How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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I am 21 years old and I have masturbated from a very young age. After I lost my virginity until today I still continue to masturbate and always will. By the way, I have been in a constant relationship for 3 years now with a girl that has the same affection for masturbation as I have. We think that it is a normal part of sexuality, and we enjoy this as a part of our sex life.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Jim

I am 61 years old and started masturbating when I was about 12 and do it at least twice a week now. I have been married for 30 years and was surprised at first to find myself still masturbating after marriage. The urge simply overpowers me at times and no matter how hard I try it happens. I have finally accepted it is something beyond my control and go with the urge. My wife caught me masturbating one night and we had a long talk. I explained it had nothing to do with not wanting her and the need for masturbation is completely different. I guess it is simply a part of being human and never stops.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Billy

I feel a person should not be guilty about masturbating in a marriage or relationship. One person may require more sex than the other. I have been in a few gay relationships and each time my partner and I masturbated both together and singly.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Frank

I don't think I was in a relationship at 17, but my girl friend would always jack me off after my baseball games to relax me. She loved to feel my 8 inch cock and see me spurt my cum. She used to jack me off everytime we could get together. She was the best jack off-er I ever knew. She was 18 and I told my dad about it because we lived together and she would jack him off also. All three of us were happy about it. She didn't want masturbation or sex as she was "saving" herself for marraige!, but she sure loved spurtin' cock.

SEXUALITY: Monosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: WildWanker

Masturbation will always fit. Relationship or not, a good wank will always have its place. For the single person, you can do it alone or find someone for a bit of casual, safe, almost risk-free' hands-on fun. When in a relationship the same applies although doing it with someone other than your partner might be a bit offside. Over the years I've had relationships that fully explored many and various sexual activities and I've had some that involved little more than mutual masturbation. And even during the midst of a solid relationship there has always been occasions where one of the other of us needed it and would masturbate without any second thoughts. Like those days when one is horny and the other is ill or tired or whatever. In fact it is mutual respect that allowed us to freely obtain sexual release without imposing one's horniness on the other (who was not in the mood at the time but sure seemed to make up for it later - hehe). All were good relationships with healthy amounts of love and trust and openness and honesty. The freedom to be free was terrific (not to mention how great the sex was whether together or solo - hehe).

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Moe

I feel it is perfectly alright and normal to masturbate when in a relationship. I welcome my partner's (wife's) masturbation and encourage her to do it both alone and in my presence. I masturbate a lot and have been married a long time.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: WOODY

I FEEL THAT IT IS NORMAL TO MASTURBATE WHETHER MARRIED OR NOT , I HAVE,AND STILL DO, MASTURBATE ABOUT THREE TIMES A WEEK. I WAS MARRIED FOR EIGHTEEN YEARS, DIVORCED FOR EIGHTEEN YEARS, AND REMARRIED NOW FOR ELEVEN YEARS, AM SIXTY SIX YEARS OLD. I HAVE ALWAYS MASTURBATED IN IN FRONT OF, AND WITH BOTH WIVES, AND A FEW GIRL FRIENDS. BOTH WIVES, AND GIRL FRIENDS, MASTURBATED, USED DILDOS AND VIBERATORS. I HAVE MASTERBATED WITH OTHER BOYS, WHEN I WAS ABOUT ELEVEN YEARS OLD. WE WOULD SEE HOW FAR WE COULD SQUIRT. ONE PRIVATE SESSION WITH A BOY WHO WAS FOURTEEN, LED TO GOING A LITTLE FARTHER WHEN I WAS TWEVE. WE WERE IN HIS TRAILOR HOME JACKING OFF, AND HE ASKED ME IF HE COULD PUT HIS PENIS INTO MY ASS. BEING CURIOUS, I SAID OK ,BUT BECAUSE HE WAS SO BIG,HE ONLY GOT THE HEAD OF IT IN, IT REALLY HURT SO HE PULLED IT OUT AND SHOT HIS LOAD ON MY HOLE. HE WAS STILL HORNY SO HE ASKED ME IF I WOULD DO HIS ASS. I DID SO AND WAS ABLE TO PENETRATE HIM AND CUM IN HIM, WHILE HE JACKED OFF. WE DID THIS A FEW TIMES, UNTIL WE BOTH BECAME MORE INTERESTED IN GIRLS. NOW BECAUSE OF MY AGE, AND A WIFE THAT IS TWENTY YEARS MY JUNIOR, AFTER I CUM IN HER, WE HAVE A VIBRATOR READY AND USING MY CUM FOR A LUBRICANT, SHE MASTERBATES HERSELF FOR ANOTHER TWO OR THREE ORGASMS, WHILE I KISS, SUCK HER BREASTS AND FONDLE HER. MOST OF THE TIME SHE WANTS TO SUCK ME UNTIL I GET HARD AGAIN. IT WORKS FOR US,

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tag

----Masturbation in a relationship is cool, unless the relationship is lacking something and therefore the reason for the masturbating. Sometimes a guy just wants a good wank. I'm sure most women feel the same about themselves whether they're in a relationship or not. I love to see a woman playing with herself, really getting into it. It's like you've been invited into a special place, that few get to witness. If she wants to watch me, well, why not? I'm not married, so I hope my future wife does't expect me to stop playing with myself. Hell, I've been doing it for over 30 years. Why stop now?

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bloom

I'm 52 and been married for 25 years and our sex life is very good . . .but that doesn't stop me wanting to do it on my own (usually a couple of times a week but if my wife's away I have 2 or 3 a day). Often she will ask me if I've been wanking whilst we've been apart but when I ask if she has too she always says 'no'. She never used to do it as often as me and in the last 10 years has stopped doing it all together when she's alone. This is a big disappointment to me because I used to love her to describe what she did to herself and what she was thinking about at the time. She knows I love to watch her and quite enjoys doing it for me but always wants me to enter her afterwards, even if she comes on her own first. My favourite is for her to do it standing up with her hand down her pants -- it drives me wild! When we were younger I would pretend to be asleep and hope she would have a wank -- just listening to her and feeling her move was wonderful! She used to try to be quiet and keep fairly still but in the end would always writhe and make muffled noises.

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