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my wife & I masturbate together every night before we go to sleep , for many years . She loves to masturbate with her friends and so do I at every chance we get . we always have great sex and she loves it when I play with myself in the morning while brushing my teeth . We have a great marriage . She always uses her vib and fingers every day while she sits on the john . she keeps the vib in the bathroom and when she takes a shower , she uses the water to get herself off then tells me she wants to cun again , but with my tool ! We both masturbate 3 to 4 times every day . I love my wife and I love to masturbate , and so she does too ! Everyone should do the same . Open sex is great and is goo
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Both my wife and I enjoy masterbating. We are comfortable masterbating together or alone, we both feel masterbation is a very normal function and have no problem helping each other get the most pleasure possible. Since we have been married for over 30 years, the long-term relationship isn't a problem for us.
I don't want to be gross about this but masturbation should be considered like any other bodily function used for excretion. It is OK and encouraged to masturbate while in a relationship. Would you ask a person if it is OK to spit? Depending on where you are, it is not OK to spit. Depending on where you are, it is not OK to masturbate. I have and will masturbate while in a relationship and I expect my partner to use his free will to do so too. For me, it takes nothing away from a loving, physical relationship if a person knocks one off every now and then. Only if self gratification becomes the sole replacement of a physical sexual act with your partner, then you may start to think about getting into another relationship.
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I think masturbation is perfectly healthy in all situations. if I was married I wouldnt care if they masturbated. yes I have masturbated by myself in a long term relationship
My girlfriend is comfortable with the fact that I masturbate a lot, and she does as well. When we are toghether, we masturbate each other.
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My wife and I both masterbate alone and together. Often she will grab a vib while we have sex to get off. Great turn on
[How do you feel about masturbation when in a relationship?] I think it is perfectly normal. Eveyone masturbates; to deny that fact is foolish. In fact, in a relationship, one of the sexiest things a couple can do is to play with themselves, while necking with each other!
[How would you feel about your husband or wife masturbating?] I have no problem with it at all. My wife masturbates on a daily basis, as do I. We both enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with each other in addition to our self-pleasure. We also both have outside lovers. Masturbation is just a very nice part of the overall sexual picture. [Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship or marriage?] I do mastrubate, daily, and have been married for 43 years. I have masturbatied with many other sex partners as well, both female and male. My wife has masturbated with many partners also, in her case mainly female. We are both very bisixual and very much love masturbation.
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My wife and I have been married 17 years. We talked about masturbation since the first year we were married. We finally did something about it after I called home one day and caught her. She admitted it. I asked her to do it for me when I got home later that day. She actually did and it was one of the most erotic experiences I have ever had. Since I watched her that first time, it has become a major part of our sex life. It also helps when one of us is not in the mood. Which is not usually me. She will tell me to grab a porn movie or one of our sex story books and get at it. She encourages me to do it in the living room where she can watch. It turns me on hugely to this day.
I think masturbation in a relationship is only one more aspect of a fulfilling sex life between partners. I have continued masturbating in each relationship I had, no matter how good the sex is. Most of the girlfriends I have had also masturbate themselves. My first serious relationship's sexual life started out in mutual masturabation together. In my last relationship it was perfectly natural for one partner to masturbate in front of the other even when the other was not into sex. I used to sit at my computer working and my girlfriend would lie on the bed masturbating until I was ready for sex. I did the same thing if she was busy or not ready for bed yet.
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I don't think I could stop masturbating if I was in a Relationship. The other person would just have to understand that I won't stop.
I think that masterbation is very honest and important, in and out of a relationship. It's a shame that many don't feel the same way. If I find out that a girl doesn't get herself off, then I am rrluctant to date her. I prefer to date women that know their bodies, almost as much as I know mine. It's natural, healthy and a turn-on. Plus mutual masterbation is the BEST birth control. Well, that and oral sex.
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I see nothing wrong with it. I's ok as long as she has sex with me, but she masterbates and rarely has sex with me. Yes I do and tell her I do it. If I hade more sex with her I masterbate less.
I have had oral sex with other guys when I was in my teens and early 20's I first started with other boys when I was 12 and continued when I was in the service.now i'm 65 and very curious to have mutual masturbation and oral sex with other bi curious men my age. I have been married for 43 years and enjoy my wife using her vibrator in my rectum
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I was maried at a very young age of 18. Later in life about the age of 30 I had a massive stroke. This is when my wife closed the sexual bed on our marage.I have had to take care of all my sexual life by my self. My wife died last year, I am now 70 and am trying to get back in the game. But I think the younger people have changed the rules.
When I was in a relationship, (we did not live together) I used to masturbate before we got together. When we got together for a sexual encounter the sex was great. I feel that masturbation prolonged the sexual experience. If I were in a relationship I would continue to masturbate before having sex with my partner.
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I feel that masturbating in a relationship is great if my lover is good with it.If my lover is not ok, then she better have sex with me 4-5 times a week because that is just about how many orgasms My sex drive is doing to me and I get cranky when I haven't came in a few days. I'm great with my wife masturbating as long as she is affectionate and loves me.
I've been married and masturbating for 23yrs.
Masturbation of ones self is differnet than mutual masturbation or oral sex or intercourse. Whatever pleases at the moment without hurting the partner is OK
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I have no problem. I masterbate eventhough I have been married for years. I think my wife does but won't admit it. I know she will for me during normal sex.
Masturbation is fine in a relationship. Both my lover and I do it- alone and together. It is natural and more people should think that way.
By regular masturbation, one learns more about about one's reactions to the partner's methods of stimulation before and during partner sexual activities. My wife and I have had 30 years of marvellous sex by exchanging our reactions to various stimulations, even ones learnt from occasional partners of either sex.
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I masturbate since my earliest childhood. My mother used to stimulate my penis when bathing me as a child. So it was quite normal for me to stimulate myself. As a teenager I had lots of sexual contacts with boys and girls. We used every opportunity to have sexual fun. When marriaged I continued that obsession. My wife always loved to masturbate me and mastubate herself. We do it whenever we are in the mood. Since the availability of porn videos in the 70thies this is an normal part of our sexual life. We watch videos and caress each other till orgasm. An experienced masturbation is even more satisfying than intercourse, because it give more thrill. Intercourse with penetration is the final, the appetizer is the mutual masturbation.
I'm in my early 30's and I masturbate 3 or 4 times a week. I'm in a relationship and my masturbation does not seem to interfere with our sex life. Generally I masturbate before I go to bed. I've been masturbating since I was 12 or 13.
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I have been happily married for six years and have a great marriage. In that time we have had three kids and finally a vasectomy. I have always had a high sex drive and have masturbated often. After the vasectomy I have had an even higher sex drive. I love my wife dearly but she does not want, nor need, sex as often as I want sex. I masturbate a lot, usually with her next to me. It is enjoyable as I get to touch her while I masturbate. She kisses everytime I cum and sometimes scoops some cum onto her fingers for me to taste and her to kiss me afterwards. She does not at all mind my masturbation. I wish she would let me watch her masturbate but she says no. Oh well. I do get to watch have an orgasm when we do have sex.
I feel fine about it. Masturbate most days but it doesn't affect other sex. I am pleased when my partner masturbates. Yes I do.
I masterbate in front of my wife all the time. Sometime when she is in the mood she will help me. She will not masturbate in front of me. I enjoy having my wife watch me play with myself.
I am married and have always masturbated since marrying. My wife knows that I masturbate and most of the time she participates.
My wife masturbates occasionally. I like this and find it very exciting, so that I alwways masturbate at the same time.
Yes, I occasionally masturbate on my own.
Masturbation is an important part of my sex life which I share with my wife. I encourage my wife to masturbate. We do it together, and it results in some of my most explosive orgasms. I particularly enjoy watching her reach orgasm while masturbating. I continue to masturbate by myself almost on a daily basis.
i have been married for 25 years, to the same woman. while she has little or no sex drive, never has - i have a very intense sex drive. i masturbate on average twice a week and we have sex maybe once a week. i enjoy masturbating in the morning when she is waking up - usually she will rub my balls while i stroke my penis.
My wife and I masturbate together and consider it an important part of our sex life. We do it alone, too, but for me the orgasm is never as good as when we do it together. I do it becasue I want to cum more often than she does. I think she does it alone because she likes the idea that she keeps part of her sex life just for her.
i've been with my partner for nearly 9 years,i still wank myself off several times a week,with or without a porn dvd,i know my partner wanks himself off as well,but then we wank each other off as well,it's good for our relationship.
I am happily married and enjoy an active sex life, which includes masturbation. My wife and I masturbate together and separately. We even discuss our orgasms when masturbating apart.
I think masturbation in a relationship is wonderful. Mt ex-wife used to do it alot but not in front of me. Which was kinda frustrating because I would ask her if I could watch but she would always say no. She would at times get herself off when I was doing her from behind but that was it. My g/f now and I are both 49 yrs old and she is really open sexually. One day I left the house to run some errands and came back to find the sterio playing loudly. I looked around and finally found her in the living room wearing a sexy teddy and stuffing a big vibrating dildo in and out of herself. WWOWWWWWWWWWW what a turn on. I had bought her some toys because I travel for my job fairly often and wanted her to be able to have fun when I wasn't around. I quickly stripped and joined her sitting across from her in another chair. She mentioned to me after awhile of playing with ourselves that she enjoyed me watching her. I then explained to her that it was a fantasy of mine to watch her masturbating. She then rolled off the couch and got on all fours still sliding that dildo in and out. I was so turned on I could hardly speak. She then asked me if would mind putting my cock in her ass. That did it! I made it across the room and to the point of getting my cock to her back hole when everything just exploded right on her. Knowing what happened and feeling my cum drip down to her pussy she came right after that. We talked about sex and masturbation after that and since then have made it in many different situations. And thankfully I have been able to make it all the way in some situations after that. I am so horney right now I think that I will go give her a load now. What a lady!
How do you feel about masturbation when in a relationship? Do it all the time. She likes it when I cum on her tits. How would you feel about your husband or wife masturbating? She does not do it enough. She is doing it about 5 times a week. Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship or marriage? Absolutely!!!
I am a heterosexual female. In one of my serious relationships my boyfriend at the time sometimes would turn down sex with me. I didn't complain until one day I caught him by himself. Ever since then I can't help but feel completely irritated if I am there and my partner is off in another room masturbating alone.
My wife and I masturbate together and alone. I think it's healthy. I might be disappointed if she were doing it alone becasue I no longer aroused or satisfied her. Masturbation is an alternative sex technique for us.
I am married for over 30 years now, and still enjoy pleasuring myself occasionally.I'm not too sure if my wife masturbates, but I do love to watch her touch herself when we make love. Sometimes I'll lay on my belly between her legs, and with tremendous excitement, watch her make herself cum. There are many times in a relationship that masturbation is just fine, because some times you can't always seem to get together. So I see nothing wrong by taking care of yourself from time to time.
I have been married 25 yrs and still masterbate about 3x a week she knows and encourages it . this way i dont bother her as often
me and my girlfriend know that the other masturbates, and sometimes we do it together and it gets pretty hot. we both enjoy it, and we do it together at least once every 2 weeks, and it is great!
Me and my girlfriend both masturbate every day. She typically does about once a day and i do anywhere from 1-7 times a day. We've been going out for nearly two years now and we don't feel like it's any sort of betrayl to one another. We don't do it as much as the first person who responded here (they sound like they have alot of fun with it) but we like to do it over the phone alot. We don't typically get to have sex alot anymore because we now have a 6 month old son. but we still masturbate over the phone alot. We like hearing each other and it works as a decent substitute for sex when we haven't or won't be able to have any for a while. When we are together but don't have enough time for sex we often masturbate each other. which also works as a nice substitute to sex.
All i have to say on the morality of the whole thing is: To each his own.
Both my wife and masturbate every day , she is bi and so am I . She loves to masturbate in front of me and my guy friends and we both agree it is very normal part of a good relationship . When I come home from work , I always f
I been married to my wife a lot of years and we both masturbate alone and together and with our friends . We both think it is normal and lots of fun ! My first time early in our married life she caught me with my good buddy late at night , masturbating to porn . We talked about
My wife and I masterbate each other as our main sexual activity. I masterbate daily. I would love to watch her masterbatebut she claims to have NEVER masterbated herself.
I masturbate frequently, but my wife is not too crazy about it. I think she thinks when I do it, I am denying her of it. But I am not. We have sex frequently. If my wife masturbated as frequently as I do, I might have the same feeling. I guess I like to keep a small part of my sex life just for me.
Whether in a relationship or not masturbation is truly about getting in touch with your inner feelings. Not only body sensations, but your whole being. To spend time with someone or alone,masturbating is sharing a very private personal experience. Pleasuring yourself is time well spent, it's a part of who we all are.
I think if you are in a relationship masturbation is ok. The act concerns yourself and no one else. It's apart of who a person is. Being a dedicated masturbator, it makes no difference if husband or wife masturbate. I'm attracted to men, but feel all married couples would benefit to masturbate for each other, show each other how to com [pletely pleasure yourself without the benefit of a partner. I have masturbated by myself in a long term relationship. I made no secret of it to my buddy and he confessed to doing the same thing. I told him that's great and keep masturbating, treasure those moments of self pleasure. No one really knows how you feel when you masturbate, nothing wrong with making yourself feel good.
I masturbate at least 4 times a week and i am a married man. I see nothing wrong with it. I would not care if my wife masturbated.
I have been married to the same woman for 36 years. My wife does not have a very high sex drive and we rarely have sex anymore. Throughout our marriage I always masturbated and encouraged her to do it also, but she rarely did. She did not mind if I masturbated and encouraged me to do it as much as I wanted to, and masturbated me often, sometimes even without my asking. I think if one partner has a much higher sex drive than the other it is natural to masturbate, and much better than seeking other sex partners.
Mutual masturbation is a great form of intimacy. My wife and I do it ocassionally and we both enjoy it. It's just another way to share our love for each other.
My girlfriend and I often masturbate together. If we masturbate alone we like to tell each other about it later. She was so relieved when I told her there is nothing wrong with masturbating. She admitted to me that she loves doing it and I told her I do too. She was so excited the first time she watched me masturbate. She had never seen a man masturbate before. Often while we are having sex she will move my hands down to my penis and smile, telling me she wants to watch.
Masturbation is just a normal part of life--at all times. My partner and I are open with each other about the fact that we both masturbate; we've watched each other do it, in fact. She doesn't even mind if I masturbate in bed if I'm horny and she isn't, and I would have no problem with her doing the same.
I have been married 37 years and have often masturbated in front of my wife, though she does not masturbate herself. She does not mind if I do it and does not mind watching. I always wished she would masturbate, but she has a very low sex drive and never has very much; I do more than enough for both of us. I think there should be no secrets in a relationship.
I have no problem with either masturbating myself or my wife when she would like it. She always bastubates me when it is her period and/or when she is not in the mood for intercourse. She wants me to masturbate in her presence though..not to sneak off to bathroom. This does not bother me...actually like to do it in front of her. Often will try and shoot ito her mouth. My wife does masturbate both when I am not home and at times in front of me just to turn me on. Generally when she does it in front of me and has cum several times, I enjoty cleaning everything up with my tounge..she likes that as well.
I'm in a long-term relationship with a very sexually expressive woman. Masturbation has been an important part of learning how to please each other and in demonstrating to each other that we are willing to drop all shame and enjoy full pleasure in each other's presence or on our own. I really think that being this open about masturbation has increased our intimacy in a profound way. My girlfriend loves to play with my penis, balls, and anus, and I love exploring every part of her body with my hands and mouth. I love it when I bring her to an orgasm with my fingers inside of her, and my body close to hers. Sometimes she will hold me close, while I bring myself to orgasm. All of these experiences have made intercourse so much more satisfying, I think because of the trust that results from knowing that it's safe to share self-stimulation techniques with your partner.
OPen and wanting to have more conversation about our masturbation practices. I have caught my wife several times and found it to be very arousing, but, she denies she masturbates.
Masturbation is healthy and normal, I love it as part of a healthy relationship.
I think masturbation while in a relationship is fine. Masturbation is a natural thing that I think everyone should do regardless of age, sex, or orientation. No matter what kind of relationship I'm in, regardless of how good the sex is, I will masturbate.
I masturbate everyday in my relationship. My G/F knows it and makes sure she gets her share. If she does'nt feel like having intercourse, I'll go to her dresser drawers, pull out a pair of her panties I like, and fill it with sperm right in front of her. Sometimes, she'll take my cock and masturbate me with the panties I select.
My wife and I are both very cool about masturbating together and with our friends . We are both bi and love each other very much . She loves to play with her dildoes in front of me as I watch Tv ,then she tells me about her hot nights with her girlfriend as I get hard too then we both masturbate together ! Masturbating is a big part of our life as we both openly enjoy it , then have great sex after !
I think masturbating in a relationship is fine. I do it all the time my wife does not. My wife will masturbate me and I enjoy that very much but she will not masturbate herself. I also masturbate alone, and I think she knows that I do but it is not a topic of conversation
My wife and I have always masturbated. She not as much as I, and she says she only does it with me. I masturbate with her and alone. It seems perfectly natural to us, but I know people who think masturbation is childish or simply wrong. I think most of them are hypocrites.
In my opinion mutual masturbation is great! I'm in a long term relationship with a wonderful, sexy women and we have a terrific sex life. It honestly couldn't get any better.
We masturbate together, in fact we seldom masturbate alone, we consider it just another facet of our lovemaking. We occasionally masturbate alone when our partner isn't available or isn't feeling up to it. (Scepter)
Masturbation when in a relationship, is, in my opintion, normal and fine. A partner isn't always up for sex when the other wants it, and masturbation keeps things working mentally and physically. Before I was married, I used to masturbate with some male friends, but I consider myself totally straight. We all felt this was very common and normal.
In my scenario,masterbation in a relationship is essential. I am married seventeen years, and my wife's desire for sex is a a lot lower than mine. The reason, I guess: When she was in college, she had a near rape/sex against her will experience. Then, while we were engaged, she got pregnant; despite being on the pill & my using a condom. The termination of the pregnancy was neccesry as I was still in college, and she was on multiple medications for a siezure disorder. Needles to say, sex now is clouded by fear of getting pregnant (at 40) and my refusal to have a vasectomy. So, I masterbate as necesssary. I enjoy touching myself all over, and I sometimes do it in the shower; knowing that she could walk in at any moment. My wife tells me she used to masterbate back when she wasn't in a relationship; but since marriage and with her return to religion (catholic) she has commented that masterbation is a sin and that having confessed it to the priest once all ready, there is no reconcilliation for doing it ever again. If you ask me, it's bunk! I would love to masterbate with my wife. If she's so concerned about becoming pregnant, mutual masterbation is a great way to express your love, passion and enjoy the intimacy. I continue to masterbate at least two to three times a week, with no plans of stopping or even slowing down.
I am married and I do masturbate. I think that its great when my wife masturbates too. Why shouldn't she enjoy herself?
I'm a heterosexual female and I think on the whole, masturbation whilst in a relationship is fine and completely normal for both partners.
I have had relationships where the thought of my boyfriend touching himself was a real turn on, however i have problems with my current partner masturbating. We have been together less than a year and have been living together for 3 months. I thought he had quite a high sex drive, but now we rarely have sex, and if we do i have to initiate it which is always a bit of a gamble as he sometimes knocks me back. This hasn't done much for my self esteem or confidence!
I know he fancies me and is tired during the week, but i feel frustrated that he masturbates and even gets aroused in his sleep but doesn't seem to want sex with me. If we had a regular, fulfilling sex life and he masturbated, i would have no issue with it but it doesn't seem fair to have one without the other. I know that if i went away for the weekend, he would probably masturbate, but if i was with him he wouldn't want sex or masturbate either even though he gets aroused! Its a little confusing
I have masturbated myself on occasions but have to say im not very good at it and wold rather do things mutually with my partner
I love to masturbate I'm not sure how my wife feels 100% but she does let me jerkoff in front of her and sometimes she does me.
My wife and both masturbate together alot and alone , every day and more on the weekends . We both agree it's just normal a have fun doing it before we have sex and after too ! We both love masturbating with our good friends together and alone . I love it when I am playing with my buddy and my wife comes into the recroom and sits there watching u
I was in a relationship for 17 years and my partner was a big fat prude and thought masturbation was disgusting. I had to do it secretly. Now I have a hot, hot man and we have hot, hot sex that includes masturbation and anything else we both feel like.
there is no problem with masturbation when in a relationship. my wife regularly sees me jerking off and has no issues with it. she knows that I have a higher sex drive than her and she will often walk in and ask if I would prefer for her to continue what I have started, other times she just watches and gasps a little when I cum. she doesnt masturbate at all, doesnt like touching herself but is happy for me to lend a hand :) I walk around nude most of the time and it is not uncommon for me to just have a little play
I am married and believe that masturbation increases the sex drive of most married people. My wife likes me to perform oral sex, at times she will take my hand and place it on my erection just to watch me cum while I am licking her clit. I think it pleases her to see how excited I get about her body even at the age of 55.
Masterbation is wonderful! I believe it is a good thing to masterbate whenever the need is there. To do it in front of a partner is also very sexy and erotic. I have often started masterbation in front of women and guy friends which usually gets them arroused into joing in the action. When I'm with a male partner, I have liked it when he masterbates on me and shoots it on me wherever he wants. It's sooooooo nice!
A few years ago when I was about 14 my girlfriend and I talked about masturbation we both said we did so she said we should do it together. So the next day she came over to my house and I was the only 1 home so we went up to my bedroom and shut the door. I started to make out with her and striped off both of our clothing. Passionately we carressed each other and kissed. She then took her little vibrator out and turned it on. I had a massive hardon by then and I started to masturbate. I held her with my free arm and we stared at each other in the eyes. She orgasmed after about 3 minutes and a few minutes later I had the best orgasm of my life and I had cum all over her but it didnt matter to her. It was so intimate so I have no problem and would recommend it to couples.
My wife and I both masturbate a lot by ourselves and together . We have been for many years but a lot more now that our kids are all gone on their own . We both get to walk arround naked in our house now which is great . We still have sex but we both love to masturbate more now that the kids are gone . My wife keeps her dildoes and vibrators out in the open now and when I'm not home she tells me that she always uses them . I also masturbate all the time when shes at work and along with a good friend of mine and she does the same too since we are both cool about it . A close couple we know also masturbates with us once in a while , it's so much fun . I love watching my wife masturbate , but it's more exciting when she does it in front of another couple as we all watch her cum !
I think it's fine to masturbate, whether or not you are in a relationship. I regularly masturbate both with my partner and on my own, and I love it that my partner is OK with this. She makes me feel so comfortable with my sexuality, that I don't feel like I have to hide anything. Often she will encourage me to masturbate while she fondles and holds me, especially after I have stimulated her to orgasm with my hands or mouth. I wish everyone could experience sexual honesty. Maybe there would be fewer wars.
I am divorced. My ex-wife thought masturbating was disgusting, even more so if I was doing it by myself. She would do it to me, and would allow me to do it to her, but would never do herself in front of me. I am not in a long term relationship with another. Fortunately, she will masturbate herself in front of me and loves to watch me masturbate myself in front of her. She also don't mind masturbating me. She don't mind my masturbating myself, as long as it does not interfere with our sexual relations. I also don't mind if she masturbates herself by herself, and am certain that she does.
My wife and I masturbate together more often than we have intercourse. We masturbat each other and often I masturbate myself with my wife watching. She does not masturbate alone, but I often do. It would not bother me if she did, and it does not bother her that I do.
Masturbation is very normal, Although my Ex-Wife was not into touching herself, I enjoy deeply seeing a woman masterbate. I also have my best orgasms when I know I am being watched by a woman.
Maturbating, alone or each other in a relationship with women is a very natural sexual behavior and is not forbidden at all. The bible is forbidding adultery and not masturbation.
When in a long-term relationship with another guy, we kept ach other so busy there was no time to jerk off on our own. but it was great to watch each other do what we all know so well -- that is, when we were not engaged in some other kind of fun. One time I was with this younger teenager who had never done anything with anyone else. He was not only hot for me, he told me he used to beat off trying to guess what my tool looked like. He had teased me for several weeks, grabbing my piece and showing me how big he was. We handled each other lots but didn't really get going. After I dropped him at home, I couldn't wit to get to my place and, while driving, simply had to take care of business. I let him, know that he got me so fird up, I was jerking my joint all the time. That news thrilled him and he said he was doing the same thing. We went out of town for a long weekend and stayed mostly in a motel room, all the time buck naked and boned up. He was hesitant at first, which drove me mad, but I wasn't going to get him to do anything until he was really ready. Finally he couldn't stand it any longer. There he was naked on the bed with a full-blown boner. He was totally ready for it and I took care of both of us at the same time. We never did live together but kept seeing each other as often as we could. Remembering his enthusiasm and handsome young body had me masturbating whenever we were not together, and he knew it.
I enjoy masturbating in front of my wife, and watching her as well. I love confessing my gay fantasies to her when masturbating while she holds me in her lap. Sometimes I ask her to masturbate when I'm mounting her from behind while she is on her knees-this makes her even more wet than she already is. I enjoy being masturbated by my male friends while she watches. I love being masturbated by my male friends when I'm alone with just them-it feels so erotic. Masturbation simply adds another positive dynamic to an already insatiable sexual appetite. We are both in our early 40s, and have been married for 13 years.
my wife likes to watch me jerk off and swallow my sperm. I do this by rolling my feet iver my head and she will give me a hand job until teh sperm shoots out of my cock and into my mouth she fingers herself while she doed this and often cums as i swallow, mike
Masturbation in a relationship is fine; my wife and I enjoy getting ourselves and each other off. We masturbate together often and use it to prolong our sexual activities. It's very erotic seeing her have several orgasms with her vibrator while I keep myself hard and near the edge. If she's cum 3 or 4 times and getting tired, she'll stroke it hard and make me cum on her nipples.
MAsturbation in a relationship could be a good thing once done in the right way. It should be doe with the full knowledge and even participation of your partner. However, if done secretly and if done in such a way as to deprive your partner from sex because you are all spent out then that is a bad thing. If you are masturbating secretly then perhaps there is some other hidden problem, e.g. sex with your partner is not fulfilling enough or some other probllem.
There are times in a reationship when masturbation is a good thing. I would not mind at all if my wife masturbates. Sometimes one of us may be too tired or out of town or something like that, in that case it would be perfectly healthy if she masturbated. Even as part of our sexual experience as a couple masturbation adds to variety. Sometimes she masturbates while I watch.
Sometimes however, masturbating by oneself could also be good, as I said once done in the ight way - with the full knowledge and consent of your partner... Because sometimes we need some ALONE time. And that is a good thing.
Masturabation is great! I have never had a problem with it until now. Unfortunately my boyfriend masturbates to the extent, that it has interfered in our sexual relations. He is on the internet every morning jacking off while I am at work. He is satisfied so he does not need sex. This sux! Not to mention it makes me feel very unappealing. It has killed my self esteem and sexual desire.
Since we are undergoing fertility work-up for the last several years, my wife and I can not have sexual intercourse after her fertile period for fear of doing something that might lessen her chances of getting pregnant. Of course, that's almost 20 days of no sex for me in between her periods. Actually, it isn't since I normally masturbate to ejaculation every week. Most of the time, I ask her to masturbate me before I go to sleep. She knows I masturbate every now and then. She sometimes watch me masturbate, although most of the time she finishes the job off. As such, she keeps a bottle of lotion on her bedside table. I believe masturbation in a married relationship is normal.
My wife and I masturbate alone and together. We enjoy mutual masturbation and she likes to watch me stroke it while she gets off with her vibrator. It allows a lot of variety. Sometimes after a period of hard intercourse and she can't come again, she'll masturbate me to ejaculate on her breasts and ask me to lick it off. She finds that very erotic and occasionally has another orgasm.
I love to masterbate by myself in my own privacy and with my wife, as we watch each other. I usually have to initiate it but once she knows she seems to enjoy it. If it is the only way we can acheive an orgasm during sex, then that usually does the trick and to my satisfaction we are both happy. As long as she is satisfied sexually with me, then I am happy. I have told her I like to masterbate by myself when she is at work cause my sex drive is higher than hers, but when i do, i fantasize about my wife. it is always fun that way and makes you feel like she is there with you when you are missing her. We also masterbate each other for a short time or when she gets tired then we take over for ourselves as we watch each other get off. I love my wife dearly and always look for new ways to make her happy sexually and emotionally.
My partner and I both enjoy masturbation, either alone or together. We have both done it on a nudist beach in view of other 'interested' parties. I think the high point of our summer was when she gave me a hand job and I came with another man sitting about 3 feet away. When I am alone I masturbate using erotic prose as a stimulus.
I do regularily. And in the past few years I've gotten her to masturbate for me, and with me. She, like me knows exactly the spot to hit. I swear when she tickles her clit, her pussy opens wider than you could ever imagine. Her outer lips lay way back. Her inner lip protrude like a sweet rosebud. I stare at her gash and her method of reaching orgasm. In the mean time I lie beside her stroking myself. I try to come with her. Sometimes she'll rub her huge breasts while rubbing her clit. She has large nipples, once she took one into her mouth, I lost my load. To be honest, I would love to see another woman eat her, but I just don't think I could share her. When I'd eat her, she juice a lot. I get it all over my face, chin to forehead, ear to ear. Then I'd re-enter her and get her to lick herself off my face. She seemed to like her taste.
I actually felt really bad about jacking off but one time my girlfriend and i had been joking around about it and i accidently told her then couldnt lie. she said that it was okay that i did. about a month later i had asked her if she ever thought about jacking off and she nervously lied but she eventually told me she tried when i told her that i did. to this day we talk to eachother about it and do it on the phone.
Masturbation is essential in any relationship to show comfort in ones own sexuality. I would enjoy seeing my spouse Masturbate and would probably join them. Yes, because every once and awhile it feels good to Masturbate. Masturbation has been and always will be an important aspect of my sexuality, whether or not I'm in a relationship. I believe that it says alot about your sexuality and how open you are.
I am 54 and married to a girl of 28. Shes on her stuff at the minute and Im pretty horny. I hardly ever masturbate - I feel to guilty but today in work where I work as a labourer I was looking at the Daily Star. Danielle Lloyd from Big Brother was there in bra and panties. I was rock hard. I came home and surfed pictures of her naked on the net and had the best wank I'd had in ages. I was smart enough to wank over her twice.
I masturbate everyday. I would love to have my wife join in but she just doesn't see the point. We've been married for 16 years. She knows that I masturbate because she finds stains on her slips and panties. Can any one give me advice?
I am 57 and I have masturbated sins I was 12 Every night before I go to sleep When I married I had sex with my wife but I still needed to masturbated during the day. Early in our marriage. One day she came home unexpected and saw me nude in the lounge masturbating. She at first thought that I was not happy with our relationship. We had an argument but after some days she asked me to masturbate in front of her. I showed her how I masturbate and she asked me to masturbate her. After we had two children we did not want any more and to avoid getting more we revert to masturbating each other and our selfs more and more now we rarely have intercourse most of Our sex is by masturbation. We are very happily married couple for nearly 25 years
i Love sexwith my wife and other women turn me on but I also love solo sex I love inserting objects in my ass the bigger the better. And sometimes I love pissing on my self and drinking it,usually when I do this I lay upside down and shoot my load on my face and in my mouth. I never used to be able to do this but know and then I can t help but to shoot a load in my moth and I cn swallow it along with piss. I have tried to get my wife to pee on me but she wont. I would also love to let her see me shhot a load in my moth she knows this is a fantsy of mine but I cant get her to watch so I stay pretty quite about it. I love playing with my dick and fantise about playing with another mans dick but I dont think I could do it I just like the fantisey and the solo sex wish my wife would watch me!
Masturbation in a realtionship is great. Its an incredable turn for both of us we dont let eachother touch. My wife loves to watch me masturbate and I love watching her you learn a lot. But my wife knows that I also love anal masturbation and she doesnt care for it much but it doesnt bother her that I do it she sometimes gives me ideas on new ways to do it
My wife and I have been married for over 16 years now. We have had great sex early in the relationship, but as the years pressed on, she seemed to be very one way. I would masturbate almost every day, and began to think our sex life had passed away. One day my wife and I were discussing our younger years when she seemed to get a little embarrassed. I reassured her that what she experienced in her younger years only enhanced the wonderful person that she had become. This seemed to relax her tension as she slowly began to tell me about how she first experienced sex. I understood when she said that her first experience was with another relative (female cousin). They were both about the same age (pre-teen). As she told me about the first time, she looked down at her hands. I reminded her that I loved her and was humbled that her trust in me would give her the courage to confide in me. Kitten, I said, we all have walked down that path. She and I both were products of the 1950's. She looked up at me and said, Jan and I were playing one day when she introduced me to friction. She hesitently described how Jan showed her how to rub her pussy (her words). Beth said, I was shocked at first when her hand began to rub my vagina, but she told me to let her do this for awhile and close my eyes. I listened intently, my alter ego perking up with this vision of my wife's history. Beth went on to tell me that after she closed her eyes, she lost the visual of her cousin and soon was totally focused on the new sensation she was having I found myself closing my eyes as she continued. Beth said that Jan rubbed her softly, but pressed harder as the few moments passed. As I opened my eyes, I noticed that my sweetheart had closed her own eyes and had put her hand against her pussy (my words), which were tightly encased in her denim shorty shorts. Beth spoke in halting breath as she said that she felt the swelling began in her. She and Jan were very close to each other. Beth began to move rythymcally (sp) as she talked to me. I sat back, and watched as her left hand opened her button on the shorts, while her right hand continued to rub and occasionally grip her crotch. Beth said that Jan told her to think about of a boy she liked doing this to her. She said Jan then moved up to the top of her shorts and went inside her panties. As she said this, my wife moved her own hand up to the top of her unbuttoned shorts and dived in. As I watched she pushed against the waist of her panties and shorts. They began to make a slow retreat down her thighs as she kept the motion in her arm wrist rotating. I felt the blood rush down to let me know that this was totally exciting. From the position that we were sitting on the sofa, my wife's other hand pushed the confining clothing to her knees where gravity took over and they hit the floor. Beth had leaned her head back, eyes still closed, and her voice seemed to take on a different tone. I recall her saying that Jan took her hand (Beth's) and guided it up under her skirt and then, pulling her panties down, placed her palm on her own vagina. Beth said that this was the moment her excitement reached a peak and she felt her first orgasm. Beth said that as she came, she began to rub and grip Jan's clit. I watched my wife shudder, but continue to rub her own pussy (our words) and saw her squirt a small stream of moisture onto her fingers. Up to that point, my wife had never spewed during our sex. Seeing this, I unzipped my pants to let His Majesty get some fresh air. Using the old rub the upper part to stimulate breathing technique, I began to stroke myself as I listened and watched my soulmate expose her most intimate secret to me. Beth continued to massage her manhole (somebody's else's word) as she described more encounters with her cousin. When my load shot onto her naked pubic area, she opened her eyes and smiled very contently. Beth pulled me into her and whispered, Knowing this, do you still love me? Needless to say (as I pumped out another geyser in her), I said, Beth how could I not love you. Since that time my wife has shown me how she uses pillows, arms of chairs and sofas to get off. Recently Beth told me that she masturbated herself while sitting at a table (floor length table cloth giving her privacy) during a conference for her work. She says that she does not fantasize about anyone when she does this, but I know better. Last weel Beth gave me a coupon for a Couples' Massage at a local spa. She has been there twice. She says that she wanted to masturbate while her male massuse rubs her down. She and I went into the darkened room room together and I saw her remove ALL of her clothing and laid on the table. My female massuse did not even blink an eye as I turned and watched Beth take a little vibrator and insert it, and then lay on her stomach. I still hear her moaning. We masturbate together often.
I think it is perfectly alright to masturbate whether you are in or out of a relationship, it is a natural thing to do. My wife has no objection what so ever to me masturbating and I have no objections to her masturbating. I would prefer if we masturbated more together but she is a little shy when it comes to mutual masturbation. My wife also has her vibrators which she uses by her self and when i am there and that is a great turn on. I have no objections to her using a vibrator, as i said it is a turn-on.
My wife frequently asks me to jerk off for her. Usually after we finish fucking she watches while I jerk off. I always lie on my back and when I cum I aim my cock at my face and lean forward so that I shoot my load into my mouth and onto my face. The sight of my cum dripping out of my mouth and off of my forehead into my eyes excites my wife so much that we end up fucking again.
I just recently realized that masturbation in a relationship is very important. I had no idea that my husband masturbated frequently until a few weeks ago. (We've been together about a year.) At first I was deeply troubled, because I thought that meant I was not satisfying him or that I was doing something wrong. I had always thought masturbation was wrong and felt uncomfortable doing so. My husband has quickly helped me get over my fears and discomfort with the subject. It is extremely erotic to watch him bring himself to orgasm, he also likes to watch me practice pleasuring myself. Sometimes when one of us doesn't want to have sex (usually me, just recently had a baby) mutual masturbation is a way for us to still be intimate with each other. Sometimes after work he is too tired for sex, but not for me to masturbate him. He has a higher sex drive than I do and I know that it can be frustrating to wait for your partner to be ready for sex. It excites me to think that he knows how to pleasure himself and will still have plenty for me. It does not take away from our sex life at all. Our relationship is definitely better for it.
My wife and I both masturbate together and have been doing so for as long as we have known each other. We believe it is a healthy and natural function. We have even taught our kids to masturbate. We are nudists and are naked at home always. When my son began to get erections in front of his sisters and mother he asked me how to prevent this situation. I told him that when men and boys get erections they usually need to release semen and there was a way to do that. I took him to his room and closed the door. I looked at his hard penis and told him that when we get erect we can relieve the strain by doing what is called masturbation. I told him that when we get erections we can massage our penises to release sperm which has built up. He asked me how so I simply reached over and began to stroke his penis by sliding the foreskin back and forth over the head. He said it felt good and I took his hand and placed it around his penis and he began to stroke himself. I was in full erection at this time so I began to masturbate with him. In a few minutes we each ejaculated our sperm onto his bedsheets. We went back into the living room and found that my wife and daughters had left the room. We went my wife's and my bedroom and found my beautiful wife spread out on the bed and my two daughters were rubbing their mother's vulva and clitoris. She in turn was masturbating each of the girls. My son and I went in and sat down while my wife showed our daughters how to pleasure themselves. They each spread their little vaginal lips and gently stroked their wet clitorises. Soon all three girls were moaning and screaming in orgasm as their vaginas became swollen and wet with orgasm. My son and I were masturbating while watching and when the girls came down from their orgasms my daughters asked me what we were doing. I explained that boys masturbate too and asked if they would like to see us masturbate. They readily agreed so my son and I laid down on the bed and began to stroke our penises. When we were near ejaculation we began to stroke each other. I told the girls that we were going to squirt sperm from our penises and that when the sperm goes into a vagina by penetration of the penis it fertilizes the egg in the girl's womb and a baby starts to grow. My son and I, at that moment, began to moan and then squirt our sperm all over our naked bodies. Since then we masturbate regularly as a family activity. I taught my daughters how to masturbate a penis and they love to stroke my penis. They are especially fascinated when my sperm squirts out. My son has likewise learned how to masturbate a female by having his mother show him. He gently massages his mother's wet vagina and labia while inserting two fingers deep inside her. We have even showed our kids how we have sexual intercourse and how the sperm is deposited in the womb of the female. Our children now have a very healthy outlook on what is a simple natural human function and they have no shame when it comes to nudity and sex.
My Girlfriend & I have been together 9 years. We both masturbate a lot, both together and seperately. We also like nudity and frequently are nude around the house, playing with ourselves even when we are doing something else. She often masturbates while talking on the phone to girlfriends and often plays with herself on the bed while I'm working on the computer at night. She likes to shave me after showers and she usually does so while we're both naked. I can't keep from masturbating while she is shaving me or cutting my hair. She usually helps at some point.
In a relationship or not, masturbation and/or self pleasur, is nessasary for mental and physical well being. In a relationship, the regular and offten practice of masturbation can only lead to a long, healty, beautiful and extreamly erotic magical loving bond between two people. This beautiful lady that I share life with and I, make sure that we each have our private time as well as our together time. We talk and share what we find out about ourselfs when in private, and this becomes erotic and stimulating stories and senarios we put together and are always finding or inventing new frontiers or love,lust,pleasure and excitement. After all you can only please another if you yourself are pleased.And the main thing to keep a relationship healty and long lasting and rewarding is communication. The BEST gift is to please and satisfy your partner,because love is giving and the best way to please another is for them to tell you and show you how, where, and when pleases them the best and the only way to know this is to know your own body and masturbation is the knowledge that unlocks the doors of fear,lables,secrets,myths and lies that society has put on us.Masturbate daily, along and with someone you love, have fun and enjoy every second. There is nothing more beautiful than seeing the person you love naked and pleasing themselfs and wanting you to watch for with every touch,with every twitch of their body and with every sigh,with every moan, with every pant and squeel,..Therir saying I'm beautiful-look at me,-I can love and please myself so I know we can love and please eachother.
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