002 Q: Before I started masturbating,
I used to always get rock hard erections when I watched pornographic videos.
Ever since I started masturbating, I don't get erections when I watch porno.
Also, before I started masturbating, I used to get a lot of erections for
no reason, since I started masturbating 2 years ago, I almost never get
involuntary erections. Why is that? A: Because the libido (sex drive) has a relief mechanism that
you are activating by masturbating. Masturbation and/or sex tends to quiet
down the powerful forces of the hormones and human instinct.
004 Q: Can you tell me anything
about masturbation addiction? I'm heterosexual, going to be 51 soon and have
had a loving, supportive, sexually willing and energetic domestic partner
for 15 years. I love her, and when we've had sex, I've really enjoyed it,
but for the last 4 years, I've predominantly chosen masturbation (alone)
rather than intercourse, and almost exclusively for the last 2 years. I Love
my partner, but don't feel romantic/sexual feelings for her anymore, although
on all special occasions I buy very loving, romantic cards and I mean them
when I give them to her. My turning to masturbation, rather than intercourse,
has broken my partner's heart, and I have no explanations. I occasionally
visit a "naturalist" (nudist colony on-line site, but not "porn" sites, and
have had no affairs). I was married before, for 11 years, and it, too, was
basically sexless. I used masturbation as an alternative then, too. My first
wife wasn't interested in sex, and thereafter I got fed up and turned away.
Is it possible I've just become addicted to masturbation for some psychological
reasons? What can I do? A: Everything I know about it is located here --->
http://sexeditorials.com/masturbation/frequent.html
and here --->
http://sexeditorials.com/theory/addiction.html
012 Q: I am 28 and at night I
cannot fall asleep unless I masturbate. How can I lead a normal
life? A: I don't think there is anything wrong with masturbating before
you go to bed, but that's just my opinion! NAME: Gary 060 Q: I masterbate a lot. almost
everyday. When it comes down to sex I don't get hard what so ever. Can
masterbating be the problem. A: The only way to find out is to cut down on masturbating.
014 Q: I masterbate when my parents
aren't home. I have noticed my penis is starting to lean towards the right
when i'm soft, and sometimes when i'm hard. I masterbate with my left hand
only, and I started puberty awhile ago. I have some pubic hair. A: It is quite normal to experience what you are seeing. Masturbation
does not cause the penis to bend. However, about one-third of all men have
a penis that leans either to the left or to the right. Don't let it bother
you at all.
016 Q: I have dark marks on my
face, I think its from masterbation. How would I get rid of this and be back
to normal. A: Masturbation does not affect the face.
022 Q: How do you "masturbate"
someone else? A: You use your hand to stimulate their genitals. There are tons
of methods to do it, and I would recommend any way that feels comfortable. NAME: andy216 040 Q: I have a slight BRUISE around
where my fingers touch my shaft when masturbating. I have had it for approx
6 months but have never stopped masturbating to let it heal. If I do stop
masturbating for 2-3 weeks, will it disappear? A: It might. Maybe you could just change the position or method
you use to masturbate. NAME: Helpless
050 Q: Hi, I am 33 yrs old and
married and have 3 yrs old child. I have a habit of watching porno through
internet at home during the night after my wife sleeps. I was caught red
handed couple of times and my wife was very angry and says that a normal
person wouldnt do this and very very bad mannered only will do this and I
should not touch her any more and only rotten men do this like. She cursed
and abused me like any thing. I want to know whether I am a normal person
or what I did was really wrong? A: Well, you are normal in the sense that a lot of married men
do things like this. I think a good compromise might be to give up the porn.
However, I think it is totally normal for married men to fantasize and/or
masturbate by themselves. See --
http://sexeditorials.com/masturbation/husband.html NAME: Drew
055 Q: I masturbate about once
a day, rarely more than that except lately I have because my girlfriend and
I of three years broke up and I have been extremely sexually frustrated.
But I am having a problem with my penis's sensitivity. I feel that my penis
is less sensitive than it was. What can be the cause of this and is it
reversible? I have read on some other sites that you can buy herbal medicines
to apply to it to get sensitivity back, is this true or is it a scam? I am
really scared that I won't be able to get the sensitivity back. I don't use
lubrication, can the friction be what's causing it? I don't think I have
diabetes and I don't think I have any STDs, but am going to get tested. What
do you think can be causing this? Please help! Thanks in advance. A: The friction and vibration from masturbation can cause loss
of sensitivity. You may wish to do it slower and possibly use lubrication.
The problem is generally reversible and may come and go at times throughout
a man's life. You could also be experiencing psychological lack of sensitivity
due to the ending of a long-term relationship (even if you think it was for
the best).
Herbal remedy for anything sexual is usually a scam. NAME: Jay
056 Q: I masturbate about once
a day for the last 14 years. I have read about sexual exhaustion (fatigue,
lack of concentration, etc.) can be contributed to this, is this true? What
are ways to stop being sexually exhausted? If I cut back will I stop being
tired? A: I guess you could give it a try. However, most men find that
being sexually frustrated is worse than being sexually exhausted.