Have you ever lost interest in masturbating?

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SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Redneck

I went through a period when I was depressed. his impacted my interest dramatically! Now that I am in my 40s, I accept the fact that I may not be horny for a period of time and just make up for it when I am horny. There are several reasons to loos interest; stress or depression, hormones and testosterone level, general health and well being, prolems with your love life (if you are fighting or bitter about something, the last thing you want is sex), attitude towatd life in general which I guess gould e placed along side stress and depression.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ED

I am presently in this stage. I am in my late twenties and have lost interest in it altogether. I thought not masturbating for six straight months was hard, but losing interst in something that should be normal is worse.

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Other
TITLE: jo

masturbation like is my life, bit I think the period where I lost interest, is some times just feelin like, _____ it, a chik shoudl be doing this. then I would like sotp jaken off and only get sum from chix, but that wasnt often enuff for me cuz im a masturbating freak, so I went bak to jacking as well.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: cc

I lose interest for a week or two every so often and I have no idea why. I can wank every day for a month and then suddenly stop for a week and even I wonder why I don't want to do it.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Madmandan

Every now and then (like once a year) I might go off masturbation for a week. I'm not sure why, I just don't really think about doing it during that time. Fortunately this happens very infrequently.

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: roverri40

No, I have been masturbating since the age of 12. When I married, I lessened it, but went on masturbating now and then. I rediscovered masturbation on internet and became again a real masturbation freak.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Justin M

Sometimes I lose interest...usually when I am depressed (bi-polar) and then there are times I just don't feel like it for a week or so, and then, wham, I gotta do it several times a day. Go figure!

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Randyboy40

I have never rejected the idea as such. I have felt obliged not to wank when I am staying in a guesthouse or with friends/relations for a few days. Also when I am very weary,I lack the energy to wank. Its important to enjopy it & how can you do that if you are so weary you cannot stop yawn ing?

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: asstard

i like to jerk it all the time. sometimes I like it more after a night of heavy drinking. occasionally this has caused me great headaches. I think about men. and money. dudes and dough. cash and coochie.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Will

I am 28 and have been masturbationg since I was 10 or 11. I probably had times when frequency decreased like when I first started having sex at 17 with my girlfriend and we had sex all the time. I was pretty much single from 21-23, and during that time I perfected my masturbation techniques. Masturbation has always been important, and still is.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Total

If you have a lot of willpower (Like I do) You can stop for a very, very long time. If you stop for a month, then the next time you masturbate, it'll feel great, I felt like I was wrapped in happiness. One month of waiting for one moment of pleasure.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: danny

The only time I felt like I shouldn't masturbate was when I was looking for a steady girl, someone that I might marry. I felt that I might be substituing masturbation for a healthy sexual relationship. I masturbated less. However, once I found the rigfht girl and we experiemented with masturbation and petting, I returned and even excelled in my masturbation frequency and quality.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Okie

Yes I lost interest in sex and masturbation when I was 16. I was depressed 'cause I hurt my leg and couldn't compete in the local rodeo. My bud's dad was a masseur for athletes. He massaged me and got me in a good frame of mind. I got a huge hardon and he massaged around it and then I smiled and him and said I was sorry. He said practically all the guys he massages get hardons. He had strong soft skinned warm hands and it's impossible not to get a boner. He smiled back at me and started to masturbate me and I let loose of a load of cum that startled the both of us. I was really loaded for bear. He cleaned up the cum, but my prick was still throbbin and he jacked me off again. He had a humongous dick and steel hardon. I masturbated him and sucked him off. Even tho he was my bud's dad kept quiet about it and we would get together for mutual sex whenever we could for about 5 years.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Birddog

Masturbation is only a substitute for a partner that does not satisfy me. If I got as much quality sex from my partner as I want, I would never play with the pud. I love oral sex, both giving it and receiving it. I love humping in a variety of positions. I love sex play, such as dressing up in exotic clothes and maybe even a little S and M. I would love to have all kinds of passionate sex every day but she won't give it to me,consequently I get much of my sexual satisfaction out of masturbation. I wish it weren't that way, but folks that is reality.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: TJ

I stopped jacking off once when I was 15. My guardian was a professional athlete and religous and he caught me jerkin. I stopped for about 3 weeks. He later said he was wrong and apologized for chewing me out. To make up for it, we jackked off each other in the shower. We were mutual masturbaters for a very long time. When I am depressed or sad I stop for awhile, but never longer than a week.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lib1nmne

NEVER!! I've never lost interest and have only gone 5 consecutive days without masturbating in 32 years. I may be forced to go without due to busy schedule or illness periodically, but I've always wanted to do it.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ph

when we went skiing with our class for 10 days I didnt want to because I just didnt feel confortable with thinking of all my classmates in the same house.. also at home I succeded for 5 days so 15 days without masturbating. but after that it was like b4 skiing. . .

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tomas

I was 18 when I stopped beating my meat. I told the priest in confessional that I masturbated and he shouted at me so that the whole church could almost hear what he said. Needless to say I am free from all organized religions

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bob

When I was 18 I managed to go without a whack for a whole week, my parents went on vacation with my aunt and uncle and I ended up having to watch my 12yr old girl cousin the whole time, and I just didn't feel right having a whack during that time even though I had a lock on my door. It was cool though, because during that time we did kid-things nonstop like board games and bike riding and such, so all that extra stuff more than made up for not being able to whack off.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Rick

I lost interest for a few months. It happens often for me. School is the reason basically. I am very much into school, and I always put school first (most of the time, lol). So some months, I take a break, and I'm just like "Who needs masturbation?" A few months later, "I need it!"

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Chris

Agree with the sentiments of most of the other correspondents here. I'm a married guy and have a very active sex life, but there's still nothing like a wank. If nothing else, it's a huge stress relief. But it's also still possible to have the most intense orgasms.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: confoozed

Hi. I'm 15 and I'm currently going through this phase. I have been masturbating since I was about 10 and never lost interest. Now I don't know whats gonig on. It happened about 2 weeks ago I jacked off twice within an hour and after that I just felt weird. I tried doing it last week and it felt good but not like it usually does. I think it's just all psychosomatic. I also don't feel as horny as I used to...does anyone know why this happens?

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dick

Yes. It bothered me to the point that I sought medical help. Not to worry, Dicky is back in business. Everyone goes through changes in chemistry throughout their lives, and my time had come (cum?). Vitimins fixed me. A small deficiency led to a drop in testosterone, not only did that drop, but my dick did too. After two weeks on a good multi vitimin, and a litle more of a work out, Dicky was back up to his old tricks. When in doubt, talk to your doctor.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jeff

_______For most of you: You haven't lost interest because you base your life around meaningless things. When you should be basing your life around God. _______For the rest of you: Masturbation is a selfish act period. It is not necessary and most of the time it leads to unhealthy habbits. I know that you can find better ways of spending your time other than pleasuring yourself. Look around at the world today. There are people kidnapping little kids, people raping other people, men loving other men, women loving other women. These are just a few things. Sex has been turned into something selfish, as well as horrid and disgusting. This was not what sex was meant to be. You have to ask yourself where this all started and how it started. It isn't like a person got up one day and decided, "Hey I think i'll go kidnap a child today." There were choices they made in their life that affected them to the point where they began to consider things like that. Next you have to ask yourself, "If I think this is wrong what am I doing about it?" So, if you care about these horrible things that are going on why don't you try changing some of your own bad/selfish life habbits. The change has to start with you before you can expect it to start with other people. God bless you all and may the Lord help you find your way.

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Male
TITLE: DaBomb

I have never lost interest in masturbation for a LONG period of time, although I have tried countless times. Ya see, I am a christian, which means I love God, which means God doesn't like masturbation. I feel guilty everytime I do it, just because I am a christian and I feel that GOd doesn't want me anymore...

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Franky

been with my girl for three months now, so havent jerked off in a while. oh, and jeff, you got some nerve judging everyone here because they happen to be human, a not some repressed, dogmatic religious zealot. I would say the problems in the world are not because of homosexuality or promiscuity, they are from fundamentalist religious people imposing their offensive views and doctrines where they aren't welcome.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: TJ

I maturbate about 5 to 6 times a day,,along with having rugular sex with my G/F. I have never lost interest in it and have been doing so since I was about 16, I'm 27 now.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dave

I have been Masterbating since before seven years old. I can never say that I lost interest. There were periods that I went through were I just never did it because I was just tired. I usually tend to masterbate at night. Under times of stress, I tend to want to masterbate to take my mind off of complicated things.

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: WildWanker

Lose interest in masturbation? Never! Well at least not as long as I am alive and my dick keeps getting hard. Though when I get really really sick, I sometimes don't get at it for a couple days. Or if I've pulled a couple allnighters and am just too tired to take care of things. Otherwise I do my duty to my penis on a daily basis; it's as essential to me as eating and sleeping. I even took to liking masturbation enough to take up mutual masturbation; amazing how much sexcitement one gets when it's someone else's hand doing the deed. And with the invention of the webcam, well, let me say my interest in wanking has increased what with the availability of all those new guys to enjoy a good wank with. Oh I am naughty aren't I. But what the heck, I (and pretty well everyone else even if they won't admit it) enjoys a good hand job.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: opey

Really, only once. Going off to college at age 18. Dorm room w/ a roomate. Soon it was October, roomate away (finally) for a weekend. Realized it had been 6 wks since I'd actually been physically alone. For 2 days I left the room only to eat. The rest of the time I was mostly naked and wanking in every position I'd learned since I was 11. Guys, regular ejaculation is important to our sexual/physical/emotional health. Now I'm 50, and when my son was 9, I told him masturbation is ok, normal, and fun....But please take ownership of cleaning up. He's 25, and after 2 failed relationships w/ women, He prefers to live alone, just like his dad.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tag

---Yeah, but it didn't last that long, thankfully. Basically, I was going through a period of self doubt and low self esteem and there wasn't much that picked me up, not even masturbation. I felt like crap about myself, so loving myself didn't work a whole lot. Fortunately, I found the room within that I needed, and got back on my feet, and everything else followed.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: sushi

I lose interest if I'm stressed or depressed. At the moment I have no interest in masturbation, or interest in having sex with my partner, because we dont have sex very often (due to his work commitments and oversleeping) and he masturbates over porn like a madman.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: jj

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SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jay

In college i went out with a girl for a while, which was odd cause i had all this gay porn on my computer, what a fool i was. Anyways, the point is the stress of being in the closet and a few other things stopped me from masturbating for about 2 months one, my god have i made up for it since

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: whistler

Yes, when I get really busy with my work.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: large cock for a kid

no never i do in the locker room in gym. every body in gym masterbates at the same time. we all think about brintney. repliy and say what u think

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: giani

I lose interest from time to time, for a period of a few days, but normally, I masturbate pretty regularly.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: El Dongo

Erm, how can any guy who wakes up in the morning with a wood not want to grab the bastard and jerk off?! Certainly better that a fookin alarm clock!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Frank

I'm 20 and in the Marines. My 79 yr old neighbor is a widower and he said he lost interest in sex and masturbation. One day after a few beers we decided to masurbate each other. He said he couldn't get it up or go off. Well, I tell you after some cock play we both lost our loads in a giant mutual jack off. He was surprised that he could go off like that. Now, since we live in the same apt. building, we jack off each other 2/3 times a week. He is happy now, and of course so am I, and he is going to get married again!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: XYZ

The only time I lost interest in masturbation was between my 15th and 17th birthdays when I discovered sex. For a couple of years, I was obsessed with sex to the exclusion of all else, but I later calmed down.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: nondescript

I think that people go through phases where they think more or less about sex. The same holds true for masturbation. I have gone extended periods without masturbating, maybe up to a few weeks.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dave

No, I have never lost interest in masturbation.

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: DOWN BUT NOT OUT

........Starting in the early eighties masturbation was put on hold for maybe half a year then and for a month or so in later years.I had joined the animal rights movement and began to see undercover videos of animals being dismembered while fully conscious.These and undercover slaughter house videos made me sick and sick of my species. It is over thoughts of my fellow human beings that I was supposed to be turned on enough to masturbate. Instead, my fantasies sometimes went into a darker direction. The movement was based on non violence and the Christian "golden rule" so I never lifted a finger against those of whom the same thing could not be said, especially with what they were doing to some animals. But during these times, the realizatin of how many people were precluded me from sexual interest in the least. Now with the animal rights movement all but dead,for lack of anybody caring, the disturbing images of things like animals being skinned alive rarely surface and the recovery time of my sex drive is shortened. I believe that masturbation is important and want to contribute my fair share. I believe that time has born out that only I can be responsible for my sexual stisfaction. And only you can be responsible for yours.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: fred

I started when I was 11 and basically still do it daily, and I'm middle aged. Only time it ever slowed was when one partner I had would "coax" me into bed a couple times a day.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: John

I have recently decided to stop masterbating, it has been a week since. F.Y.I before this last week I was a "heavy" masterbator. I don't feel that masterbation is wrong for you. Also, I am not here to preach about it being wrong or right. Anyways, I am going to tell you why I decided to stop. About a week ago, I was sleeping in a church for 3 days. The week prior to these 3 days I had been masterbating. During the 3 days I was staying at the church, I knew I couldn't masterbate. On the fist day I thought to myself "Ok, 3 day no problem..When I get home I can go back to masterbating." Heres the thing. During my stay I noticed that I could not stop thinking of sexual thoughts. I was even having "naughty" thoughts of the women that walked into the church, thought of wanting to do things that I watched in pornographic movies. I wanted to stop, but I juss couldn't. I realized that my mind is stuck on "SEX" and that I lost the ablity to control myself. It appeared to me that sex and self pleasure had become a silent addiction to me. I fell that it is unhealthy of me not to be able to control my thoughts. The excessive viewing of pornography and self pleasure had molded my thought patterns. Till this day I have urges to masterbate and view pornography. This is the reason for the apathy. To regain the abilty to control myself. Thank you for reading my posting. 101862468

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Rutjep

No I have a steady urge for sexual satisfaction

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER:
TITLE: Paul B.D

No like every good thing in life why give up what you like. I have always enjoy my penis, playing with it,looking at.Ihave many pictures of it.My male friend has taken a vido of Me masurbating I love to watch it by my self.I think when my friend jack's me off that is when it is best,when I come we are both are surprised how far my sperm flys. No I have not lost interest in working my cock to a climex

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: kurt

One time when I was a kid, I thought that mastrubation was interfering with the urine sample at the doctor's office so I stopped for a whole week before the appointment. Other times if my balls get sore from jacking off too much, I will stop for a few days to recharge.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Shamed shelf stacker

I stopped last year when Chloe begged me because my dick was swollen. However it nearly killed me and I jacked off to so much porn the next week and I bent her over and _____ her till I was raping her. I hated myself.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Pete

Right now, I'm on five days. I met a girl I really like, but we aren't dating or anything. I just don't feel the need like the other times and usually have better things to do. This always happens when I like a girl, maybe I have hidden issues?

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bud

No I have never lost interest in masturbating

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Interested

I am 66 and have been masturbating since I was 12. During that time I lost interest in masturbating twice. Once was when I married at 29 for two years, when my wife and I had sex almost every day. When I was 31 I started to masturbate an hour or two every day, until I was 38. Then with my wife's encouragement I began masturbating as much as I wanted, which was anywhere from 2 to 6 hours a day. This continued until April of this year, when I quit smoking and at the same time found I had to have an eye operation. The operation was a success and my feeling to masturbate came back in July. I purposely pushed it down, as we were going on holiday in October and I wanted to wait until we came back. So I did, and when we came back home I took out my penis and never really put it away. I was glad to find this site and discover that there are actually others who like masturbating as much as I do. I hope I never lose interest again!

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Geo

I've never lost interest in a good wank, if I can't get sex any other way it's the best way, Even when i do have sex I often wank when i get to bed just thinking about what i have done earlier and then again in the morning. I also wank at work and sometimes when I'm driving the car it's a great feeling.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Gray

I tried quitting several time in my youth. Getting whipped because of doing it is enough to make you quit. I think I went almost a year once with out doing it. But I always went back to it.

SEXUALITY: Metrosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Daniel

Yes, I have lost interest in mastrubation for periods of time. Usually when I was hooked on a new physical interest, i'd stop jerking off for a few days or weeks because I was locked on them. I believe there's quite a few chemical brain responses that I could recall to explain this but, really it's just because I wasn't horny. Emotions were at play.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER:
TITLE: Matt

No way! How could you lose interest in masturbation? it's like pure pleasure and its not unhealthy like so many other pleasurable things are.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: GunshySlycat1

No. That's quite impossible unless I had tons of sex!!!!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Scott

Never. Almost. Only when I take certain medicines am I not ready for sex, solo or mutual. I do not take medicine regularly.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Masturbator

I only ever lost interest in masturbation once, when I was ill. That was for about a month. I have had occassions when for one reason or another I had to go without masturbating much for two or three weeks, or sometimes for a day or two, but those were not due to a lack of interest, and I could usually manage a few minutes. But since I masturbate lots every day, that seemed like nothing. I cannot imagine going without masturbating for even a short time and hope I never lose interest in it.

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