How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Johney

I am a married man of 48 years. I enjoy intercourse with wife too. I am great masturbator. I enjoy masterbating very much. I started it when I was a kid. Initially I used to do it once or twice a week. later frequency increased to daily 1 or 2 time. But for the last 15 years it increased rapidly and now I am masterbating everyday 5 to 10 times, it has increased because I have seen pussy of my mother when she was sleeping since then I am thinking her pussy and whenever I think, I get excited and start doing masterbation. During masterbation, I only think about my mother's big black pussy.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: MadMan

I love to Masterbate and have since age 10, I am 45 now. I have done mutual masterbation with my wife and love it, she will not touch herself. She does not want me to ever touch my self. She will do it for me sometimes and gets mad if I touch myself. I think it is time to find a new wife that is more open and less selfish.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Ruth

I think masturbation is part of every healthy relationship. It also is of vital importance when one partner has a higher sex drive. I am 45, and masturbate on average two times a week , and enjoy it thoroughly.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: jack

I'm 59 and masturbate twice a day. I'm in a new relationship and she enjoys jacking me off. I have been masturbating before I new what it was I was taught by a 16 year old female. We would go to the hay loft and jack off together. I love to masturbate it feels great.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Clayton

My boyfriend & I love to watch each other masturbate, Its part of our life we could be home watching tv and one of us will start jerking off, when we shower together we always jerk off, I think its a very important part of any relationship.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER:
TITLE: pat

I think masturbation is as healthy as regular sex to me it make sex with my wife better, she likes to watch an will join me sometimes, I jack off at least twice a week, we only have sex maybe once a month. my wife is glad that I like to masturbate.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: love bee

I think masturbation should be an actvity while being single. When I am with the man I love... masturbation is a prelude before any thing else following. But sincerely, I rather have intercourse, everyday if possible, or at least 3 to four time a week I don't understand man that enjoy their own hand, rather than their wife's... maybe there sex life is indeed downhill. A healthy life, comes with a heathly sex life! I hope I will still be arroused by my man at the age of 87!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Rachel

I have been married for 8 years and my husband and I masterbate both together and seperately. Many times we share the fact with eachother that we have recently masterbated to turn eachother on. I personally will often wait until we are out in public or a place where nothing can be done about it to tell him just because it makes it that much more fun! We are very open about the issue and feel that it can be healthy and nurturing to a relationship as long as it's not taking the place of intimacy between two people. I find masterbation extremely erotic and I fantasize about catching my husband in the act... maybe I will someday LOL!!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dave

I feel that masturbation can be harmful in a relationship aspectially when one of the partners is doing it in secrecy and the other's needs are being neglected - I am 59 years old and I have been masturbating since I was a teenager - I never made the connection between sex and intimacy in a relationship and I feel that after 32 years - my marriage maybe coming to an end and I can not stop masturbating long enough to try saving it --- I think my partner is masturbating in secrecy too --- I do not blame her --- to be honest - I am surprised that she is still with me

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Spaceman

I'm in a fantastic relationship at the moment...great sex and lots of it. But, I still feel the need to masturbate from time to time. I don't see it as a reflection of my sexual relationship with my partner. Actually, just recently we were in bed after about 2 hours of _____ and wrestling. My lady was pretty sore, and too wet for me to climax again. I took a chance and suggested that I bring myself off while she watched. Seemed a little risky (I wasn't sure how she would react), but she got very turned on by it. She helped by stroking me behind my scrotum (which I LOVE!), then she really started getting turned on, and I watched as she started to finger herself (something she hadn't done before). It didn't take me long before I was shooting my cum onto my own stomach, which she then rubbed over me, before licking my skin and kissing me hard on the mouth. It was great! Now when I travel I take the webcam and we masturbate for each other at the climax of some hot phone sex.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jack

I am a happily married 50-year old man. I have been masturbating since I was 16 years old, basically at least once a day and sometimes up to five times. I have always enjoyed pictures of women masturbating and in the past few years have also started enjoying pictures of men masturbating and ejactulating. My wife neither masturbates nor approves of it, for either men or women.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Fred

I’m a 32 male, married for 2+ years now and masturbate more then I should. My wife is very beautiful but I can’t help looking at porn and masturbating…..I’ll be spent and not want to have real sex. What the hell is wrong with me?

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: mr green

I have been married for 6 years and masturbate during the week and have sex on the weekends this siuts my busy life style she does not know of this but is happy with the situation The good thing is that we both have routine and have something to look forward to every weekend.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: pm624

I believe masturbating on your own cheats your relationship of intimacy but when your partner is rarely interested there's not a lot of other options. I would love my wife to masturbate in private or with me to increase her sexual desire but she probably never will. I do and probably always will masturbate alone in a long term relationship unless by a miracle the sexual desire of my partner equals or exceeds my own. I have masturbated since I was 16 with frequency increasing with age. Since my vasectomy orgasm does not leave me feeling spent and satisfied and I find myself continously horny and beating myself raw.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: TJ

I think masturbation should remain a part of anyone's life whether you're in a relationship or not. While I am currently in one, I masturbate at least two to three times a week. I get turned on by thinking of other guys, even neighbors I know. Just thinking of how they get off makes me go wild. I don't think that anyone could ever get enough sex to satisfy them in any relationship so maturbation is there to help out. And it just feels good to do something by yourself every once in awhile. Spending some time in the shower with a vibrating shower head is almost enough to make me come right there. Who needs someone else at that time?

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: I_C_U_

I am in a relationship, and I am very disturbed by the fact that my boyfriend masterbates almost daily to a porno flick at night when I am asleep instead of having sex with me. I find it to be extremely offenseul. I have masterbated before, but I prefer the touch of a man as opposed to my own touch. I think I would be more comfortable with the fact that he masterbates so often if he would do it with me..perhaps we can even do it together. I want to be a part of it with him. He has told me that I need to relax... Perhaps I will walk in on him one night, and we will take it from there!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: healthydude

I believe that masturbation is completely natural, and should not be frowned upon by either partner in a relationship. One should masturbate if the amount or the timing of sexual activity in the relationship is not enough to satisfy one's basic needs. Masturbation is also good in allowing a man to stay faithful to one partner, as men are "hard-wired" genetically to experience sex with multiple partners, and the fantasy of having sex with another partner is, for most men, sufficient to satisfy the biological urge to "stray". In addition, masturbation can help to keep a man's "equipment" healthy into his senior years. Statistically, those who masturbate and engage in sexual intercourse regularly, and over the course of decades, can expect better sexual performance from their bodies than otherwise possible when they reach middle age and the numerous years beyond. As the old adage goes, "Use it or lose it."

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: wrist action

I am 30years old and have been married for 5 years Masturbation is healthy and very impoetant in a relationship espeacially when one partners needs are not being met if we don't take care of our selves we will at some point need someone else to do it for us and when our partners are not willing and think once a month is enough sex to be happy we will look else where.....Masturbation should not be fround upon it is unbeleivable how many prople thing of it us unhealth or dirty because they were told so as kids and made to think it was bad.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Cookiebush

I think masturbation is a very important part of a relationship. It's rare that two people will be in the same mood for the same thing at the same time, ALL the time, so feeling free to masturbate alone is great. That said, masturbation is also a great thing to share, whether doing it for each other or to each other. ---- I don't mind my partner masturbating, although if he is doing it *instead* of having sex with me, it becomes problematic. I like watching my partner masturbate for me (as long as he enjoys me watching).----- I would and do masturbate in long term relationships and did throughout my marriage. In fact, my exhusband knew me well enough to suggest I go masturbate if I were really crabby, because he knew it calmed and relaxed me!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Spud

I think masturbation is great. Both my wife and I do it, either together or alone. We both tell each other when we have done so and end up having great sex. No problem with any form of masturbation at all.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bob

Masturbation is important to maintain ones sexual health. I am 56 and married. I masturbate 2 to 3 times per week on average, mostly on my own. I occasionally masturbate with my wife assisting which is a turnon for me. If my partner masturbated, I would be fine with it. I am equally turned on by naked females, naked males and BDSM.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: vic

My girlfriend loves to watch me masturbate, she could set and watch me for hours. But the nice part is, she likes to masturbate also, at which I love to watch her as well. What turns her on is when we watch a porn flick and i start masturbating. In a long term relationship I would still masturbate and would love for my significant other to walk in on me masturbating.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bob

I can not help not to play with my penis. I am completely shaved and the feeling that the smooth pubic area offers if spectacular. So I play with my penis all the time. I have not ejaculated during masterbation, I am leaving it for a sexual intecourse with my partner. I currently wear 3 cock rings. The constant preoccupation with and touching myself prompted me to order a CB3000 Mens Chastity device. Once the device is locked on the penis it will prevent erection and masterbation and provide my partner with total control over my ejaculation. Can't wait! I do not believe that masturbation is unhealthy or cheating on the spose at all, but I am prepared to forgo it for the chance of being chaste and controlled by her. I find my partners masturbation a huge turn on and approve of it. We have been together for over 30 years.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: gritsgirl

I belive masturbation is very erotic, I do it and so does my husband. I am not offended that he has this private activity, I would love to secretly watch him. For me it is very arousing tosee a man masturbate.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: rider

I think masterbation is verry normal in any relationship. I would love to watck my wife do it but I dont think she will. I masterbate sometimes because Im verry horney. Married 34 years.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bill

I see nothing wrong with masturbation while married or in a relationship. In my case my wife has to get up early and go to work, while I am retired. We have regular intercourse when she doesn't have to get up early, and if I masturbate between our lovemaking she has no problem with it. In fact she gets excited hearing about it or watching as part of our foreplay. I have even made a video tape of several different jack-off sessions complete with full ejaculation which she enjoys watching while we _____. I have bought several sex toys and dildoes for her and I encourage her to masturbate and have a good orgasm if she cannot go to sleep. She usually will go to sleep immediately after having an orgasm.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Bill

I am 30 and happily married. We have sex about 5 times a week, but I still masturbate two or three times a day. My wife knows I masturbate, and we often masturbate together, especially at weekends. She also masturbates a lot - four or five times a day. Neither of us regard masturbation as inferior to intercourse. It is complementary and different, that's all.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: XYZ

I think it's just fine and dandy. And like all other pleasures, it should be shared with your partner. I enjoy watching my lady masturbate, and she enjoys watching me masturbate. We also like masturbating each other and together.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: cj

My boyfriend and I have been dating for six yrs. We love masterbation as part of our sex life. He enjoys watching me do it, and I enjoy watching him. We also do each other. I love to talk dirty to him while I jack him off.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: H

I love to jack off. I think it's a normal male/female activity. My girlfriend and I love to do each other. We have also added her best friend to our activities. We strip naked, get in bed, they work my cock to an erection, then take turns jacking me off. Then they stroke each other, while I watch and jack off my hard cock. What turn on.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Pyrate

I'm 39 years old and have been married for 14 years. I masterbate whenever I can and it has no effect on how often my wife and I have sex. She doesnt know that I do it, as she does not beleive in it, but it helps me out loads. Once in awhile, I'll get to gether with some friends of mine or my cousin for some "guy time" and we'll get into a circle jerk with each other. No sex or anything oral, just simple masterbation of wach other to help release the tension and be ourselves.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: nige

im in a stable rlationship at the moment but unfortunatly I live away from my partner so masterbating is our only outlet for sex when we are appart. --- We both understand that it is a natural outlet for sexual tension when we can`t be together. I even bought my partner a vibrator and some "adult" films so when im not there she has an outlet for her own sexual needs. If we do have a sexy telephone call she will even joke will I have to go and watch a DVD. I dont expect to have to masterbate when we are together full time but only time will tell.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: jonty

I have masturbated since I was about 13 I have been happily married for 18 years now and have continued to masturbate most days I have great sex wuth my wife. I sometimes have to get up early to go to work and usually awake with a erection its to early to ask the wife for sex so I have a good old wank. I tell her that I masturbate and she really dont mind. I know she masturbates as well and the thought of her doing it really turns me on we have masturbated while the other one looks and it really is a turn on masturbation is as far as I am concerned a normal part of a healthy sexual relationship and will do it as long as I have the urge to

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: creep

I have always felt masturbation to be an important part of my life and wish it was a bigger part of my marriage. I love exposing myself to my wife and others when appropriate. I have been masturbating since about age eight. This was about four years before I started to ejaculate. At around age thirteen I started to do it with a couple of friends. When I was fifteen, one of my male teachers and I did it together. I still frequently do it. My wife doesn't...darn it. I have one male friend that is gay. We enjoy masturbating ourselves and each other and having oral sex together a couple of times a month. I am sixty years old and still masturbate several several times each day, most days. I do stop short of orgasm (by choice) most of the time.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Ryan

I have no problem with my partner masturbating....although I know she won't, because she finds it disgusting. I shoot my load onto into my hand everyday..(and my chest, and face lol) and even if I was in a long term relationship, or marriage, if I didn't empty myself..I would jack off until I was completely drained of my cum and couldn't get hard anymore.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: nondescript

Masturbation is fun and natural. I do it whenever I feel the need and am in a place where I can do it. It is also erotic to masturbate with a partner or watch a partner masturbate. Being in or out of a long term relationship doesn't affect that. When I was younger, I would masturbate up to 5 times in a day. Now I only masturbate a maximum of two or three times in a day. I don't masturbate some days, but most of the time, I do. The only reason I would hide my masturbation from a partner is if I think it would wake her up.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: iska

Masterbation has been problematic in my marriage. I didnt know he'd been using porn in the bathroom 1-2 times/day. This is in addition to us having intercourse almost every day. When I found out about his porn use and masterbation it made me feel like I was inadequate. I could not understand why he needed to use the porn to get off and why he would not want to have sex with me. I was very willing to have sex everyday, even multiple times. Our sex activity included some masterbation while in each others presence. This was fine with me until it became obvious that hed prefer to look at porn and masterbate. Now, I just say its ok for him to masterbate and I just get over it, even though it still makes me feel inadequate, depressed and feeling left out. I truly wish he'd stop and would prefer I did not have to lay in bed next to him while he masterbates before going to sleep. sometimes I make an excuse and go work on my computer, like right now, so that I dont have to feel so alone while I am laying next to him...at least I can get my mind off what he is doing and how it makes me feel.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Mountain

Masturbation is probably part of most relationships whether or not both partners are aware of it. I masturbated during the early years of my marriage and believed that my wife wasn't aware of it. She caught me once and told me that she had known about it for years. She never admitted to masturbating but now I know that she does it, too. We masturbate together sometimes and she masturbates sometimes when I'm out of town.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Steve

I have been married for 13 years. Neither I nor my wife have any hangups about masturbating. We often masturbate together, and both of us also masturbate in private. A typical week's sexual activity for me involves making love 4-6 times (during which I often masturbate myself or get my wife to masturbate me while she masturbates herself or I masturbate her) plus 12-15 solo masturbation sessions. My wife admits to masturbating alone at least twice a day.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ED

My wife and I have a great marriage. I cant have 'normal' sex cause of 2 major back surguries thats left me unable to get on top of her, and she doesnt like being on top either. So, we jack each other off, and sometimes we watch each other do it. The lates thing I have involved her in is to use a vacuum on me. Ive been using a vac for a long time. One night recently I told her that every man would like to have a larger dick ( mine is 8" ) and I have been experimenting with a shopvac. When I told her I wanted to show her and not get mad at me, she said ok....lets see. So I brought it from the basement and she got the idea after I got naked and put my dick in the vac hose and turned it on. It not only sucks me off, but vibrates too. -----Now she wants to jack me that way more often. She has all the control as I just satand or lay there....streaching mt limbs so as to be like tied down and 'tortured'...lol We both love it. And the more she does this to me, the more she smiles and I know she wants to do even more to me now ---Prehaps she might let me bring a friend over to watch us, and then I can masterbate her off while the friend watches that too.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Duke

I've been married 24 years and still masturbate 2-3 times a week. My wife used to jill herself regularly. I would wake up at night feeling the bed shake, and she would have 2-3 orgasms. Now, sex is by appointment, and she only occasionally makes the effort to orgasm, despite my willingness to wait and help her. She's just not interested much anymore. I find it erotic to watch women pleasure themselves, but my wife won't do it anymore. So, it's either get sex outside or find erotic stimulation on the Web and take things into hand.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jojo

I masturbate all the time. My wife loves to "catch" me and it turns her on tremendously. She also knows that I masturbate a lot on my own. She doesn't mind because I am always ready for her when she wants it.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jerkoff

I have never been able to stop masturbating, whether in a relationship or not, so how I feel about it doesn't matter much. Over the years, jerking off has become my most frequent form of sex, even when in a relationship. I like it best with another faggot, but I do it when I'm alone too.-----I like to masturbate other faggots, including my partners, and I like to watch them do it. I very much like to catch partners doing it, and I like to get caught at it also. I sometimes put myself in a position where my partner is likely to catch me beating off.-----I was married to a woman for ten years, and she knew I jerked off. In fact, she too sometimes called me Jerkoff. After we divorced, other faggots started calling me Jerkoff. I really like being called Jerkoff.-----I have always jerked off, both when in a relationship and not.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Paddy

I have always regarded relief of sexual tension to be the main object for performing any kind of sexual activity, hetero, homo or solo. Most of us, female and male, need to relieve ourselves from time to time (or even all the time) and usually prefer to share the experience with others of either sex. Masturbation, of course, is simply sharing these pleasures without assistance from anyone else but with the important advantage of being relieved by someone who understands all our sexual likes and dislikes; of course the partner is always there and has just the right ideas.----I have enjoyed a pretty full sex life from about 7 years old and also enjoyed the much more open attitude to sexual practices all of all kinds that are now available to us all compared with the "hole in the corner" restrictions that our parents had to endure. In my own case, I had the great advantage of being one of about 40-odd cousins in a mainly farming family who gave me more practical advice about how essential our sexual pleasure is essential to ensure that the human race can continue.---- Masturbation, especially with a partner of either sex or in a group is probably the best way to learn about one's own sexual abilities and so should be regarded as an essential part of any sex training given to the next generation.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bill

I think masturbation is fine anytime. I don't believe my wife of 50 years has ever masturbated but she has jacked me off many times. Some times I wake up in the middle of the night with a hard on and jack myself off. I know that sometimes she wakes up but she never let on like she is awake. I wish sometimes she would turn over and ask me if I would like for her to do it. Of course I would say YES. She likes for me to make her come with my hand.She comes easier and harder that way than with intercourse.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dave

Masturbation in a relationship is fine and probably a good idea. I enjoy watching my wife masturbate and we frequently do eachother as part of an extended sexual session.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: BK

Masturbation is a normal sexual need whether inor out of a relationship. I am 46. I masturbate on average 3 to 5 times a week. Occassionally I'll go on a masturbation binge and wank 3 or 4 times in one day. I masturbate in private. My wife does not masturbate.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Grendel

I am 27 years old, married and masturbate quite often daily, usually 4-5 times. My wife is not interested in sex and it drives me crazy because she is sexy and I feel very attracted to her, yet I can not act on my lust for her. As a result, I end up relieving my frustrations and do it often. I take frequent masturbation, a la me, as sign of not getting ones sexual needs met. It looks like I will be continuing to whack the weasel until my either forearms and wrists give out, or I die. Whichever comes first. As for masturbation in a relationship, well I encourage activity, but my wife is not interested in that either, and she disapproves on the activity on my part. How do I feel about masturbating in a relationship? I feel I should be getting laid frequently enough to not require Mrs. Palmer. but a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, in the name of the institution of marriage, right?

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: clnshvdude

Yes I do masterbate some times I do it at home when my wife is not around.I have masturbated while rideing my motorcycle that way it is kind of messy but fun.I have masturbated at work as well as at school.I enjoy mastrubateing and do it as often as I can by my self as well as with a partner male or female. As for my wife masturbateing herself that would be all right with me however she does not like for me to do it myself.But what she doesnt know wont hurt me. And yes I am in an relationship ans I still masturbate when ever I can get a chance.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: fred

Mastubation is normal and wonderful in or out of a relationship.I have masturbated with and without partners I was involved with. I like to watch and be watched. Some partners have not been very receptive of this while others have enjoyed it as much as me.Even in a relationship I still Masturbate nearly every day and I am in my 50's. Enjoy.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: gigi

I am a 26 year old woman with 3 children and have been married for 8 years.I-----just recently found out my husband masterbates,and has been doing so throughout-our marriage.I'm still having a hard time trying to accept it.I don't-masterbate and have never tried.I feel that if your in a relationship with-someone and you say you love that person then why would a man do it.My -----husband says he does it for a release,I feel like I'm not enough for him.-------Maybe he's doing it because there's something wrong with me.He says that it has noyhing to do with me.I don't believe it.The fact is if it has nothing to do with me then why get off to a picture when the real thing is there and won't turn him away.And why be so secretive about it,I want honesty and answers.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Swede

I feel that masturbation is a natural part of any sexual relationship. I would love to have my partner and I watch each other so that we can better understand how we get pleasure from ourselfs.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: jw

I have been married for many years. Although our sex life is pretty good, I think we all need to take care of our own needs some times. We occasionally masturbate together dure sex. I masturbate about once a week. The thought of my wife masturbating it very erotic. I woke up late one night and realized she was masturbating next to me. I wasn't sure what to do, so I pretended to still be sleeping, and let her enjoy herself. I wish I could have watched as well, but listening to her was increadible!!!!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: pm

I believe masturbation is very healthy for both partners. It wouldn't bother me to know that my partner masturbates. I have been happily married for 23 years and I still masturbate on a regular basis.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bob

I'm a 31 year old divorced male. When I was married, I masturbated all the time. It was especially exciting and a big turn on for my wife and I to masterbate together.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Doug

Masturbation has nothing to do with being married or in a relationship at all. Speaking personally, I masturbate at least once a day, and I am in a commited long term relationship that is sexual. My girlfriend also masturbates, albeit a little less frequently. It is enjoyable to watch each other, or masturbate for each other, but to be honest, I'm the only one that can do it properly anyway.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Other
TITLE: hermaphodite123

I am a hermaphodite. It was hard to accept at first I now accept it. I have a "vegenis"(a half penis/half vagina reproductive organ. It's awesome because I can have unlimited orgasm and ejaculate an incredible amount at the same time. My parter is gothic and a hermaphodite as well. We formed a hermaphodite nest in our home with hairy "veginis's" ejaculating everywhere. It's so much fun. We are getting married soon and so I think masturbating is an erotic fun pleasure for a married couple. Morgan, your friendly neighborhood hermaphodite :)

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: pa

i've been married 25 years and I jack off 2 or 4 times a week. we have sex at least twice and my wife sucks me off at least once or twice. I have never tried to prolong. I believe it is part of a normal life. I was caught once by my mother and she told me to keep on what I was doing. I have always jacked off the same way since I was aroung 12 or 13. I care less what religious people think. they have nothing to do with my jacking off. I have never slowed down on it.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: luvit

I have been masterbating since I was 8 and couldnt ejaculete yet, but it sure felt good. I masterbated at least 6 times evey day until I had my first experience with a woman. I loved sex with women,but the more sex I got the hornier I got and so I kept masterbating 5/6 times a day. Some times I would have sex with 3 different women in one day and still jerk off several times that day. I was married for 40 years, befor my wife died, and had all the sex I wanted but, still jerked off at least once a day every day. I luuuuuuuuv it. Today I jerk off only 3 times a day because I am on medication that makes it more difficult to get an erection.I have jerked off with other guys and enjoyed it also.My wife didnt masterbate but, we did each other during foreplay and it was always great.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Joebob

Masturbation is a healthy part of life.- When in a long term relationship both partners need to masturbate. Sometimes this will be solo at other times together. Masturbating together is really great sex!- I encourage her to masturbate. Also I masturbate her and she masturbates me. We both enjoy msaturbation. We each do it whenever we can. We do it alone or together as often as we can.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Joebob

Masturbation is a healthy part of life.- When in a long term relationship both partners need to masturbate. Sometimes this will be solo at other times together. Masturbating together is really great sex!- I encourage her to masturbate. Also I masturbate her and she masturbates me. We both enjoy masturbation. We each do it whenever we can. We do it alone or together as often as we can.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: buddy4r

I've been married more than 20 years. My wife and I added masturbation to our sex routine in last year. We both love it! She has multiple orgasms this way and never had more than 1 or 2 with regular _____. In morning she loves to snuggle next to me and make me crazy. I'm always horny in am. She waits for me to get so horny and start jerking off, which I now always do. After I shoot my load she'll make some smart ass comment like, "you feeling better now?" She says she loves to feel the bed shaking from me beating my meat. When we do it together she uses two toys: one that she sticks into her _____ and one that she vibrates over her clit. This way she has many orgasms and sometimes more than 10. I love to tell her that she's a freaking slut and all she cares about is filthy sex. And she loves the dirty talk and that makes her have more. All the while I whack away at myself. Many times I feel like I'm about to shoot load and then the feeling recedes a bit. While I'm beating it, she'll stick one of her vibrators in my nose to smell her juices. Once she does this, I'm lost and have no desire to hold back. I shoot my load all over myself. She counts the cum spurts that I have usually about 12 or 13. I've asked her if she'd ever like to get into a jack and jill party, but she says no. I don't keep pestering her about this idea. She knows that I'd love to do it, but it's not fair to try to persuade her. After all these years of marriage,who'd ever think that we'd find so much fun by masturbating together, but we do. We both recommend the practice to any couples. It's an intimate and very sharing sex act to do together and has led to us sharing some unbelievable sex stories with each other about our sexual past. I loved the story she told me about the guy with a huge cock, so big that he could hand a washcloth over it in the shower. And this is from a woman who you'd never think had a sexual history at all. I loved it. We also found that we both had about the same amount of sex history, but she had more occassions with fewer partners, while I had more partners, but not as many occassions with each partner. All this openess came from masturbating together. It was like talking with a stranger about titillating sex. We'll keep jerking together and I'm sure discover new slants on things.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: crazy man

WOW! I love to watch my wife masturbate and I love to masturbate with her and for her. It is great and a wonderful way to show your love. I think it is completely healthy and actually may help prevent prostate cancer. Yep! I love it!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: mr.morello

I'm in a serious relationship,I still masturbate(and I know for a fact so does she!)but we masturbate for each other sometimes which is a huuuge turn on!We talk about it alot and it's never awkward,we're completely open about it,when I masturbate I normally think of her anyway so I think it's fine to do it if ur married etc if ur both comfortable with it,in fact masturbating WITH her/him is a great experience and relieves any embarresment you might feel about a personal subject such as this!

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Rebel

I have loved to touch myself for as long as I can remember. It felt good then and does now. When I was young I had a male friend who jerked my off while he watched.Then one night I was playing with him, he sucked me and I had sex with him, It was great and I try again every chance I get.I have been in relationships with male and female, I liked to masterbate together and then clean eachother up. But I really like other males to masterbate me while I do them.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Dave

My wife and I masturbate regularly as part of our sexual activity. We do it together and enjoy mutual masturbation. She uses a vibrator while I stroke my cock. We both enjoy watching eachother. I occasionally masturbate alone and assume she does too.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER:
TITLE: paul#1

#1 after having sex with my partner(female) and having a ejaculated in about 2 hours I have a strong urge to masurbate so I do.I then feel compleat. #2 I have been with a male and watch him masturbate and when he came it turn me on so much that I would masturbate and have a great organism. Once he wouldnt do it unles I would suck his penis.I never had suck a mans penis befor And never though I would, but I did because I wanted to see him matubate and I would gladly do it again.I would love to see my female partner do it. #3 Yes,Yes

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: hummingbird

I don't have a problem with masterbating. I think that it is a wonderful thing to eperience your own body. My concerns are that when my boyfreind says that he will back off of the porno. and he doesn't. It makes me feel inadaquate and he would rather jack off than come on to me. I always is telling me that I am never satisfied, but yet I am always then one that has to initiate sex in our relationship..if I don't then he is back on the porno and once again neglecting me. We actually argue over it. and he says that I make him feel like a kid getting busted. but, really all I want is him to share it with me or take me a moments notice like he can get on the porno and jackoff..then aferwards he has told me that he feels quilty (I don't understand that) but still then he doesn't want me...can someone help? thank you Hummingbird

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: rod

I have been married twice and have had four other long term relationships. My first wife did not like me to penetrate her so I would play with her until she came and afterwards she would sit up along side me in bed and work me up until I came. This did not satisfy me so I would masturbate whenever she was not around. Several times when I asked her for sex she would tell me to masturbate myself and get up and leave the room. Only coming back to bed after asking me if I had finished. All my other partners have wanted me to come inside them either in their vulva or their mouths. They have nearly all said that it is a waste of spunk if I came anywhere else.I think that masturbation is natural for either partner to do on their own or with each other. My first wife told me that she did not masurbate but one day when I went home at lunch time unexpectedly I caught her lying on our bed with her pants around one leg and working her fingers in her crotch. She never admitted it but my other partners have all told me they have masturbated at some time. I still masturbate two or three times a week usually after my wife has got up and left the bedroom in the morning.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: dewsex

I have to consider it ok! since I have done it in both marriages. I started when I was six. I was using my hands as paddle wheel between my legs make bubbles and some times this really good and warm feeling would almost overcome me. I would try to do it again during the same bath, but it didn't work. I even asked my mother to paddle, she but it didn't help. She didn't say anything so I don't know wht she thought. I would like my partner to masturbate so she knows her body and so she will do it for me. Being older (58)and a bad back sometimes I have problem orgasming evenwhen she has me on the verge so she had me try and only once or twice have I succeded. There are times I like to masturbate openly hoping she would join in. I have been slowly laying the ground work to completely dicuss it, until then I will continue to be discrete.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: kurt

I mastrubate regularly while in and out of relationships. Actually, my girlfriend enjoys knowing that I mastrubate to her regularly and I am sure to tell her about the latest situation I imagined while jacking off to her. She also tells me about how she mastrubates to me so I think it is a very nice arrangement!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: sekijin

As a teenager, I remember masturbating almost daily. After I got married(10 years ago), I didn't stop but the frequency dropped dramatically. I suppose about 6 years into the marriage I began to masturbate more often because of things such as less time spent together with my wife due to work, being busy raising kids(not enough time for sex), and just a decline in passion. I don't keep it a secret from my wife-and we do still have sex when time permits-and I know that my wife occasionally masturbates too. I'm actually aroused by the thought of her(or any other girl) masturbating. I don't see it as an issue if one or both partners masturbate whilst in a relationship. It's healthy, it's natural, it can be incorporated into foreplay AS LONG AS IT'S UNDERSTOOD AND ACCEPTED BY BOTH PARTNERS.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tim

I think that masterbating in a relationship is okay as long as your partner is okay with it... don't let her controll you but be sure that she is okay with it and wont freak out about it or any thing like that. I have talked to my girl about this and she is fine with it as long as I don't look at porn.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Denise

I do not feel that masturbation is wrong. Excessive in a relationship-yes. My exboyfriend masturbated to porn on a daily basis in the bathroom. Our sex life went down hill or was nonexistant while he masturbated. He also recieved porn letters asking for money, motel trip offers,swinging, and loads of very sexually explicit pictures. The porn in his house is huge-videos, mags, letters, pics. He never hid the crap from his kids either. I beat myself up for 3 months wondering why I wasn't good enogh for him and finally relized he has a porn addiction, doesn't want to change, and I can do better. If your partner doesn't want you-move on. Porn addiction is a very real and hard habit to break. Why stay and be hurt by a selfish person?

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TITLE: Anonymous

i feel masterbating is healthy for your marraige. my wife and I been married 20 years, her sex drive is not strong. she encourages me to masterbate as much as I like to as long as I dont mind doing it she wants me to mastertbate as often as I like. which is aBOUT 4 TO 5 TIMES A DAY.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Mike

My wife and I both masturbated as teens, and into our marriage. I remember several times waking up with her shaking the bed getting herself off with multiple orgasms. Very erotic. She's quit masturbating altogether now, and her sex drive is very, very low. So, I masturbate 2-3 times a week. She knows about this, and has no problem with it. We are working on getting back to mutual masturbation to spice things up. I hope it works. It is very erotic to watch a woman pleasure herself.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Old shelf stacker

I masturbate at least 10 times a day, I am 62 and have a 19 year old girlfriend. I dont jack off as much when shes in Newcastle but when shes in London I might jack off 10 to 15 times a day. I dont like the idea of her masturbating though and she doesnt.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: destiny

I feel it is ok if it doesn't get in the way of your relationship. But when you lie and hide porn to masturbate instead of being turned on by your partner there is a problem. And when this causes problems and you talk about it and your partner says he will never look at porn again and you catch him in lies it is time to move on.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: rick

I began masterbating at 12 and have done so every day since. I'm married and my wife will assistme on occasion in Jacking me off. It has always been a great turn on for me to see other men erect and masterbating in the steam room at the gym. To be free to touch and assist is always a turn on.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Hiram

I feel frustrated when I feel compelled to masturbate while in a relationship, as it means we are not engaging in sexual activity with the frequency I need. I'm quite happy for my partner to masturbate, and encourage her to do so (especially if I get to watch!). I will typically masturbate while travelling away from my partner, or while she is ill or otherwise unable/ unwilling to assist me to achieve orgasm. Also, sometimes after really great sex or a very exciting sexual encounter I will masturbate.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jake

Masturbation is a healthy expression of sexual desire no matter whether in or out of a sexual relation ship. I've masturbated since I was 14 and found out how good it felt. Although it's been sometime now, when my wife was pregnant and passed the time of safe intercourse, she used to watch me and sometimes even helped me.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: foreskin

I mastubate two times a week. I am married to a fantastic wife. She knows I masturbate and has watched me on many occassions. I have been writing my wife nasty secret letters that she finds very arousing. After she read the fourth letter, she said that it was turning her on big time. One night she was buck naked in bed waiting for me to get the kids in bed. I got to bed and got to playing around with her nipples and the fireworks began. I was rock hard and rubbing my unit on her leg, she slid her hand down her chest, over her tummy and began to rub her clit. She has always just rubbed her mound or clit, but this time she was beyond the normal and finger herself to a nice orgasm. It totally turned me on watching her pleasure herself. I think it fine to masturbate, as long as it ok with both partners. I often think and it gets me going that my wife gets herself off while I am not home.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bernard

I love masterbating, I have only done it in front of my girlfriend a couple of times. I have started doing it in front of a few other people in my life, but I always end up in their mouth which is where I really wanted to be all along.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: proud wanker

I am 25 and am in a serious long term relationship with my girlfriend and have masturbated regularly throughout that relationship regardless of the very regular and satisfying sex life we share. We would both consider ourselves very sexual people and both masturbate often - either in front of each other or alone (we don't live together). We are very open about it and both love discussing it - we even share porn for the purpose. As long as masturbation isn't so frequent that it gets in the way of your normal sexual activity of a partner, its not a problem. My girlfriend gets incredibly aroused watching me masturbate, and talking to me about it, and vice versa - so even though it is a solo act we both enjoy, we find ways to build it in to the pleasure we give each other.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: bravo9

Masturbation in a relationship secretly robs your partner. This took me awhile to figure out. Masturbation left me spent during high school and college which left me uninterested in sex. That is why I did not have that normal drive to chase pussy because I was always satisfied. This led me to not really need woman which caused me not to experience the normal first joys of a young life. I have caught up but I wonder if I really missed anything.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: KieranMarcus

I'm 52 and I now masturbate regularly, especially as I'm not in any relationship nor ever have been. But in my 30s I always felt guilty. Then something terrible happened. I joined a church that required me to be ruly born again". Fine. But the teaching was to take the bible literally in everything and this led to the teaching that masturbation was absolutely evil - of the devil. so I stopped masturbating to show my faith. My best mate at that time was similarly hooked. He lodged at my place. We'd talked about masturbating as a clinical subject. We both agreed it was sinful and wicked. He told me that before he was "born again" - God, how I hate that phrase now - he wanked off 2-3 times a day. He was a beautiful guy in his 20s - very fit and had had lots of girlfriends. He was also interested in cock - I knew that - I could read the signs but we never did anything. I didnt masturbate for 2 years. One day I heard this shout from the shower and I heard marcus. Then I went into the shower after him and he had left his semen there. He would do this regularly - as if he wanted me to clean up or may be he was trying to make a connection with me. Whatever. He's now very happily married. But I am angry at the disgraceful way religion corrupts perfectly natural habits. It's good to masturbate; it's essential to masturbate; and especially when you're not in a relationship. As the gay community (my people) often say - self sex is the safest sex. So my advice is: encourage masturbation. It's wonderful, natural and beautiful. Above all, boot into touch all this religious hocus pocus stuff about it. And by the way I'm still a christian, always have been all my life, but long gone is all that born again fundamentalist stuff that so, so often wrecks people's lives!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: MaxD

I have been married for many years, and have masterbated many more. I love masterbating, although I also love to have intercourse with my wife. In our early years of marriage, during menstrual cycle I was very shy to masterbate in bed with my wife, but it's a bit like growing up and becoming mature. Now I don't have a problem masterbating in bed with her when she is on. Sometimes its the only thing that keeps us men sane.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Henson

I am not sexually attracted to my wife and actually prefer masturbation while viewing porn to partner sex. I get a good variety of women to fantasize about off the internet. I like variety both in sex acts, looks, and race. Every day I can sit down and say to myself "who do I want to _____ today? A teen, fat black woman with big tits, little Asian honey who likes anal? Beautiful tall California girl? Sluts, vigins, kinky girls...they are all there. I like everything from regular missionary sex to watching girls puke while they get _____ from behind. It just depends on how I feel. You don't get any of this with a real person. I also don't have to worry about losing my erection, performing, not being able to ejaculate etc when I am masturbating alone. I just find partner sex understimulating. Most importantly there is none of the problems causes by interaction with another person.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: kitten

My husband likes to masturbate after having sex with me 'to finnished it off. We are in our 50s. I know he likes to do it every night and sometimes morning in bed without any sexual intercourse with me. Lately he does not get hard and refuses sex altogether. And this drives me insane. Thinking that he might be having an affair. The other day I was most upset to catch him masterbating which means he still gets hard and still have the desire, but not with me..... I nearly committed suicide and suspect that he is having it with other women. This might bring an end to our relationship altogether as it has been 10 months since we had sex.

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: JD

What a wonderful experience to have by yourself, or with someone special in your life. The big "O" is what's missing in most of our lives. In europe and sweden their tv commericals would have moral socity blowing up their tv's. Masturbation is a wonderful act and self experience. Men should not be scared to talk about it or share ideas and desires about it. Tennagers growing up should understand the freedom of sexual expression and the importance and responsibility that comes with it, not that sex is wrong and must wait until your married, who thought that one up? And by the way I don't need glasses mom

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jake the Snake

Since I am married, my wife & I enjoy mutual masturbation from time to time. Sometimes, she'll jack me off if she's not in the mood and I am. We've never really talked about how we feel about solo masturbation--she doesn't do it and I don't think she knows I do it once in awhile. It's just one of those things a guy has to do once in awhile for himself & doesn't need to be discussed.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Ode

Have been doing it since I can remember. 1st time was with a buddy who showed me his techniqes and helped me along. Now I frequent the practice and recently after 10 years of marriage started watching and helping my spouse as she treats herself.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Robertislooking2

I have been married over 30 years, and I still masturbate regularly. I enjoy the feeling of ejaculation and my wife is not always in the mood. So I masturbate and feel great.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Patrick

I thought when I was single that once in relationship I wouldn't masturbate any more nor watch porn movies since I would have reality. Intercourse would be enough and better. I also wondered if it wouldn't be morally wrong (taking pleasure without your wife). I have been in couple for 5 years (married since 3) My wife is the only girl I had sex with. I love to have sex with her, but she quickly satisfied with just1 or 2 intercourse maximum per week. It was not enough for me. So I began to masturbate. But one night she caught me ejaculating while watching a porn. She found that really disguting ( porn and mostly to see me ejaculating) and really got mad at me. I tried to explain her that I was not cheating on her and I have sexual needs. But for her, sex is linked with love, feelings, and masturbation has nothing to do with that. She can't understand that I like to watch porn movies and need masturbating. Since then I am very careful and only wank when she is not there. But after takling with her I began to understand her when she says I do something dirty. It is true that we, the men, have very basic needs that have nothing to do with love and feelings. I read many comments in this site and saw that most people think masturbation is not wrong. As I have already mentioned, I already wondered if masturbation could be morally wrong when in relationship. I now think so. Love is sharing and masturbation is just satisfying myself. Each time I wank I know I do something wrong and dirty but I can't help masturbating. It is stronger than me. I have more sexual needs than my wife. As some men wrote here, masturbation helps to wait when your wife is not in the mood for sex. It is not a good reason but it is the only one that I can give to justify me.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: steve

ok I am 30 years old and started masturbating in my early teens. It is only in the past few months that I have been open with my wife about this. Our sex life has not been so good since we had our second child. I never want to put any pressure on my wife for sex so sometimes find myself masturbating to porn on the_____ when she is not around. I recently told her and asked her if she masturbates also. She said yes maybe one or two times a month. I suspect it is more. I would love to walk in on her and told her. The though drives me wild. We now enjoy masturbating together before and during and sometime safter full on sex. She know I still like a good hand jobon my own and I know she does also. The thought of her doing this is a very big turn on. Our sex life together is gettingbetter now we are open about masturbation. I thinkthat as long as your not playing withyourself thinking of other women or men then it is fine. I only use the porn to get me hard then close my eyes and think of times my wife and I have sex. In short masturbation is a relationship saver if oneof you has a high sex drive and the other does not. Just be open and honest.

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TITLE: Anonymous

I love to masterbate.I think its the best thing in the world.It doesnt matter to me if someone helps or not as long as it gets done.some people prefer to do it by them selves.Thtas ok I guess but, to tell u guys the truth id rather have complete sex.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tim

I'm married and we usually have sex three times per week. However I need to cum almost every day so I have to jerk off or my wife will give me a blow job or sometimes she gives me a hand job. Some times she likes to cuddle with me while I jerk off and sometimes I jerk off when I'm by myself.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Gryfon

I'm married and I've no problem with masturbating, and in fact I do it at least a couple of times a week, my wife seems to have little or no interest in sex, and frankly I've little interest in sex with her. We've been married for about 2 1/2 years and it's coming up on a full year since we've had sex with each other. I don't know, or care if she masturbates.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: MikeyMike

My wife of ten years and I both masterbate. We do so together, and apart. I love to watch my wife with one vibrator in her ass, and a smaller one on her clit. She likes to watch me, too. Frequently I will rub off on her tits and face as she does this. Sometimes she will have me get on all fours and jerk me off like a dog while gently rubbing my ass(never penitrating though, I don't like that). I guess what I'm saying is that masturbation is very easily integrated into your sexual routine. I also like to lie face down on the bed, as my wife pushes my pelvis into the bed. This sometimes takes place as part of a massage. As a man, I find that when I wake up with wood I sometimes like to rub it off right away and quickly. I don't want to wait or take to time to envolve my wife. She understands this. If you are able to communicate in your marriage or relationship, masturbation will likely not be an issue. If you feel that you would like to envolve masturbation in your sex, then I would highly encourage you to "just do it"... With the lights on. Do it without shame, like you are proud. Soon you will be proud. It is sexy to watch someone wank. When I first introduced masterbation into our sexuality, I dropped my drawers, and climbed on the couch where my wife was sitting while talking on the phone. , kneeling as I stradled my wife's knees. I unbuttoned her shirt, and despite her blushing and flustered tone in the phone, I just kept up my stroking like a man possessed, until I came on her tits. I made sure to make eye contact with her as I did this, and made shure she was watching my action. It turned her on so much, that we had crazy sex for days afterward.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Thunder

I am 57 years old, and have masterbated since I was introduced to it by my cousin when we were about 14. I have been married for many years, and am with a new partner since my wife passed away last year. We have a great sexual relationship, and our bedroom games now include mutual masterbation, usually before intercourse. I generally start by massaging her clitoris and bring her to an orgasm, and she returns the favor by toying with my penis until just short of loosing my load. When we have intercourse, the climax is astounding, and many times, we climax together.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dan

I am 36, have been married for 6 years and have masturbated as long as I can remember (5 or so). My wife and I speak of our sexual habbits (alone) often. We understand each other's desire to "go solo" when desired and have absolutely no problem with it. We also masturbate together when intercourse is not necessarily desired (menstral cycle for example).

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Slate

I for one could never give masterbation up! My current partner masterbates with me. I love to watch her getting herself off it's such a turn on. She loves and watches in fascination as I stroke my cock, and usually gets so turned on when i cum that she licks my newly spent load from my body. Sometimes we do it together. Sometimes alone. We both talk freely about it and enjoy it. If you can talk about masterbation so openly and freely with your partner, you can talk about anything. Our fantasies run wild, and were making em happen.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: faceache

All for masturbation at any time. I like my wife to send memessagesif sheis playing with herself. Helps the day go by you know!!

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: lou

I think a lot of men masturbate because they don't want to ask their wife for what they think is too kinky. I have an open-minded wife and she'll go along with a lot, but there are fantasies I have that I don't think I can share with her. That's where porn and masturbation come in to play. I think it's ok to masturbate even if you are married. My wife knows I masturbate all the time and that doesn't bother her. Most of the time she is asleep or semi asleep in the same bed when I do it.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: EWWWWWW

YOU GUYS ARE SICK!!! WHY DON'T YOU AND MICHAL J. GET IN ON IN THE CLOSET??POINTING OUT TO JOHNEY!! _____ YOU DAUGHTER NOT YOU HAND JACK OFFS

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bill

My present partner and I have been together for 27 years, and masturbation is part of our sex life - we either masturbate side by side or masturbate each other. We make love five or six times a week, and we often begin by masturbating together. If I masturbate and then wait a few minutes, my next erection is always rock-hard and lasts for ages during which time my partner has lots of orgasms. Eventually I will come inside her. Sometimes I get another erection soon afterwards and then I masturbate again. A typical lovemaking session lasts between 60 and 90 minutes. (We often hear our neighbours making love at the same time, which is a real turn on!) I usually masturbate alone twice a day - my partner knows about this additional masturbation, and she also admits to masturbating alone several times a day. It seems odd for couples to banish masturbation from their lovemaking routine - masturbation is complementary to intercourse, and is certainly not a mere poor relation!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Moustache Rhyde

Personaly i dont think there is any problem with masterbateing while in a relationship.I do it almost every day.I guess i feel this way because i have read not masterbateing can cause problems.So unless you gf is doing it for you i say go for it buddy!!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Harbatkin

I am divorce. But I often masturbated while I was married. I told my why while we were dating that I did. I think she expected that I would stop once we were married. The first year or so of our marrage I did it in private. But one afternoon. I was horny. She wasn't. I went to the bedroom, took off my clothes, laid down and masturbated. I left the door open hoping she'd walk in. She did. She was shocked at first, but I didn't stop. She watched as I ejaculated. Afterward we talked and she admitted to me that she also masturbated when she was home alone. So we were both okay with it and often masturbated together after that.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Nicole

I think masturbation is normal, my boyfriend and I will masturbate eachother, and we actually find it quite stimulating, often talking dirty to one another, I love when he masturbates because I know he's thinking about me, or me w/another girl, and that's a turn on for me. I love masturbating, I think of him, (sometimes w/another girl as well!)and I get some pretty powerful orgasms....I don't think a long term relationship would last too god awful long w/out any kind of masturbation. (Ha Ha)

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: happywife

I believe my sex life, with my husband, is better now that we feel free to masterbate in front of one another. I love to watch him beat off and fantasize about "catching him in the act". My husband often buys me dildos and vibrators for gifts, and loves to watch me with my presents. We have been married for 11 years and it only gets better and better. One thing I love to do is use my dildo and just as I am about to have an orgazism...call him at work so he can here me "come".

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Chris

my boyfriend and i masturbate together and seperately. he use to be bothered by the fact that i enjoy pornos (straight and gay). he felt that it was ok to watch them when single, but he was not ok with it when in a relationship. he has started watching pornos within the past 6 months and is fine with it now. i have tried catching him a few times, but was unsuccessful. finally, i caught him in the act this morning and it was great! it was hot watching him without him knowing and then joining in later.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bud

I do masturbate and have been narried 27yrs I do not care if she wisshs to masturbate people should be free in a relationship

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Abbs

Watching a man masturbate is one of the biggest turn-ons for me. Having him sit astride me and jack off is a favorite thing. I will masturbate for a man if he will jerk off while watching me. Watching a man masturbate in the shower... his penis all soapy .... especially if I can peek while he doesn't know I'm watching because he is more 'free' when he is pleasuring himself... it's a shame I'm at work while I'm writing this. It's quite a turn on just thinking of it. Men are so much free about their bodies. I've been on-line for many years now and can't count the number of dick-pics I've received.... most unsolicited. Maybe there are women like that, too... but men seem to do it more often. And I believe they are very turned on by the thought of a woman seeing their male organ. I'm not offended by it. I know my husband used to enjoy almost being 'seen'.... I liked for him to walk around nude.... maybe just a peek of the curtains open... and if he came in the kitchen, I'd grab the oil and jerk him off right there in front of the window. He really couldn't be seen.... there were sheer curtains... but often he could see neighbor women outside... and I think just seeing them... maybe imagining that they could see him and what I was doing to him, but not really wanting them to... that was a terrific turn-on for him.... and for me as well. I never would have shared my husband with anyone and we were completely monogamous, but this was just private for us. A couple of times, we stayed all night at friend's houses. We'd often be on the sofa bed... maybe a night light was left on in the bathroom as a courtesy... and sometimes our host's door was open. I often woke him up, uncovered him.... and stroked him in that faint light.... Did our host see him? Probably not.... but maybe it was just the excitement of "possibly"? And it was a big turn on for me as well. I know his pleasure required a pillow stuffed over his face!! I miss that so very much. I've been a widow for a few years now. I've had no physical relationship whatsoever. I masturbate about our memories... and sometimes "dick-pics". I'm not perverted. I'm a college educated, professional business executive... with a little of a wild side? Hopefully we all have that.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Eric

I Think that masturbation while in a relationship is perfectly normal and healthy. I am 22 and have a very high sex drive at the moment, and sometimes my girlfriend is not available. I have been masturbating for 13 years and have spent a lot of time experimenting and learning about my body, I know there is still a lot more to learn, so why give all of the knowldge and pleasure up just for a relationship. My girlfriend does masturbate in front of me, we have mutual masturbation sessions almost every day, it makes for great foreplay as well. I think that it is the ultimate display of trust if your partner can masturbate in front you. When I get married I will continue masturbating by myself and with my wife.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Frank

Our parish priest taught me how to masturbate and I became hooked on it and prefer it to intercourse but, being married, I have intercourse with my wife. We sometimes watch each other jerk off or masturbate each other. I like the control of my build-up and orgasm in masturbation but I also like the feel of someone else's hand on my cock. My wife's favourite way of cumming is with me sitting in bed against the head board, her between my legs with her back against my chest, me working hard on her nipples while she uses her vibrator on her pussy. As she gets closer to orgasm, she asks me to tweek, pinch and pull her nipples harder. When she has finished, she lays down, I kneel astride her and play with myself while she strokes under my balls and, as I get close, she pushes a finger into my arse and I squirt my cum over her face. We both have more intense orgasms like that than we do having intercourse.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Interested

I have masturbated for many years in ever-increasing amounts, and now that I am retired I do it virtually all my private time. My wife watches a lot of the time, but seldom masturbates herself, though I have encouraged to do so. Her thing is being dominated, and she says she gets much more pleasure from me telling her to suck my penis or open her legs because I want to eat her pussy. She also enjoys being masturbated by me. If I tell her to masturbate she will do it, but says she does not feel much. She also masturbates me, either on her own violation or if I ask her to. She says what she finds most sexy about my masturbating is when I am fully dressed and take out my penis and masturbate.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dickie

I rarely masturbate these days because I'm in a relationship with a man and sex is readily available, with him and our friends. He enjoys it and when we are not together will ejaculate during the week. This causes a problem for us when we do get together on weekends. He cannot perform as well as when he has saved it. He is the top. I, on the other hand, need his cock to be good and hard and love it when he can complete the sex act and we can cum together during intercourse. When he cannot complete, due to having wanked it earlier, I don't enjoy it as much. I never say anything because I think he has the right to his own body and I want him to be happy. I accept it that way. As with women, that is a different story. My female partners have usually put some limits on the frequency of sexual contact. I would often need to masturbate to keep from bugging them every night. Oddly enough the sex was better when I had relieved the urge. I was able to delay my ejaculations and she was happier with that. If I was too needy, I came too quickly. So it did serve a purpose.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: peter

I do it all the time, usually after we have gone at it well the night efore, so that it does not interfere with a possible soon to be liason with my girl. i love to masturbate. love it

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: master bates

I think it's great! I take out my penis and masturbate whenever I can. Unfortuately, my partner does not masturbate as much as me. But when she does it it a defenite turn-on and makes my own better. If she did not do it at all, I would do it myself.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dirk

I love stroking myself with girlfriends. Some women get really turned on by it and that is just great. The first time I did this my girlfriend at the time was giving me a blowjob. I was so horny I reached down and stroked myself while she sucked on me. We got the rhythm right and my hand was against her lips as we both went up and down together. The next time we tried this I couldn't take it and just got up and jerked myself and came all over her tits. Since then I have stroked myself off with many women. Some times while screwing, I will pull out and do the classic porno cum shot on tits, stomachs, thighs, asses... and many women really like it. Other times I will be horny, but the girlfriend tired, so I will ask if I can "take care of myself." 9 times out of 10, with the right woman, this will lead to a nice blow job or more with a woman who gets turned on by a guy stroking his cock. Here is one little trick. It seems way too sneaky, but it worked for me many times. Say you are with a new woman and you are spending your first night together, but she is not ready for sex yet. Maybe not even a hand job. Here is what I do. "Honey, I respect what you are asking. I completely understand. However, I am so attracted to you, I just can't stand it. I was thinking, oh, I hope you don't think this is weird, but I was thinking we could do something intimate, but not anything you would not be comfortable with." This gets her attention. "Well, um, I was thinking we could keep kissing/making out like we are (I like kissing you so much), but maybe while we did this I could touch myself. Would that be okay?" Most likely she will say yes. Then I start stroking myself, but under the covers (got to build up her interest). After a while, when I am really hard, I pull off the covers and then very slowly touch myself. Mind you, no massive stroking yet! Soon you wil notice she is taking many looks to see what is up down there. I might follow this with, "Oh, I liked it when you sucked my nipples." Now you have her a little lower and you can now and then brush your cock against her waste or (better yet) her tit. I did just this scenario with a woman who told me 25 times she was not ready for sex with me and before I knew it, she moaned, "I want to suck on you." When that started I said, "Honey, I want to do something for you too." That led to 69 and before you knew it we were screwing like wild dogs all over the house. She was absolutely out of control and when we were screwing she kept saying, "Tell me when you are going to cum, please tell me, I want you to cum in my mouth." Of course I oblidged. Let me tell you, it sure beats begging for it.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dirk

Oh, one more thing. I have also had a few girlfriends who like to masterbate for me too. The best are woman who used my cock to rub their clits. One woman I was with did this while we were laying on our sides facing each other. I blew a massive load all over her and then went down on her. She went nuts with that. I had another girlfriend who would have us each get eachother off until we couldn't stand it anymore and then have sex.

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GENDER:
TITLE: Anonymous

I masturbatr regularly to pictures of women in the Sun and Daily Star. I stack shelves all night and my 19 year old gf is in London while I live in Newcastle. I eat too many pies and Im overweight but I love masturbating over Cheryl Tweedy and imagine _____ her pussy and sucking her tits. I wank constantly.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Gray

I need to give my self pleasure as well as my wife. I masturbate a couple times a week by my self and many times with my wife. We both enjoy. I think masturbation in a relation ship is necessary for both male and female.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Ken

I honestly wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman who had a problem with masturbation. I've been in a relationship with a woman who didn't masturbate, but she had no problem with me doing it; I've also found that a relationship with a woman who is enthusiastic about masturbation (both for herself and for me) is the real way to go. A person's feelings about masturbation are a good key to how they feel about their sexuality in general, and a masturbation-positive person is more likely to be an enthusiastic and creative lover.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tim

i have always loved jacking off and have done it alot since i was about 12. I am 53 now and have been married for 27 years. i still jack off alot. my wife has never caught me but i have jacked off when we were having sex and loved to have her watch me. it's such a turn on for me to see her eyes fastened to my cock. soemtimes while we're having sex i kneel over her and ask her to jack me off. i love this and she does to. it's so wild to see how excited she gets when she sees me cum all over her.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: the big question

what is mastubateing and how do i do it!!!!!!!!!!!!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Mark

I must admit, after 35 years of marriage is still masterbate a lot, perhaps up to 10 times a week. I don't concider myself gay or bi-sexual but I enjoy going to adult movies and allowing men to jack me off. My wife enjoys watching me masterbate and it is a routine part of our fourplay. I have made two home videos of my wife masterbating herself by hand and using as many objects as she could think of. The interesting thing about my wife masterbating in front of me or in front of a camera, she can squit a ton and it is not urine, not sure just what it is but its real. When I masterbate her she never squirts and has never ever come close. I love masterbating and will continue as long as I can.

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Male
TITLE: aaron

I love to mastubateing i do it 5 to 10 times a day i like to use wet in it feel so good it stater a the age of 15 year ago one day a dad brouth be a pron in some wet in me in him use to jack off into my mom get off from work?

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I think my wife masturbates with her sonicare toothbrush. Often I will find her panties in the laundry, and the crotch has impressions from where she rubbed the outside by her clit. She is so hot it drives me crazy to think of her rubbing her pussy, but I love to jack off to Internet porn and blow huge loads on my own face. i wonder if her orgasms are as intense. She swears she does not masturbate, but she must be lying. Her silk panties usually have the "rub marks" in the usual place. how can I catch her? If I could watch her while she didn't know, I'd probably cum so hard I'd pass out. I want to introduce her to the sonicare, but I suspect she knows about it. If not, do I want to tell her about it? She is such a hot wife. In all honesty, I jerk off to thoughts of HER more than anything. Usually her doing something totally wrong, like sucking her therapists cock, or jerking off some guy who might sit next to us in a movie theater. is all this wrong? i'm making myself want to cum.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: builder

I'm 23 years older than my 32 year old wife, and I masturbate four times a day. Once to page 3 in the Sun, once over my wife, once over porn and once over the receptionist. I jacked off over Cheryl Tweedy and I still want to _____ Girls Aloud. I'm _____ my 18-year-old receptionist now but am trying to stop as my wife is pregnant.

SEXUALITY:
GENDER:
TITLE: lorry driver

I am a 61 year old lorry driver and I am away from my beautiful 28-year-old wife often. I jack off to the Sun and also like to wank outside a bar where gorgeous barmaids are. I relieve myself to porn mags often in order to cure my sexual frustrations. I _____ my wife regularly and recently I _____ her 20 year old sister.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lorry driver

Help I can't stop masturbating and I can't stop _____ my wife's sister Chloe. I have photos of her with her tits out as I travel across Europe. I also indulge in dogging with my wife.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Texas wife

My husband and I are 33 yrs old, have two kids, and have been married for 5 yrs. He masturbates quite often, and I rarely, but we have a fantastic sex life that includes plenty of mutual masturbation. I'm thrilled that he takes care of himself when I'm too tired! With 2 small children, I'm really not able to find the energy to engage in sex with him as much as we did pre-kids. I love to watch him masturbating, and he loves to perform for me, so I guess we're a good match. It feels great that we have such an open sex life; I don't think I could be married to someone who wasn't open about masturbation.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Boner

I love it when my girlfriend, we are both 20, catches me masterbating. When she catches me, she usually ties me down and finishes it off, and likewise when I catch her. I love it when she does that. I think masterbation in a relationship, especially mutual masterbation, is important because it is a fun activity.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: baron

I've never been married so I'm perhaps not the right person to answer that question. In the relationships I have had masturbation has always played a role. I/We have enjoyed masturbating each other and just watching to other person do it. I think it's healthy and as long as its not an escape from one's partner I think it's fine.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: real

I think mastubation in relationships is healthy in relationships. It allows for the person to better understand themselves and what it takes to reach orgasm. It also helps their partners during mutual masturbation to see how their partner masturbates giving them a better idea or what it takes to pleasure that partner. I Love the idea of my partner masturbating as long as the relationship is loving and it doesn't interfere with the sexual relationship, I believe it is healthy. Yes, I currently masturbate in my 13 year relationship. I don't do it because I am not happy sexually but more for enjoyment when she is not around to please me. She is aware that I do this and is comfortable with it as well.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: JOE

ME AND MY WIFE MASTRUBATE EACH OTHER OFTEN AND OURSELVES WHILE WATCHING TEH OTHER THE BEST EXP EVER WAS WHEN MY BEST BUD AND I WERE TALKING ABOUT SEX AND MASTRUBATING WHEN MY WIFE JOINED THE CONVERSATION AT THE END WE ALL STARTED DESCUSSING GROUP MASTRUBATION WITH THE LIGHTS OFF WELL NOUGH SAID . AT THE END OF THE NIGHT WE ENDED UP ME AND MY BEST BUD BOTH BEING JACKED OFF BY MY WIFE AT THE SAME TIME WHILE I THEN WAS PLAYING WITH HER CLIT WHEN WE CAME WE BOTH CAME ALL OVER HER AND JUST THEN SHE CAME TO IT WAS AWESOME WOW! VERY SEXY . I LONGE DTO DO IT AGAIN FOR A LONG TIME AND THEN TEH OTHER NIGHT WE DISCUSSED IT FOR THE FIRST TIME WHILE WE WERE ALL THREE OF US TOGETHER AGAIN AND SUPRISINGLY BOTH AGREED SO ME AND MY BEST BUD LAYED DOWN ON OUR BACKS WITH ALL OUR CLOTHES STRIPPED OFF MY WIFE STRIPPED ASWELL AND LAYED IN BETWEEN US WE THEN EACH STARTED JACKING OF OURSELVES ME AND MY BUD WHILE EACH HOLDING ONE OF HER BREASTS IN ONE HAND WE TEASED OURSELVES A WHILE AND THEN MADE SURE THAT WE ALL CAME EXACTLY AT THE SAME TIME EVEN MORE AWESOME THAN THE FIRST TIME WOW !!!!!!! WEVE DISCIDED NOT TO DO IT AGAIN BUT DAMND I REALY WANT TO

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER:
TITLE: horny83 I like masteerbating whenever

I like masterbating whenever im hhard . also i think husband and wife should do it together as it is more exciting i do both during the week

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Sexymale

I love masterbating it feels so good to cum and the feeling my penis has as I am doing it.I only masterbate by myself if I had a boy friend we do each other.I couldn't masterbate myself that is not as much pleasure or fun unless you masterbateing your boy friend.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Darkjedi

Masturbation in or out of a relationship is perfectly normal and healthy. The problem would be the opposite...fear, anxiety, or disdain for masturbation which would probably imply something that took place in the past to cause this emmotion over a perfectly normal activity. A relationship does not end ones desire to be sexually active in a more private way, or find release when a partner is unavailable. Normally...this activty finds its wat into the relationship to be shared and enjoyed by both. I know the first time I did it with my wife it was a real turn on. I also have jerked-off in the presents of complete strangers an even bigger turn on. My favorite...being jerked-off by your partner in a public place....discreetly but yet risky. Shot a load one time that went ten feet in front of me. We are sexual beings....enjoy theat which you have....do not make your life miserable by supressing urges that are healthy and safe.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: rocks

I love masturbating solo; my wife loves me doing it in front of her and she loves doing it to me as she finds that she can dominate me that way.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tim

I've been married for ten years and I still masturbate almost every day. My wife hates masturbation, refuses to touch herself, and thinks I'm perverted for playing with myself when she catches me. I wish we could incorporate masturbation into our sex lives. I fantasize about performing for her and having her take pictures and video of me doing it. I take pictures of myself masturbating all the time and have videotaped myself too. My wife would freak out if she knew because she is so convinced that masturbation is dirty and perverted.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Lost in NYC

Masturbating is the best toy a man can have. Only he can handle his shaft that would make the earth move under his feet. I still masturbate at everytime I have a chance. My wife does it as I am in from the backside. Get wacking.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Briann

Me and my boyfriend bein dating for 2 years everything in the sex life was going great in till we movied in together all he seems to want to do is to masterbate all the time to the porn on the_____ and never seems to want have sex if im lucky i get it once a week i want to know if it normal or what to to do causse a sister got needs

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: EVO

i think masturbation is healty i mastubate 2 times a day with my 9in tool ialso dirnkthe cum it GOOD!!!

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Male

I am only 14 and still a virgin, so ive masturbated through all of my relationships. I see no problem with it; its healthy and normal, even in a long term one

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Super7

Mastrubation is a way to discover your body and there is no shame to mastrubate. I am married and we sometimes mastrubate together as well as each other and it does help to discover the other body and how they like to touch themselves and be touched. It is a healthy part of a sexual relationship to me and even doing it alone will not harm anybody.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: M

I am 17 years old (male), and I love to masturbate. I started when I was 12, and I did it with a friend. Now I am masturbating 2-3 times per day. I think it is the best thing to do it with a close friend or partner; completely natural. I love to masturbate any way I can, and that is that.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: GunshySlycat1

If she's not putting out then I'll masturbate.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: willy

I have many times masturbated while my wife was in bed beside me. It is more exciting with her there than with out her. i like it when i have had her hand around my balls or close to my member. I have mentioned to her many times if she likes me to do it or not and she doesnt have any problems with it. She says its my body and i can do what ever i want with it. See dosent like to masturbate in front of me, but has on some occasions. I wish see would masturbate more as i think is a healthly part of sex.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: reddog35

I masterbate at least one time per day. My wife does not mind. She will actually help sometimes. I feel that it is a perfectly normal activity.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Scott

I think that masturbation in a relationship is great! We both are aware that each other masturbate and I encourage her to touch herself more often so that our sex life is enhanced. No way is it going to take away from the real thing. It is going to keep her aroused for more great sex! I am a good looking 46yr old man who eats right, works out, and masturbates as part of a healthy lifestyle. We have been married 23yrs and told her back then before we married that I masturbate. It took her longer to tell me she masturbated. It is really a turn on to know that my wife masturbates and I would love to catch her! During sex I feel that part of physical foreplay is masturbation and she does it for me every time,as I do for her (without ejaculation)

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: traveler

I don't remember what age I began to jerk off,but it was quite young. I have been married for over 25 years, and I freely jerk off lying in bed next to my wife. I travel a lot on business and I have joined a male jerk off club in one of the cities I go to frequently. We get together and jerk each other off, or just watch others and do ourselves. I am not embarressed by masturbating in front of others, and could not stop if I wanted to. The orgasm from jerking off is so much more intense than intercourse (usually). That is not to say that one should exclusively masturbate. I am grateful that my wife is not turned off by my jerking off in front of her and does not feel that it is a rejection of her in any way.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: flying solo

I think it is healthy to masturbate even when you are in a relationship. Self pleasuring ones self should be done often. -- i think we all need our own space and should practise maturbation either together or on our own. It often make love making so much more intimate. ---I have been in LTR for 13 years and I still masturbate regularly as I know and have seen my spouse do the same. I doesn't bother me at all.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Sam

I have masturbated since I was 11 and through two marriages. In my first marriage I masturbated alone, she did not to my knowledge masturbate and we had a very good sex life. My second marriage we both alone and together masturbate ourselves and each other and have a great sex life toegther. I am glad that my partner masturbates and I like watching her and her watching me. I am not sure I could every quit.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Jack in her box

I would love to participate in mutual masturbation - with either her watching and telling me what to do - and with me watching her. So that answers the second qustion - I wish I could watch her. I've been married for around 5 years now and probably jack off on average 5-6 times a week. I wish she would do it for me... or watch me... instead of having to wait for her to leave the house or wake up in the middle of the night to do it in the guest bathroom!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: S.Calif.

I think that masturbation is a natural response to our sexual desires. Masturbation should not be look down at any age or if one is married. I 43 and I masturbate twice a week and have sex the same amount. I think it would be great if me and my wife would do it together or we could watch each other. My wife does not like to masturbate in front of me I do not know if she does any more or how she would feel about it if she knew I felt this way.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: sam

Masturbating while in a relationship is good as long as it does not interfere with the ability to have sex with your partner. I think my partner should be able to masturbate while in a relationship also. There will be times when one of us is not in the mood or she is having a period when masturbation will fulfill a need. I do masturbate and am in a long term relationship

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jake

I feel that masturbation is completely normal whether one is in a relationship or not. As long as both partners satisfy each other, care and love each other, I don't believe there is a problem. I believe people who demand that their partners stop masturbating are control freaks and probably need to masturbate the most! My partner and I actually encourage each other to masturbate - alone or together it's just not an issue because we still have an active sex life. I have been with my partner for over 15 years and have always masturbated - I think sexual fantasies are natural.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tazz

If I didnt I'd be so stressed all the time. My wife doesnt like me doing it, but I know she does it. If the sex were more frequent I would not do it so much.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Nuoc mam

Since my first 'relationship' as a teen, which continued for 3 years, I've masturbated alone and with my partners. "Back in the day," my gf was not ready to go "all the way," but would masturbate me and I her. Since then, many of my partners enjoyed masturbation as a foreplay and sometimes as an alternative to straight sex. Ever since I watched my high school girlfriend masturbate for me, I've enjoyed watching my partners masturbate. My wife had a friend staying with us for a few months, and she and I would masturbate for each other when my wife was on late shifts. There was never any straight sex, but we did participate in mutual masturbate each other from time to time. I love to watch my wife masturbate either with her hand or one of her toys. I often come home, strip down and get some lube and masturbate to stories or pictures, not always to orgasm. It would sort of 'prime the pump' as my wife's friend would say when we would masturbate together.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Masturbator

I have been married 37 years. My wife and I have sex