How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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I was a 34 yr old iron worker. Tough and ready to go at any time. I was married for 15 yrs. We had a 14 yr od boy. One Sat. afternoon I was jacking off in our tool shed, and my boy came in. He was a bit surprised as I was. We talked a bit and he wanted to know why I was jacking off when I was married. I told him guys never loose the desire to feel their dicks and give themselves an orgasm. He said he understood and we mutually jacked off each other. We serviced each other when we were horny for a jack off many times for many years.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Glib

I "Jill" my wife about as often as I can. She wouldn't let me for a long time but I insisted. I can't get an erection most of the time. I can masturbate and get off in the shower but can get only about half hard. My wife would be glad to jack me but she just can't get anywhere with a wet noodle. It gives me a lot of satisfaction to get my wife off. She is 77 and I am 74. we have been married for nearly 49 years, and had great sex until my health got bad. The hot water in the shower helps me to get off. I generally can get off about once a week. She won't let me Jill her that often.

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Male
TITLE: straightyoungboy1

I have always masturbated and a relationship isnt gonna stop me from masturbating I mena its a thig youve gotta have even if youve had sex more than ten times it doesent matter we all still need it. To me sex and masturbation is two things you need in your life to survive because youve gotta have both its just apart of life.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: smallpaul

Masturbation (both doing it together, and to each other)can be an enjoyable and satisfying part of a relationship. I think you've got to do it when you feel the urge. I would feel the same about my partner

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: curious

I am 58.i still masturbate. my wife thinks it is dirty. I got her to watch me one time.she stood at the foot of the bed naked and watched.it was a great orgasm.but she wont do it again.now she just says go in the bathroom and do what you have to do.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: willycum

I think its OK to masturbate in a relationship as you dont always want sexual relief at the same time so why not enjoy it on your own when you want to? I dont mind my partner masturbating if she wants to - I would like to join in too!! I have been married over 30 yrs and I masturbate almost every day sometimes more often - best I can manage now I have reached 60 is 3 times in one day!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Able

I am 78 and I still masturbate. My Doc told me to jack off at least 3 times a week for prostate health. That's almost every other day which is too much for mme. So I do it 2 times a week. My wife passed away 3 yrs ago. I re-discovered masturbation and boy, am I glad! My son-law who is 45 and me sometimes have a mutual jack off. I enjoy that.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I have been married for fifteen years now. I have always masturbated and enjoyed it. A couple of years ago I started to masturbate in front of my wife. She told me to stop that, I said sex is about doing what feels good....and this feels great. Now we both masturbate together. It is usually what we do before intercourse. She loves wathing me and I love to watch her. We have become a better sex partners because we have watched each other and know what each other enjoys. Our sex life has truly improved. Our oral sex is so much more intense also. It is very exciting. If you do not do it with your spouse you are really missing something.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Tim

I masturbate whenever I feel horny. Many times my partner is not ready or in the mood for sex. My 18 yr old step-son caught me jackin' off in he shower and he wanted to know why, because I was married to his mom. I explained why. Later on when we would shower together after working out in our makeshift basement gym, we would mutually jack off each other. It was a great way to finish up our workout. He and his married buddies whould do the same thing.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: michaelovsky

I think masterbation is OK and I would love to catch my lover masterbating on her own. She masterbates herself with clitoral stimulation when we make love in the modified spoon position. I sometimes masterbate her when she didn't get there when I've cum, and sometimes I lick her to orgasm before or after I've cum in her. She sometime holds and squeeses my balls while I masterbate to help me cum when she is not horney. At other times I masterbate just for the fun of it. We have been married for many many years.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Josh

I feel that masterbation helps to enhance the sexual relationship. It is a real turn on to watch someone, and to be watched. Let's face it guys, most women can't orgasm during intercourse. So they need you to stimulate the little man in the canoe. I love watching my partner masterbate, usually my partner is looking at me while masterbating. If I am not around, there is nothing wrong with fantasizing. Of course I masterbate in a relationship. My husband does too.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Birddog

My relationship with my partner is so poor that if I didn't have masturbation as a outlet, I would probably go crazy. I would love to have wild sex with her every day, but that doesn't happen, so I stroke my little sweetheart in the shower, or massage him with my vibrator until he blows come everywhere. If my partner were aware of this, she would get mad but still she would not change her sexual habits or outlook.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: sandra

i am 20 and only started masturbating last year. I regularly do it twice every two weeks, so that is maybe once a week. I have become a little too dependent on my vibrator, I need to include it into my sex routine with other guys. I think it's weird that so many guys are jerking off with their dads. I had no idea. masturbation is good, I think couples jerking each other off are great. it's hot.

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