How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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I think masturbation in a relationship is just fine. One's partner is not always ready for sex, and masturbation is a helpful outlet -- better than getting into an affair! I would love it if my partner were to masturbate, especially when we're together. That would be a real turn-on. I definately would masturbate in a marriage, because one does not want to make too heavy demands on one's partner

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: babygirl

i think seeing your partner pleasure himself is so exciting.they know what they like and by watching them you can learn alot.and to share something so intense.he will stand over me while we both masterbate then before we climax he sticks it in and it last for hours.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: hallove

LOVE TO MASTERBATE IN FRONT AND WITH OTHERS IF I GET LUCKY. THINK I ENJOY WITH ANOTHER GUY MOST AND SEE WHO CAN LAST LONGEST. THIS STARTED YEARS AGO WHEN I WAS A KID. THE KID NEXT DOOR CAME OVER AND IN TIME WE GOT NUDE TOGETHER AND PLAYED WITH EACH OTHERS MEMBER TILL WE DID CUM. THEN IT BECAME A GAME WHO COULD LAST LONGEST.STILL LOVE TO SHOW OFF.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: skip

i am 57 yr old male married for 31 years, ;have jacked off constantly since I was 10, my wife knows I jack off and she likes to watch it, she had never seen a man jack off before and the first time she caught me jacking off in bed when she came back from the shower I think she was pretty; surprised, I ask her if she wanted me in her, she said no go ahead I want to see what happens, when I squirted cum 18 nches in the air she laughed and said thats pretty cool. she jacks me off every week or so and she watches me 3 or 4 times a week

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: TBOSS

I feel that masterbation in a relationship is normal as long as you continue to have a healthy sexual relationship with your partner. As long as my man is giving me what I need I wouldn't have a problem with it. To choose masterbation over your partner is wrong and a problem. If we make it to marriage I believe I would still masterbate and know that he would, but again, it is only going to work if you have a healthy loving and passionate relationship.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: rick

I enjoy masturbating since I was 7 years old, I'm 45 now and still masturbating is as great as having a woman, some times I like my wife watching me when doing it. She doesn' like to masturbate, at least in front of me, it will really turn me on. Recently I saw her sister masturbating, she never saw me. I start masturbating watching her, I had a great orgasm. Until today I picture that memory in my mind any time I masturbate and is just great. I never think of having sex with her but watching her masturbating and cumming

SEXUALITY: Metrosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Nehorachi

I used to never get off, but ever since I started playing with my anus.. masturbation has really gotten wild! My wife role plays with me as well. At first, she didnt like that kind of stuff.. but then, she really joined in and I think its helped hte marriage a lot. My wife's sister sometimes joines in too.. if you ask me, I think its great.. because we can all keep it in the family, know what I mean? Its better like this, than with a stranger.. you can never strust a stranger, but you can ALWAYS trust your family.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: mister

I have been masturbating since I was about 13,I am now 46 and barely a day goes by when I dont masturbate. I have regular sex with my partner but still like to masturbate whenever I get an erection and my partner is not available. After regular masturbating I can honestly say it has done me no harm, I can still get a good erection wheather for intercourse or masterbation,my partner has no problem with masterbation and reguarly indulges herself,this I find a real turn on.I think masturbation has a place in a relationship especially if one partner does not need as much sex as the other

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Kevin

I am 40 and have been masturbating since I was 10. I love to masturbate in front of my wife. She sometimes will pleasure her self as well. Thats when I really get off. My wife has never cared as long as I put my dong in her every now and then. She loves to watch me squirt and loves it when I squirt it on her. It's simply great for our marriage.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: gibber

I have jacked off in front of my wife. She said it really turned her on watching someone handle their tool so well. It can be a healthy part of a relationship if you let it. It can become a problem when a person would rather masturbate than have sex with their partner.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: JohnR

I don't see anything wrong in it, I am 65 and have been married for 35 of those years. I started masturbation when I was 13 or so and the highest was every day down to the the longest withont 30 days. I still masturbate about 2-3 times per week and have sex once a week I enjoy mastuerbation and will do it till I am dead.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Don

I think that mutual masturbation is great. I think that it draws to couple closer. I love watching my wife masturbate herself, I think it is such a turn on watching her. Yes, I've been married for over 15 years and I still masturbate by myself. I feel that it relieves the sexual tension when my wife is not with me, plus I still love to masurbate myself for the sheer pleasure.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: musicchef

I discovered masturbation at the early age of 4 and did it 3 to 6 times a day for many years. I didn't start to cum until my mid-teens, but it still felt just as good. I traveled with bands for many years and enjoyed sex with women often, but still had the urge to masturbate...even 15 or 20 minutes after sex with women. I was married for 11 years and lost my wife to cancer. She didn't like for me to masturbate and got upset when she would catch me doing it. I'm sorry she felt that way, but I wasn't going to stop...just try to be more careful not to get caught. I'm 49 now and in a good relationship with a wonderful woman, but I still masturbate about once a day (except days when we have sex together). She knows that I do this and joins me occasionally(like in the shower) . We like to masturbate each other in the bedroom and on live webcams with other people. She doesn't care much for masturbating herself in front of me but she enjoys taking care of me. I think it's a real turn-on to watch women masturbate themselves and I wish more women would get webcams and join the out-numbered guys on-line. It's a great and harmless way to relieve stress and sexual tension, it's more exciting to do it with others watching and/or joining in and it's completely safe!

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