NAME: Guy 443 Q: When you masterbate, can you go
blind or deaf, or increase your chances of going blind or deaf? A: No.
NAME: SeanTheBod 444 Q: I'm hearing stuff about over
masturbation. That it causes psychological imbalances and over production
of your sex hormones. Is this true? A: It can cause some psychological imbalances if done to extreme excess.
Over production of sex hormones is not likely. NAME: elly 445 Q: If I masturbate when I'm at a
young age, will it affect my growth -- meaning my height? I feel like when
I masturbate, my penis gets bigger. I'm really concerned about my
height. A: Your penis is getting bigger because you're getting an erection
naturally. Even if you didn't masturbate, your penis would still grow.
Masturbation is not going to affect your height or any other bodily growth
in any way. Your height is determined by genetic factors, including your
parent's DNA, your grandparent's height, and your ancestor's height. The
urge to masturbate is controlled by hormones that naturally become active
as you are growing up.
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NAME: Masturbation 446 Q: I have been a compulsive masturbator
for about seven years. And two months ago, I quit. I am noticing certain
symptoms like fatigue, nausea, headaches, pains and numbness in the hands,
feet and around chest, and no erection. Could this be withdrawal symptoms?
And what can I do about it? A: You were a "compulsive masturbator" that simply quit for two months?
How did you do that? I've never heard of withdrawal symptoms from masturbation
like you mentioned. There is really not enough information to answer your
questions anyway. Are you sexually active? Did you quit masturbation entirely
or just quit doing it compulsively? What or who made you want to quit? Who
diagnosed you as "compulsive" -- a doctor? NAME: Ace 447 Q: I was reading about the mutual
masturbating topics and was wondering, what can I do to improve it with a
male friend? What's the best thing to do? Does oral sex with a friend mean
your gay? A: (1) I don't know your male friend or his personality, so your question
tough to answer. It really depends on if your friend is willing to discuss
these things with you and if he is open to these experimentations. If he
is not, you should respect that. I also do not know how you feel deep down
inside about other guys. Sexual actions with a friend can complicate the
friendship -- so be cautious -- and don't rush into anything you don't feel
comfortable doing.
(2) Masturbation or sex with a man doesn't really mean that you're "gay".
However, it is still not a straight (heterosexual) activity to have sex with
a man. But to be gay (homosexual), there is more to the "gay" sexual preference
than fooling around with other guys. Love, affection, relationships, intimacy,
trust, and commitment have to be taken into consideration when you are
discovering your true sexual preference, whether that be heterosexual or
homosexual. You have to find out these things through personal discovery
within yourself. Sex or mutual masturbation is not going to answer your question
about you're worry of being gay because when you do a certain sexual act
with another male it can mean many things. See
http://male101.com/edi/other-males.html
for more info.
NAME: confusius 448 Q: Is it true that the testis gets
bigger every time I masturbate? A: No. If you are a developing young man, your testes may be getting
bigger at around the same time period in your life that you started masturbating.
However, this is just an unrelated coincidence. NAME: (Anonymous) 449 Q: I know my friend wants to masturbate
with me, but I notice he is to afraid to ask. I know he wants to, but he
just does't have the courage to say anything. What should I do? A: There is really no way to be sure of how he or you should ask based
on your statement. -- Just give it time. Masturbation with another male is
not an earth-shattering event. I'm not sure you are ready for this
type of action with him anyway. The best thing you can do it get to know
him better and get to know yourself better through serious thought about
the possible consequences of complicating the friendship.See
http://male101.com/edi/other-males.html
for more info. NAME: me 450 Q: I recently met the most sexual
girl I've ever met. she wants to do every thing with me, and i'm very open
to it. I respect her and she respects me. however last time I was with her
we were about to have sex, and my penis was hard during foreplay, however
when she began to give me oral sex it went soft, I didn't feel nervous or
anything. I think it is because I had masturbated about two hours before
we got together. Was that the problem? A: It could have been the problem. Recent masturbation can cause temporary
lack of interest in sexual activities.
NAME: (Anonymous) 451 Q: I heard a lot of people talking
about a "circle jerk". What is that? A: A circle jerk is a group of men who are masturbating at the same
time in the presence of one another. NAME: mman840 452 Q: I've been masturbating since age
11 and am now 52. My wife of 25+ years has always had little or no sex drive
so I've masturbated or, on occasion, she's masturbated me. She got pregnant
very easily with our two grown kids. We had intercourse rarely even back
then. I've masturbated 1-4 times a day with few exceptions. I think I masturbate
more now than ever before in my life and spend from 2 hours to all day edging
along at the computer when I can with no erection. When I don't have to work,
I do this every day for hours on end. I am now completely impotent but still
love to masturbate more than anything. Why can't I get hard and how can I
get this addiction under control? My wife gets frustrated with me when I
can't get hard for her. Should I be expected to perform like I used to even
if it's only a few times a year? A: I think the answers to these questions are very complex. A lot
of what I would say depends on the rest of the details in your life and your
recent experiences with your partner. I would definitely refer you to a
counselor, psychotherapist, or psychologist that has some experience in these
cases. This does not mean there are no solutions to your problems. I just
don't think there will be any quick solutions for you on this or any Internet
website. It sounds like the issues you mentioned are very troubling for you.
I don't think you have to live this way in the future if you seek the proper
counseling. Be prepared to seek second opinions also, especially if the first
person you see seems to lack specific sexual issues professional
experience. NAME: MisTay 453 Q: Do guys think about there girlfriends
when they jack off? A: They often do, but others might not always. It really depends on
the guy. NAME: (Anonymous) 454 Q: I usually use shampoo as a lubricant
for masturbation, but I'm looking for something that kind of has the same
feel, but not to thin like baby oil, do you know of any recommended
ones? A: Maybe cooking oils could work -- olive oil, vegetable oil, etc. NAME: paranoia 455 Q: I'm 23 years old, and I
been masturbating since I was 11, trying to hide it all my life. Well, now
I'm married and with children, and I have come to the point to let my wife
to know that I masturbate. Here and then, I watch some pornography. She has
become kind of my accountability partner because I want to quit, but every
time she asks me if I view porno again, I can't tell her the truth because
I know it hurts her to know that I have. I end up lying to her, which makes
me feel worse. A: You do have a responsibility to your family. However, you also
have a right to some privacy. I'm not really sure how to respond to your
viewing of pornography, especially since you have young children that will
grow up fast and begin to build curiosity about their parent's private lives.
Nevertheless, married men (even with children) do masturbate, and that is
simply a realistic statement. If you feel you have a pornography addiction,
you can check out http://sa.org. Otherwise,
I would advise you to cut out the porn, but explain to your wife the reality
of a man's need for some private time as long as it is not interfering with
his family life. If you haven't done so already, check out
Why Boyfriends
or Husbands Masturbate. NAME: (Anonymous) 456 Q: I've stopped masturbateing for
the past week. I used to masturbate 2- 4 times a day, but I quit. Now that
I stopped, every time I have to take a pee, it seems longer and when its
done my stomach hurts. Do you know anything about this? A: Lack of release of the orgasmic tension that builds within every
man's body can cause stomach discomfort. It's a side effect of quitting.
Maybe instead of masturbating 4 times a day or quitting entirely, you could
try moderation and masturbate once a day or once every other day. However,
I don't know your reason for quitting, so I'm not saying you should do anything
with your body that you don't feel comfortable doing. The stomach discomfort
should subside with time if you continue your quitting experiment. I don't
know how long it will take to subside, but it should be less intense when
your body begins forcing itself to have nocturnal emissions (wet dreams)
more often -- within the next few weeks. NAME: (Anonymous) 457 Q: Is it OK to hold back your cum
while you masterbate? A: It is OK as long as you do not use your finger (or anything else)
to block the semen from exiting through the penis hole. In other words, you
can safely use the
stop-and-go techniques.
But other ways of preventing semen from exiting the penis, when it comes
to the point of ejaculation, can cause what is known as "injaculation", which
can be painful. Some say it can even be dangerous to the reproductive system
if forced injaculation is repeated regularly. NAME: latinoheat 458 Q: I am in my early teens and I
masterbate. Will this stop my physical growing? A: No.