NAME: Pauly 423 Q: I am 30 years old and had
been masturbating almost every night since age 11. Every now and when I
masturbate, which is by rubbing my penis against my waterbed bed sheets,
or I use my masturbation toy. I use the stop and go method, which lasts anywhere
between 30 minutes to a whole hour. I have questions to ask. (1) Once in
a while when I masturbate, I scream and shout out loud when I reach my orgasm.
What causes me to scream and shout? I shout out so loud until my orgasm is
completely over. (2) One night when I masturbated, I tried to avoid shouting
when I reached orgasm. Shortly after I orgasmed, I had an asthma attack.
I take my inhalers regularly, but what triggered the attack? I had asthma
all my life, and this never happened before. Do you have any ideas?
A: Some people like to shout when climaxing and this is relatively
normal, but I have never heard of anyone having an asthma attack because
they tried not to shout. The attack could have been a coincidence. From what
I understand, asthma attacks can be brought on by over-excitement of the
respiratory system. This could happen from the sexual/masturbation act in
and of itself regardless of shouting or not shouting.
NAME: J.H 424 Q: If I masturbate on average
about twice daily and then suddenly stop for a period of one week, what kind
of symptoms (if any) will I encounter? A: The only symptom that is definite is an increased libido (sex
drive).
NAME: (Anonymous) 425 Q: Would it be unhealthy or
bad for you to stop masturbating for a year or two? A: It may not be comfortable to quit, but you will not die if
you quit. A question like this really depends on why you would be quitting
for a year or two. 426 Follow-Up Q: I recently asked
a question about stopping masturbating for a year or two. Sometimes I have
gone a week without masturbating and I feel fine, and its really not that
fun just jerking off by yourself. I'm hoping in a year or two years that
I will have a girlfriend who is close enough with me to fill that void. So,
if I stop for a year or two years, health wise I will be fine, but your saying
mentally I might be a little uncomfortable? A: In that case, I think you should do whatever you feel is
comfortable for you. See link:
I
don't masturbate at all. Is there anything wrong with me? There
seems to be more of a peer pressure to masturbate these days because of the
Internet and the frankness of many websites. However, it seems to be a bit
over-rated. Nevertheless, there is nothing wrong with doing it and certainly
not anything wrong with not doing it. It should be a personal choice. NAME: Big goose 427 Q: When masturbating, will
sticking my finger in my rear end make me have a better orgasm or just give
me a brown finger? How can I get it so I don't blow my load in less than
one minute? Any techniques? A: (1) Some people swear that inserting a finger or a sex toy
into the anus causes a much better orgasm, yet other men find themselves
with nothing more than a brown finger when trying this. It all depends on
how sensitive the nerve ending are in your behind I suppose. If they are
overly sensitive or under sensitive, it may not feel good. (2) You can slow
the ejaculation by slowing down the pace of masturbation or sex. There are
also stop-and-go techniques where you masturbate until almost ejaculating,
stop for a few seconds, start again, and stop when you feel it coming on
for a number of times.
Stop-and-go.
NAME: (Anonymous) 428 Q: If I masturbate too much,
does it affect my growth in any way? (i.e., Is it that the more I masturbate,
the less chance I'll have to grow taller?) A: No.
NAME: JJ 429 Q: What could be the reason
that when I masturbate my semen will ejaculate much further than other times?
(Even if it's been a period of days that I've mastrubated last.) A: There are many factors that will cause the semen flow to vary.
In fact, there are several different theories on what can cause it to vary
from each time ejaculation happens. Some of the more popular theories include
(1) the amount of hydration (water) in the body during semen production (2)
the position you are in when ejaculating (3) how long it has been since the
last ejaculation (4) medications, drugs, or chemicals in the body (5) degree
of muscle tissue relaxation, which can depend on mood, anxiety levels,
expectations, time of day, etc. (5) by chance, sometimes the body produces
a thicker, more solid or jelly-like semen and other times it is more watery
(6) random variation. NAME: (Anonymous) 430 Q: My masturbation habits
used to be chronic, and I found that the frequent release of semen made me
more stand-offish and socially disinclined towards other people. To counter
this, I would squeeze myself during the climax of masturbation, resulting
in a successful orgasm, but no semen would be released. Is this habit
dangerous? A: Yes, it can be. Such a practice in and of itself will not
actually make you less socially disinclined because you are still masturbating
and ejaculating. The semen is just physically forced back into the body.
However, you probably are more confident in yourself because you feel like
you are controlling your sexual expression. You've convinced yourself that
you have a grip on the "chronic" masturbation issue. It is this confidence
that causes you to feel less socially disinclined and less stand-off-like.
It is your mental conclusions from the experience rather than the physical
action you are taking that is making you feel a psychological change.
Unfortunately, it is true that if you feel you are masturbating out of control
(chronically), you can develop symptoms of inferiority and social ineptness.
The same is true for someone who believed they have an over-eating problem,
alcoholism, etc. NAME: dil Rista 431 Q: I am a 23 year old
guy, and I have been masturbating since the age of 15. Now I am in love with
a girl and we are going to marry. I want to know whether it will effect
our marriage life, whether I will be able to satisfy her, and if it is bad
to continue masturbation. A: I wouldn't worry about it unless it becomes a problem after
the marriage. You might need to fine tune your masturbation routines, but
you should not feel that you have to quit entirely. Please see the page
http://male101.com/edi/husband-masturbation.html NAME: Jim 432 Q: I masterbate 3 to 6 times
in a week, but after completing session every time I see my balls are hanging
longer as if all the sperm has been removed from it. It becomes very loose
and hangs long. Why is that and is it normal? A: I'm sure it is normal. However, most of the seminal fluid
that comes out of the penis when ejaculating does not come from the testicles.
Most of the seminal fluid actually comes from the prostate gland. The sperm
is produced in the testicles, but it is only small percentage of the semen.
Most likely, the testicles begin to hang lower after masturbating because
the bodily heat down there is rising during masturbation. The scrotum is
very temperature sensitive. If you notice, cold temperatures or cool water
tends to make the scrotum restrict. This, in turn, causes the testicles to
become closer to the body. This is a natural regulation adaptation which
allows the testicles to maintain a constant temperature, ideal for producing
sperm.