How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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I enjoy masturbation, and occasionally my wife does as well. I have no problem with her doing so tho she prefers to do it while her and I are enjoyng sex as opposed to her masturbating in private. I masturbate often and think it's healthy in marriage.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Jamez

I have been married for 7 years. My wife is a flight attendant and spends the odd night away from home. I dont mind so much when she is away because I get to pull out my hidden porno movies and masturbate completely naked in our our house alone! I also on occasion go down the Adult theatre and masturbate with other guys watching porn on the big screen! I dont touch them but get off on watching and being watched. If I am really horny during the day I will masturbate in my office with the door shut or in the bathroom down the hall. I have even driven off to a fairly secluded road in the middle of the day justto masturbate!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: To beat or not to Beat

Well here's my point of view on this subject. I think it's ok to masturbate especially with your girlfriend. But it all comes down to if she approves. If she wants you to, then by all means, beat off! But if she doesn't then... just wait till the next time she wants to give you some. I don't understand some of the people on this site... How can they prefer masturbation over the real deal? you beating about it, why not just go get it? Well thats just my opinion.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: lib1nmne

I have loved masturbation since I discovered it at age 11 so really I just consider it a normal state of my sexuality. In the various relationships I've had over the years (including an 18yr marriage) it was never an issue of whether I wanted to continue masturbating, but rather would my partner approve, encourage or hopefully, join in. My preference is always to include masturbation, solo and mutual, in our sex. It's a wonderful means of continuing foreplay and even completing intercourse if one of us becomes so exhausted in the course of deep, animal passion. I believe anything that will help my partner achieve the maximum orgasm possible is what I should do for or with her. In most cases, she's been more than willing to reciprocate in desire for me.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: JBug

I would have no poblem masturbating in front of my boyfriend I want 2 try it because I think seeing him please hiself would really turn me on I know he does it and heknows I do it sowe should just incorperate into foreplay right?i just don't know how to bring up this sbject.we have a great sex life and I think tis would enhance it but I dont want him to think i'm weird

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: peeper

I always masturbate even when in a relationship. My girlfriend finds it a turn on to walk in on me in the bathroom in the shower when I am masturbating, because I am always thinking about her naked and being there anyway! One time she had a shower when we were on holidays together and she was being secretive and not interested in sex, I managed to peep through the keyhole into the bathroom and watch her for 4 or 5 minutes just having a shower with no screen in the way, just her under the water. I have never felt so naughty in all my life, but it was one of the best orgasms I have ever experienced because I got to see my girlfriend without her covering herself up like she normally tried to do... the water worked wonders too!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: singlebutwishing

Matrubation can be so satisfying, my boyfirend will jerk off when we are together and I will talk him through it,with fantisies etc.. saying things such as come on baby, think about me and another girl just licking you, cant you just imagine how good it would feel to have two tounges on you at once, both of us just loving every minuite of it, both of us kiising each other as we are watching you cum on our faces

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dean

Masturbation and sex are two different things. Many times the sex with my gal doesn't completely satisfy me and I jack off. Besides a guy's dick is his own and doesn't belong to anyone but him and no one can tell him what to do with it. The same goes for the gals.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Eve

I have have a boyfriend he is 17, when it comes to sex is great, I am always satisfied, until one day I found out he still masturbates watching porn. In my opinion I find it wrong that my boyfriend masturbates when he has me. I finded so wrong, but many people say masturbation is normal. My mind still doesnt understand, but for me I feel like when my boyfriend masturbates he looks at other women and I feel like if I am nothing for him.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: scott

I feel that masturbation in a relationship is a little uncalled for. At the same time, I could see the eroticism of masturbating with your partner. I would have no problem watching my lover getting herself off. I just don.t know how long I would be able to resist joining in. I don,t see the point in it so much unless to through some excitement into the fray. of course to each his own, I wouldn.t complain so long as I am not left completely out of the loop

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Actually Asexual/Nonsexual

I find the idea of masturbation disgusting. Not that I find /sex/ disgusting...merely unappealling, but masturbation just really really disgusts me. Why? Who knows. You might as well ask why I find sex unappealling when ninety-some-odd percent of the world is obsessed with it. If I had a boyfriend/husband, I would rather them not do it, because as I stated before, I find the very thought of it disgusting. Would I forbid them from doing it? Depends. I'm not likely to get into a relationship very soon, so I'm not at all worried about that answer.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Scott

Been masturbating since age 12 ( now 67 ). Married for 30 years and have enjoyed mutual masturbation as a change in activity to keep things exciting. Wife no longer able to have sex so she masurbates me at least weekly...I do it solo at least once more a week.The relief of tension is cathataric!!

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