man yet, be cautious, discover the world with your friends but don't forget your family. And always try to learn new things... but being a reasonable man.

I think a boy becomes a man when he first notices he has had an ejaculation through jaking off or a wet dream.

A boy physically becomes a man when he starts shaving, ejaculating, voice changes, etc. However there is much more to it than that. The reality of becoming a man has to do with maturity. Just because his body becomes able to procreate, he isn't really a MAN until he is mature enough to accept the responsibilities that are the REAL test of manhood.

I believe You aaaare no longer a child but a man when you have passed that first ejaculation and orgasm stage. Of course puberty is one but you can go throught puberty without having a orgasm so people can argue that it is puberty that determins this.

It seems to me (age 64 now) that there is no defining moment, but rather a gradual process of awareness and physical maturbation. And while there is no real hurry, there is at least a need to be aware by ones early teens of the responsibility towards others that ultimately defines manhood. Young 'men' will always be risk takers and observing that behaviour is a good indication in many boys of approaching manhood. Helping them deal with it responsibly may help to allow them to reach adulthood safely!

But nothing in what I just said explains why so many of us sail into manhood ignoring every convention, danger, and any consideration of others. So maybe we should just measure testosterone levels and when it reaches a particular level declare the boy a man!

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A boy becomes a man when he is able to have intercourse and to procreate. But he must wait till he will be able to asume this responsablity too.

I think a there are two ways a boy becomes a man. The first part is when busts a nut for the first time. The second part is when he becomes mature enough to raise a family, and by raise a family I mean actually take care of the family not just have kids and run. The big change will come when this child accomplishes all the things mentioned above. I would give a very young man the advise that it is ok to masterbate and explore your body even starting at a really young age. This will help avoid sexually transmitted diseases and hopefully early pregnancy. A young man should know that it is wrong to start a family and not be man enough to take care of it. I truly believe that knowing all this proves manhood.

If it is a matter of pubic hair and knowing what sexually attracts one, I knew by 6th grade and went after one fellow classman who reminded me of my first cousin and his intrsducing me to the excitement of touching a body, even if not his cock (I still like asses and sex from the back, love to hold a man from the back with body-to-body contact). I pursued him relentlessly and he gave in happily for two years. I hated to graduate, because he left the area with his family, but there were plenty of others, many older, who lipked my ministrations. Maturity has never entirely been mine until very recently, if it encompasses being sexually responsible, as I think it does. My advice: find the responsibility early: be monogamous; experiment together and only with one another.

I think the time when a boy becomes a man is when he realizes that life isnt as simple as it seems. there is more to life then just having life and playing games; you have responsibilities you will need to take in order to live in society today. I think also that one major thing that may cause a boy to realize he is a man is when he experiences his first orgasm and learns to masturbate. this ability that guys are given will e the joy you will experience for the rest of your life. you will realize more about your body and start asking questions about everything that is changing. I give this as advice for a very young man is to accept your body because you are given it once and should enjoy it to ur fullest extent. dont worry everything that is changing is just normal.

A boy becomes a man when he hits puberty, that would be a physcial man, not an emotional man. When a man starts to cum and has the potential to create another human he is physcially a man. But a person has much to learn before he is a man emottionally.

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