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I really haven't had much trouble delaying ejaculation when I masterbate as I am in control of the entire process, since my wife and I are so used to each other it seems to depend on how my wife is reacting to the sex we are enjoying at the time. My big problem with premature ejaculation is when my wife and I (both bi-sexual) are involved for the first time with another man. It seems to only be a problem for me when its the first time I see my wife interact with a new man, once we get past the first time I seem to return to my normal self.
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Only if time will not allow, then I totally enjoy trying to prolong the period before ejaculation. Instead of calling it foreplay, just refer to it as play. That's when you can really get into the mood, feelings, sensations that arousal brings. How many times does it take before you fall over the edge to the nutcracking bliss of ejaculation? The more, the merrier!
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I'm usually able to do the method of almost going over the edge, then pulling back. I especially like to do this before the second ejaculation, as I enjoy the feeling of being low on the stuff almost as much as having a full tank. The longest period I've ever held was about 30 minutes, but I've only been jacking for a few months now, so I'm sure more will come with experience and time.
I am a textbook premature ejaculator so in order to prolong anything sexually, I can barely touch myself or be touched. My wife has learned to deal with this and knows how to bring me to the point and back off which quite literally sometimes is 3 or 4 seconds. She has a gift.
yes I always delay climax mentally, I love to bring my wife off first, with slow stroking and using vibes and tounge.then its my turn I usually have multiples.twice a day not bad for 72yo
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I think the longer you prolong it the better and more intense it is. My way is to jerk off for a while than stop. Often I let my penis go almost totally soft than begin again and do this several times.
Yes I always prolong my activities. I just lighten up on the strokes until the desire subsides and start again. Usually about three hours.
When I feel myself coming I move my hand more to the base of the shaft.
When I was younge and sut starting to jack off and learn different tichniques, The sooner I shot my load the better, then in my late teens I learned to slow down a bit and enjoy it, and now I try to prolong my jcking session as long as I can, until finally maybe 30 or 45 min into it I have such a load built up I just go for it and shoot myload, at that point I just push my piss hole into the palm of my free hand and lit it shoot into that hand,, I try to catch all I can in that palm
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I am a fast cummer (is that a word?) anyways, usually only takes me a few minutes to cum so if I actually have some time to myself I like to go slow starting from the bottom of my shaft all the way to the top lightly twisting as I go. when I feel the pre-cum oozing out I use that as my lube. I wait until im just about to come and then take my hand away and let my cock stand erect. I can feel the blood pumping in it hard so I let it sit for a few seconds and let the erection go down slightly, when it does that it lets a little more cum out which I use for extra lube. I repeat that until I just cant bear it anymore and my cock head is swollen then I explode with jizz and most of the time squirts about 3 loads onto my face. Trust me the force that can be built up is incredible.
Yes, I prolong my orgasms all the time. I can now bring myself to the limit mayber 40 or 50 times and then stop and strat all over. Sometimes this process lasts all day and I am tingling all over. Finally, just one touch of a finger and I am squirting all over. Sometimes I choose to stop completely just enjoying the tingling and not cum. I start all over the next day and can now actually milk the cum out of my cock without cumming. It is so much fun to make it ooze out without orgasm. I have gone as long as a week without orgasm and just milking my cock everyday about 10 times a day. The longer I go the easier it is to milk.
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I have been masturbating in the shower for quite a number of years. Ever sence my stroke. My wife, who died last year, suspected, but wouldent change her no sex rule. I fixed my own problem.
I sometimes do. I will masturbate right to the edge then I will stop and go to the edge a few times or until either I cant resist or loose It then I just cum and it feels soooo good
Yes I do try to prolong the period before orgasm and ejaculation by using what I call the stop and go method. I stroke my penis until I am on the edge of ejaculation. I then back off of stroking until I cool down. I then begin stroking at the base of my penis using my thumb and forefinger and take my balls in my hand using the last three fingers. I squeeze my balls and the ejaculation in intense and leaves me breathless.
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I try to prolong the orgasm for as long as possible as they are so much more intense when I do. Plus the amount of ejaculate increases after a prolonged session. Sometimes the tension is almost more than I can take to not shoot off. The stop and start method works well for me as well as pulling down on my scrotum. Sweezing either the base of my penis with my thumb and forefinger will hold off for a while however the pulsing does go on and sometimes when I let go the cum runs out of my penis.
I usally cum quickly because I need to to have my cum out so it won't bother me, but I sometimes do enjoy it very much and take longer time.
After 30-odd years of very active sx life, my wife and I can sense when the other is ahead or behind and so control our own internal reactions. I suppose the most effective control is to stop sexual movements ans caresses until the ahead partner loses a bit of his or her sexual reaction.
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I stop my self from cumming when I have sex with my wife or girl friends by thinking about fire engines just at the point of ejeculation I find this works every time
When I masturbate on my own, no. When I masturbate with my partner, yes. I use stop and go technique.
In sex, sometimes, by stop and go and controlled breathing.
yes, AI try and prolong the period before I orgasm all the time, as it does not take me long to reach a climax. I usually ask my wife to back off from playing with me for a while then that gives me a little more time to play with her.
Absolutely. I enjoy a long sexual experience. To prolong sex with my wife, we will stop touching each other genitals and focus on other parts of the body. She enjoys having her nipples severely stimulated over a long period of time. I enjoy licking her feet and sucking her toes for long periods. I do not prolong masturbation as often as I do sex, but when I do, it is by not touching my penis for a while and stimluting other parts of my body, such as my anus or scrotum. Sometimes, I will get dressed and wait for my erection to soften, the strip and start again.
Sometimes I want to jack off almost as soon as possible. Other times I plan to make it last. To do that I avoid touching my penis and concentrate on other stimulation. I use anal dildos which give me both pleasure and huge erections. Sometimes I just stop. Put my clothes back on and take a break.
When having sex with my wife, we both enjoy exloring each other's bodies and prolong sex for as long as we want. My wife will have mutliple orgasms and often I will have a second.
yes i delay orgasm for as long as i can using stop and go method. last night i held it back for 2.5 hours and couldn't bear to hold it so stroked hard and fast and blew my load everywhere
Yes. I try to go very slow. Just enjoy each moment. I pull back if my arousal starts accelerating too fast. This works. But I would love to learn the continous male orgasm as taught on some websites. Like multiples.com. I just have not been succesful with pursuing an extended 40 or 50 second orgasm. Yet I see on these websites that others have succeeded in achieiving a continuous, and amazingly long orgasm. Anyone here tried the continous orgasm stuff?
i cum fast but its good because i masturbate every day so it doesnt take long. The first time im with a new women i seem to cum fast but with in 2minutes i can go again and then i last for 20 or so minutes.
Yes! I figured that out when I started masturbating at age 12. Then and now, I'd often do a quickie, but when I'm not too busy I'll drag it out for hours. Sometimes, I choose to end the session without cumming. What a mind-trip! I'm semi-hard and on a sexual high for the rest of the day. Then I do it agin the next day. Sure, I'm missing a few orgasms, but my total pleasure more than makes up for it.
If time permits it, I like to delay cumming a few times. I usually just do the stop and go method. When I feel myself about to cum, I back off and grab the base of my dick or rub my balls a bit. Then I start up again. It usually doesn't take as long to get to that point again. It is totally worth it too. It feels so much better when I finally cum and usually I get quite a bit of cum and/or it shoots farther rather than dribbling out.
There are times I want to cum quickly. Other times I enjoy stroking on and off for an hour or more. Occasionally I am able to cum twice in an hour, but I find it more pleasurable to stimulate myself in various ways, stroke, then rest and let my erection subside for awhile. I prolong masturbation by simply allowing it to last a long time. Knowing that there are forms of stimulation, such as an anal dildo or a butt plug, ahead makes it easy to rest.
Sometimes when having sex or masturbating, I am ready to cum before I really want to. I have to stop all contact with my erection. Sometimes I just rest. Other times I stimulate my anus. In sex, I just focus on my wife's body for a while.
yes i try the stop and go method as sone as i feel the beging of a orgasm i put my hands behind my bed then i wait till the feeling ges away and start masturbating again
Sometimes, when I have the time (generally lying in bed at night), I hold my orgasm for as long as an hour by relaxing all my muscles, especially my anal sphincter, and concentrating all my sensations on my penis. It's hard to do, but the payoff is an amazingly intensew orgasm!
Relax your abdominal muscles completely. Stand in front of a mirror and work on relaxing the muscles that retract your nuts into your body. Learn the feeling of letting those muscles relax so that your balls hang low.
Once you have the right muscles relaxed and free of tension, free the tension in your chest with regular, easy breathing. Don't let your breath catch, just relax and let the air flow in and out.
Once you're properly relaxed that way, it's very difficult to come even if you want to. That's the essence of the tantric technique for lasting a long time. Once you want to come, just tighten your abdominal muscles and let go of your breath control and you'll get off instantly.
This is a very simple technique to practice alone. It is easiest with a partner with her on top, so that you can relax. Try it those two ways until you know what you need to do and then try doing it while you're on top. It's harder to relax the proper muscles when you're propping yourself up and thrusting but the technique works just the same in any position with practice.
When I try to prolong the period before orgasm I stroke my penis and play with my test. After a while when I feel the Orgasm come I slow down or stop I then start up again and try to hold it in for as long as possible.
Occasionally i'll try to hold it in but the sensation normaly is to overpowering and i just end up cumming. When i do actually hold it in i normally just start rubbing my pecks instead of my dick.
yes, i try to prolong ejaculation during sex and during masturbation.
slow down either manual masterbation or slow down during coitus or withdraw for a period of time.
I very much enjoy the stop and start method; masturbate until I can feel close, then stop for a while and then start again. I can sometimes go for 1/2 to 3/4 of an hour. my pre-ejaculation fluid helps a great deal to stop irritation of my foreskin until I can't stop!!
I always try to prolong my masturbation sessions. I start by pulling my skin back, as I have a long foreskin, and stroke my 7 dick with my left hand. I like my dick as the head and shaft are quite wide and thick at 2 dia. so just seeing it turns me on. I pull the skin all the way back until the frenum is stretched hard, and I continue wanking. I keep this up for 10-15 mins until some pre-cum appears on the end of my dick. It sure gets me going. I keep wanking another 15 mins or so and more pre-cum appears, which I then rub around the top and underside of my cock. It makes it very horny and I really want to give in and come at this point. But I then wait and leave it for 30 secs, then continue. I keep this up and stop and start as much as I can. It gets to a point where I'm about to come, but I hold back and leave my cock alone. This is the best bit.... my cock then dribbles a small amount of spunk - I leave my flat palm underneath whilst it's dribbling..... but I don't touch my cock and let it dribble some more. After a minute I squeeze my cock to get some more dribble out onto my palm and proceed to lick the cum, then I wipe it on the underside of my cock. I continue wanking until the next time - maybe 15 mins later - when this process is repeated.
After an hour and a half I'm at bursting point and just have to let it fly. I continue wanking in the same way as before then get to the point of no return, when I leave my hands off and let the spunk fly on its own without me touching my cock. My cock throbs and pushing out the spunk so forcefully I nearly faint. I shoot it about 4 feet across the room and then clean up feeling quite exhausted. I love wanking and think I will continue doing it until the day I die!
somtimes i like to prolong my ejaculation by watching porn and jerking off then rite before i am about to shoot i stop then when i start to soften up again i start to jerk off again and i do this on and off for a while until i mess up and cant control it and shoot my load it feels sooo good when i prolong it
When I was younger, I used to cum fast and did not care because I could cum more often in a short period of time. I don't take very long to cum when I masturbate, but sometimes I just slow it down, stop touching myself. My wife and I usually like to spend an hour or more when we have sex, so that means I have to relax on occasion and have a time when neither she nor I is touching my penis. She can cum often during sex, so sometimes I will slow down my giving her oral.
Yes acctually I don't like to pro-long it as much as my wife wants me too. One night she puy a chastity belt on me (that was 7 years ago) I'm let out onlt when she wants wich is usallt evey two months. By now I'm used to it.
Yes, I always prolong orgasm when I masturbate. Masturbating is such a pleasurable act I get easily lost in the act. I explore every aspect of my senses during the act. Edging only heightens the pleasure. I some times do not orgasm when I masturbate. I enjoy building up the sensations. I usually like to go 3-4 days with out orgasm, but I will masturbate everyday between 4-5 hours a day. Then when I do orgasm, my whole being orgasms as well.
sometimes i do not masturbate myself for a week ai can then think how great it will be when i start to rub my nipples and clit i can imagine what my orgasm will be like and then when i do it is seems a lot bigger
I always edge myself while masturbating. I truly enjoy mastrubating right to the brink - then stopping. I watch the reaction of my penis and cannot believe how intense the feeling of total pleasure is. I will just stop, take my hand off me penis, usually put both hands behind my head, and just watch my penis it it's erect state. The feeling is too in credible to describe. It seems to have a life of it's own.
When I was younger I used to orgasm much too quickly. Over the years by using the stop-and-go method, and also by just continuing sexual activity after I came, I was able to completely control when I came, to orgasm without ejacualting, and to ejaculate without orgasm. I found my cock became extremely sensitive and it was possible to enjoy sex anytime for as long as I wanted. The only drawback I found was that it was often impossible to find time to have sex as much as I wanted.
I usually do, in fact, unless I'm pressed for time. Gennerally, I stop and rest for a moment, untill the knot at the base of my penis loosens a bit. Sometimes, I firmly squeeze the head of my penis during a rest; though that;s really just for a fun other sensation.
I have been practicing the stop-and-go method for at least 25 years, and can go as long as I like without orgasming or ejaculating. I can have orgasms without ejaculating, and sometimes I 'edge' for days without ejaculating. I just stop or slow down masturbating when I feel I am about to cum, it got easier with practice and age. At first I had many accidents, but I overcame that by continuing to masturbate even if I came. I must warn anybody that this is highly addictive, and I have become a chronic and compulsive masturbator, unable to leave my cock alone for any length of time.
Yes,I enjoy having an erection and the simple feel of my hard erect penis. During sex with a partner I enjoy beeing teesed and teesing, edging over several hours, this can take many forms including mutual masterbation, oral sex and intercourse. The longer we can make it last the more intense the orgasm. When not in a relationship I often take a couple of hours when masturbating.To maintain my arousal I use the stop go method combined with lots of lubrication. I usualy browse the internet or put on a DVD,and relax, I vary my speed and grip on my penis bringing my self to the edge many times. After a couple of hours as I feel my self start to reach the point of no return I will increase the speed and tighten my grip finishing with a very intense orgasm and strong ejaculation which I feel though out my entire body.
I just stop stroking my penis before I start to jerk and spurt. Sometimes if things are getting really urgent, I need to give my penis a squeeze.
I have tried to stop myself from ejaculating, but the only thing is that it's difficult sometimes to judge when you've reached the point of no return. When I feel myself begin to ejaculate, I squeeze (not too hard) the base of my penis so that no semen comes out. The other thing I do is wait until I'm about to come, and just stop and don't move. It's hard to do, and there's been many times when I have just said f*** it and just let myself come. But when done correctly, you get a great orgasm when you finally do come.
Yes. When I feel the train soming down the tracks I briefly stop stroking and penetrating or slow way down. Then in a few seconds start back up again or when my partner is ready again. But it usually does not last long and all blows (ejaculates)
I almost always try to proglong the period just before orgasim. I love the way I feel. I especially like to masturbate on my bed with a large mirror facing my so I can watch my balls contract as I prepare to orgasm. I slow it down for as long as I can before I let it burst. I use the stop and go method and grab my shaft at the bottom as far away from the head as possible.
Sometimes if I am real hard and horny, it's fun to cum real fast. Usually, though, I like to start when I am soft and make it hard. If I am getting to close to the cum, I'll stop stroking and massage my balls or anus or stroke gently on the shaft and avoid the head. Sometimes I just stop everything, lie back or sit back and look at prono.
This answer is addresed to mastubating myself. I try and hold off cumming as long as I can. Generally I masturbate once a day (every now and then twice a day) and will spend 2 to 3 hours playing with myself. My method to masturbate is to stroke up and down my cock with my hand fully wrapped around my cock in both a straight up and down and a circular motion as I reach the head. I vary the stroke by strohing both the full length of my cock and then just the head (when just the head it is with thumb and forefinger circled not the balance of the fingers.....almost like trusting my cock into a cunt). Speed up and slow down. When I feel I am going to cum (but want to continue masturbating) I just raelly slow down the stroking to maybe a stroke every two seconds and lighten the pressure on my cock until the feeling of cumming passes..then start right bach up. Geneeral this slowing down allows my cock to soften somewhat so the stroke that follow are to get it hard again. For the record, I am widowed and in my 70's. Both me and my cock enjoy and active life.
I find that prolonging things works best when with a partner and there's lots of foreplay. It works when I am alone only on rare occasions, like if I watch a long porn movie and resist coming too soon.
When masturbating, I love to prolong the period before I cum. Often, I don't let myself cum at all. I find self-cockteasing very enjoyable. Here is how I do it.
I love to look at really hot pictures of naked women on my computer when masturbating. Using some free software, I set up a folder with a slide show. I set my computer so the display turns off after 30 minutes. That ends the slide show. I have one special slide, and I play a game where I'm only allowed to cum while that special slide is showing. The software is set up so the slides are randomly displayed for 15 seconds. In order to be able to cum at all, I have to hold myself right on the edge of cumming so I can quickly cum during the 15 seconds when the special slide is shown.
But there is a catch. I calculate the number of slides that get shown for a 30 minute period. Then I put seven times that many pictures in the slideshow. That way, I only have a one in seven chance of cumming each time. Another rule of the game is that I can only play it once a day. Still another rule is that I cannot start playing the game until it's been a week since the last time I've allowed myself to cum. This makes it so that even when I first start the game, I have a nice full load of sperm that's already making my balls ache from needing to cum. The final rule is that if I have to make myself cum out of total frustration when the special slide is not shown, I must do so by lying on my back, kicking my legs up in the air, masturbating into my mouth and swallowing it all. My sperm tastes really gross, and there's a lot of it, so this is a very good incentive to prevent cumming against the rules.
So after a week of not cumming, I play the game once a day. Most of the time, I don't get to cum at all. At the end of each half hour session of holding myself at the brink of cumming, I'm usually left with a throbbing, twitching erection and a very desperate but unfulfilled need to cum. Because of the odds I've set up, it averages another 1 week before I can cum - sometimes more, sometimes less. About half the time, I become so horny that I have to break the rules about cumming. This usually means I end up masturbating about two weeks worth of sperm into my mouth as punishment. If I do make it to the special slide, when I cum, the orgasm is very intense, with sperm shooting all over the place because of the pressure. I have to use a large beach towel to prevent the cum from getting on my carpet.
I prolong my masturbation session by slowing up whenever I get close to cumming. I've been doing this long enough that I can catch it before it is too late.
I enjoy masturbating and not for a fast orgasim. I like to stroke myself for up to two hours before I cum. I just slow my stroke rate down to about 3 seconds per stroke in each direction and the feeling that I have to cum passes.
i can go for around 30-45 min masturbating i start of slow and intense realy rubbing the veins the i get faster when im about to jack i put my hand at the bottom off the shaft and build up presure unti i come.
i also like to get and empty loorool and a sock strech sock over rool and slide up and down it feelas good i like to masturbate with condoms on too
on occasion there is a need to delay ejaculation. it depends on how horny my wife is. some nights she will pop right away and just keep going til i cum others the need arrises for me to pull out and either masturbate her or give her oral until my urge to ejaculate passes. also dependes on sexual position and length of time between sessions eg if she has been away on conference (she feels tighter). during masturbation things are much more under my control, so i can stop or keep going as i please.
I like to prolong orgasm whether it be during masterbation or sex. When my gay friend is having sex with me I try to change or switch off oral sex giving and receiving to keep from cumming too soon. Then, I'll do nothing but tantalize and tease the nipples by rubbing, kissing, and sucking on them before going back to putting his cock in my mouth. I may even have him put his cock in me from the rear just for a change in feeling before restarting all over again! I'll suck as long as he doesn't reach that point of no return while I like to place several fingers under the balls and apply a little pressure, this seems to keep from reacing full orgasm and shooting cum. I've tried this on myself while masterbating, and it keeps the sperm from wanting to cum out with a full orgasm. Instead, there is a small orgasm without cum! I just repeat the touching or sucking several times untill hte feeling builds up so great that it can't be controled and then the amount of cum is usually a lot more in quantity also. I have had the biggest loads blown in my mouth by starting and stopping the sucking over and over for a long period of time. Then all the built up energy in the orgasm helps deliver more cum! I like it best that way!
Since I enjoy masturbating myself, and I enjoy masturbation session to last about two hours before I cum, I generally just stroke my cock up and down in a very slow manner between my thumb an d forefinger (left hand) facing in to the base of my cock..the whole hand is involved...and slowly circling my hand around my cock. When I go fast I can not hold off cuming aas long/. And I do like a full two hours each session.about every other day.
Yes, almost every time I jerk off I try to prolong ejaculation. I'll take a break to take off my boxers or switch hands. Sometimes I give my dick a good slap or two, or cup my hands underneath it in case there is some semen that squirts out unexpectedly. (which happens all the time) The more you prolong shooting your load, the bigger the load will be. Also, if you are well hydrated, that can make a huge difference in the amount of cum you ejaculate.
Yes, I try to postpone orgasm when I am having sex with my girlfriend. I like to do this because it prolongs the lovemaking session, increases the chance for both of us to come at the same time, and makes the orgasms more intense. Generally, I think men tend to come too early. I do my part to prevent this by slowing down or stopping my pelvic movement when I feel the earliest tingling of an orgasm approaching. If I don't slow it way down at the earliest of signals, I tend to go to the point of no return. When I slow down, I divert all my attention from my genitals to my lover's body, like kissing her deeply if we are face-to-face, or caressing her in whatever way seems to be the most erotic at the time. Each time I slow things down, it is a great opportunity to express how attractive she is and how hungry I am for her. I keep things slowed down until I feel sort of a neutral feeling in my balls, but not so long that I lose my erection. Then, when we resume with more pelvic motion, we both seem to ratchet up to an even higher level of open and shameless sexuality. After we repeat this cycle several times, we are both ripe and ready for orgasm. So, when we finally agree to go all the way, we tend to climax together, often very loudly and vigorously. Then, afterwards, I stay inside of her for as long as possible. Our lovemaking approach has been good for reinforcing to each other that we both enjoy this union of love and sex. I hope we can continue to keep our lovemaking fresh and exciting.
Due to a stress related illness, I thought my sex life to be over, for the most part. Getting an erection was very difficult. However changes in medication have changed that, mostly. I have found that as I get older, I can't ejaculate unless my seminal vesicles and prostate are FULL of semen. This can take a week or more. However, now, when I start to feel full, my balls hang lower and my dick is more full most of the time. I like the internet for pictures and it takes about 3 hours to top off my prostate, I think my seminal vesicles is what I feel as full when I start to get horny towards the end of the weeks period. Now that things don't happen as fast I can feel stuff as my system prepares to discharge my semen. As my prostate hardens, I can feel my wad starting to grow in the base of my penis. AS I approach orgasm, I look at increasingly more desireable pictures until I get to what I like best, impregnation(creampie) type pictures. I slowly edge closer to orgasm by massaging slowly my shaft, and deep in the area to each side of my dick where the pressure massages my now bulging glands. My low hanging balls start to draw up and I start to ache low over the area of my scrotum. As I start to get blue balls, I usually get a shot of pre-cum. By this point I need to let my semen go, so I usually find amateur pictures of wet sex where the wife ends up pregnant. When I was a kid, my cum would spray out thin and milky, and my pee- slit barely opened to let if out. Now, if I watch, my pee slit is wide open and my cum is thick and creamy. Probably three or four times the volume now that I am older.
I don't have too much trouble delaying ejaculation when masturbating. I utilize the stop and go method for that. I could delay climaxing as I want using that method. However, it sometimes is a little more difficult when having sexual intercourse. The stop and go method works here also to a point. Somes times I also have remove myself mentally from the sexual act. I have to think about something that has nothing to do with sex.
Often when having sex I am ready to ejaculate too early. I usually will focus on my wife, who usually has mutliple orgasms. She and I will both stop touching my penis and balls, and I sometimes like to let my hard on soften a bit. When I masturbate, I have no problem holding off, I just stop stroking. When both having sex and masturbating I have found that anal dildos provide pleasure without hurrying the orgasm.
I was a classic PE, when I was married...my wife said it did not bother her, but when we argued she would always bring up the fact that I was a 1 Minute-Man, Since divorced my doctor has prescribed anti-depressants, (since a side effect of them is delayed ejaculation). I can now go 30-45 minutes without coming...on occasion I do not come at all.
I have never had an ejaculation - but have come close to and then stopped - I have always stoped becuase my penis feels so sensitive and it feels so great I don't know what will hapeen if I take it any further
Yes, I often prolong masturbation before I orgasm and ejaculate. I enjoy it to keep myself on a high level of excitation for a long time. When masturbating, I use different methods to massage my penis shaft and my dry glands. When I am feeling the cum, I stop massaging my glands first before stopping to rub the penis shaft and then I stop at all for a while to let excitation go away at a lower degree. After this I rebegin several times again. I usually apply the stop- and-go method in intercourse too. This works very good when you know your partner. So you can masturbate or have sex during an hour and even much more. It is also possible to control orgasm and ejaculation, when you are masturbating yourself or having sex only till loosing the precum and stop a while after. The cock will stay rigid and after then you can do very long too, but it is less exciting, much more mechanical.
I always try and hold off cumming. I like to spend about 2 to 3 hours a day masturbating.. I lube my penis with baby oil and just slowly stroke uo and down the penis shaft. Sometimes including stroking the head and other times stopping at the penis head collar. Each stropke (up and back) take about 2 to 3 seconds. I will also stroke the head of my penis only na d sometimes the full length of my cock. I spend about 15 minutes with each variation using a ring grip made up on thumb and index and middle finger.. Will also roll my penis back and forth between both hands for a bout 5 minutes every half hour. If I feel like I am about to cum, just slow down and slowly rub the head of my cock. When I feel the urge to cum, I rub the precum in my penis as a lub and then just stroke away. This generally takes about 5 minutes and then cum. My cock stays hard for about 5 minutes after cumming and I just continue to masturbate until it becomes too soft to feel pleasure in stroking my cock. The cum makes a slightly sticky lub during this phase.but do not lose time from stroking my cock to clean up.
Yes I do. I have really started getting into edging...almost to the point that cumming is a let down. Well, not really but there are times I can ejaculate without orgasm and visa versa. Pretty cool...but takes lots of time to master (bate).
I always prolong my orgasm while mastubating. I know I can come much harder if I get it built up over a period of 45 minutes to an hour. My wife and I masturbate together and use it get the most out of our sexual activity. Probably 50% of the time,after intercourse, we'll masturbate each other in the shower for as long as we can both hold out.
Hmmm. Prolonging ejaculation can be a mind blowing experience. So hell yeah I do it a lot. I simply use the stop and go process. Just as I am on the edge I stop for a few seconds or minutes and resume and then stop again. This can be repeated as often as possoble. At the end when you do come it is the best orgasm one can have. And stopping does not mean that you have to stop sex. There are so many things you can do during the 'in between' periods. You just need to be creative and you will have a wonderful and ong sexperience.
Push in on the area between your legs just under your balls... applying pressure there will cause you to be unable to ejaculate because the tubes are blocked I guess.... you can go indefinitely like this
I play with my cock almost daily. But when I'm getting really horny, I would masturbate for several times within a day or even within a few days without ejaculating. This intensifies the feel-good sensation that I get. I normally feel strong and robust when I don't ejaculate for a long period of time. When I go to the CR and move my bowel and start to strain, I normally emit pre-cum, an indication that my sacs are getting full of semen and must be released soon. When I finally decide to ejaculate, I have a wonderful orgasm that I usually experience when I was in my 20s.
I always try to delay having an orgasm. My wife and I both know we'll have a better experience if I avoid ejaculating too soon. Starting and stopping gives her the opportunity to use her vibrator and have 5 or 6 orgasms while I'm taking it more slowly. We enjoy a lot of mutual masturbation and get turned on watching eachother. As a few others have mentioned, after an hour or so of alternating intercourse and masturbation, we frequently finish up in the shower. Sometimes she'll come again but usually she masturbates me to an orgasm that wouldn't be possible if we had rushed.
We have a long lunch at work- I don't want to go into too much detail, but there is plenty of empty time to fill. We have a bathroom that has room for just one person, the door can be locked, there is no key to use, even for the janitor, so I can strip down totally naked in there if I want to. (Which I do, on nights when there are not many people around- I can sit in there for an hour and no one will even try the door handle, and even if they did, it's locked big time and they go away to one of the other restrooms, with stalls)
So what I do is use some kind of lube, either Astroglide or KY jelly (the ky jelly has to be mixed with a little water for my taste, I even have an old empty bottle of the Astroglide that I use for this, and I carry it with me at work.) Also, I like to have what I jokingly call my jackin' straps, a couple of small rubber bands that I use at the base of my dick to increase the overall stiffness of my erection and also the strength of ejaculation.
So, on to the technique, it's quite simple. I use ONLY the forefinger and thumb the whole time, using a combination of rotation and up and down movement over the head and just below the head of my 6 and three quarter inches. It's important to give each area equal time, and whatever you do, don't rush it. Remain relaxed, using a steady speed and whatever fantasies suit you. Often, just the act of jacking off in a public restroom is enough erotic fantasy fuel to put you over the edge. But remember, time is your friend. Keep jacking, steady speed, and eventually you'll reach the point of no return. The best part is getting there.
Now, what I've been doing for more than a year in this particular bathroom is spewing my cum all over the tiled wall and just letting it dry there. I like to think of it as my own personal Picasso painting. So far, no one has cleaned it off, and it's not TOO obvious (or maybe it is!) because the tile is light colored. Anyway, the whole wall is practically plastered with dried cum. I'm sure some people notice it, and they probably don't even mind, I'll bet. I like to see how far up the side of the wall I can spurt, and a couple of times I've gotten it higher than I am tall, which is about 5 foot 10.
Anyway, my technique, with practice, is guaranteed to make you cum hard and far. Just make sure to use the right size rubber bands for your penis circumference (don't make them too tight) and make sure they are as far to the base of your dick as you can get them. It also doesn't hurt to stretch the skin back a bit after you've been jackin' for about 10 or 15 minutes, maintaining the same speed (I cannot stress this enough) until you blow like a volcano.
Enjoy!
I am not able to control when I ejaculate during sex, but I can definitely control ejaculation when masturbating. I can make myself cumm within minutes or I can masturbate for an indefinite period of time before choosing when I want to orgasm. I do this by alternating the contact with my penis, instead of just wrapping my hand around it and pumping until I ejaculate. Also I use my panty fetish to my advantage by changing and wearing all of my panties during masturbation. I really enjoy dressing up in girls clothing, when masturbating. I have a full compliment of Bras & Panties & Pantyhose, with Dresses and Skirt Outfits. All of which I like to wear even if I'm not going to masturbate. But when I get all dressed up, i just feel so pretty that I can't help but to play with myself. And I have even made my own masturbation videos that I will watch while I am masturbating
I am a happy married man we spend a lot of time nude in our house. When I feel like coming I start to masturbate very slowly in front of my wife or if she is not there by myself. I have sexy thoughts and fantasies about me and my wife or ex girlfriends etc. I play with my balls and penis.I hate coming to quick. I like to prolong it for a long time. Some times I masturbate just before I feel the urge to squirt I slow down and put my fingers up my bum it feels very good but it never makes me come. I can do this for hours. Sometimes I fall a sleep without coming. When I wake up with a raging pole I start over and very often when I come then it is glorious well worth the wait.
I do it all the time... I start with a nice soft rub intil I am almost there then stop for a bit and lube it up and start all over again then stop right before. I get my wife to suck me when its soft and stop when I am ready to explode.The more I do it the bigger the orgasam. Sometimes but not often I wont be able to cum after to many times but also sometimes I can cum up to three times and am almost always horney after sex
I frequently try to prolong orgasm or ejaculation during masterbation. I go to the point that I can't stand it any more and try to stop just before ejaculating. It takes practices but eventually it becomes not so difficult to do. It has prolonged my ability to stay erect during sex or masterbation to the point that I sometimes wonder if I am going to ejaculate at all and then it just explodes. Exercising the prostate gland helps in prolonging ejaculation.
If I have enough time I always like to prolong my ejaculation. I'll start out by teasing my hard penis with nice long lubricated strokes,paying alot of attention to my swollen knob, rubbing slowly and increasing the tempo utill my hardness is about to explode as I reach down with my other hand to stroke my swollen balls and just as that strong feeling of ejaculation hits me I stop and squeeze my knob until the sensation subsides and I'll do it again. usally by the third time I have mind blowing ejaculation. xxx
I masturbate regurely (when possible 2 or 3 times a day) but seldom ejaculate. I like to go right to the edge and stop and let my penis become flacid and then start over again. I can do that for an hour or so. Each time it becomes a shorter amount of time until finally I have to stop immediately or ejaculate. The best way to be able to do this is exercise you prostate gland. I go through a series of prostate exercises which you can do anywhere or anytime because no one knows you are doing it. Exercising the prostate is also a good way to keep a healthy prostate gland and experience great staying power.
Yes I always like to take as long as I can masturbating...from the time I start to the time I cum. I am widowed and mid 70's. I probably masturbate twice a day..especially on the weekeds. this would be typical. Woke up around 7:30 this morning and slowly stroked my cock for about 1 1/2 hours laying on my back watching TV. Got out of bed and reading a book stroking my cock all the time. Simple rubbing up and down the shaftwith full hand circled with thumb toward the base of my cock...and switching with thumb on top and fingers on the bottom and stroke up and down. The most pleasurable is slowly rubbing the skin over the back ridge of my cock. Seems like there are morenerves there. At 11:00 came to computerand pulled up pictures of naked women...continued to stroke my cock both ways...maybe 10 minutes each way then switching. Take slow strokes for maybe 10 minutes then the traditionalcock in hand with thumb on top and at the end of my cock with rapid strokes for about 5 minutes. Can feel the pressure to cum start and just slow down..after doing this now for about 4 plus hoursfeel the need to cum. which will happen soon enough. When I cum, ejaculation takes about 2 minutes..spurtting not shooting out...and will stay hard for about 5 minutes after that masturbating about as fast as hand will go up and down my cock. When my wife was alive, we would masturbate each other and set the pace of what we were doing. It would generally take her 15 to 30 minutes to get me to cum (she would switch between using her handsonly or shiftoing to her mouth towards the end just before I would cum). I would masturbate her during this period and generally get her to cum maybe 5 or 6 times...using fingers and tounge. So spend much longer time masturbating myself...but then I now have the time to do it that way.
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