How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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I agree with mutual masterbation, if in a relationship. And by the way guys, my man says my jacking off him is way better than his own hand job. Which poses the question, why else do you men sometimes use your left hand for the job? Because you want the sensation of someone else getting you off! But, if in a relationship, and you solo masturbate, no matter what anyone thinks, you are taking away from your sexual partner's needs of satisfaction, you could be giving it up to them, instead of being selfish. Try empathy for a change.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

i have been masturbating since the age of 13, I do it 4-5 times a week, maybe more. I have been in a two year relationship but stioll masturbate im 21 years old and me and my girlfriend love to walk around our house in the nud. We both masturbate each other off before sex and its great but I would say i perfere a male masturbating as we now what we like. I have masturbated my best friend off and gave him head and enjoyed it but perfere a female any day. -----We did it, my friend and i, just by curosity. U shpuld try it if u get the chance, its good fun.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Will

I am married and masturbate almost every day. I don't see anything wrong with it, I have a much stronger drive than my wife, so I need to masturbate. I am sure she knows and doesn't care. Masturbation is very healthy.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Star

I love it when my husband strokes it. Especially when he thinks i'm sleeping. I'm wet just thinking about it.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: quick

I'm 59 and have masturbated once a day since I was 6. Wife and I masurbate mutually and I do it by myself frequently. I like to watch myself in the mirror as it's a turn on. Would like to experiment with mutual masturbation with another guy. Not gay, just want to have another erotic experience.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER:
TITLE: Danny

I like to masturbate, my girl likes to masturbate me, and she knows I do it alone.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: danny

I have masturbated since adolesence, love it, and have no problems with it. I masturbate as often as I can 4-6 times a week. Before marriage my wife was more than happy to masturbate me, and she enjoyed my orgasms as much as I did. More than 95% of all males have and do still masturbate. It is normal and a great replacement therapy as you get older. My wife masturbates, I masturbate, she masturbates me, I masturbate her, and we have sex on top of that. I understand the concept that some men and women may feel they are inadequate sexually and masturbate to cover up psychological issues. However, I believe that whatever accentuates your sexual identity, it's full speed ahead. However, should masturbation totally replace sex, then I believe it is time to seek a medical opinion. However, as a professional I am aware of couples who masturbate regularly and have no desire for physical sex. They are loving and productive, and I guess that's what works for them. Sex is a biological function, it should be experienced as much as possible, and a no holds barred attitude regarding masturbation will only help to maintain excellent sexual and biological functioning. Sex is great, any way.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: choco

When I got married I thought no more masterbating for me. I have a great sex life with my wife but sometimes I get a hard on when she is asleep or out and it seems such a waste I mean you might as well make the most of it while you can. She knows I masterbate and it don't bother her at all.Sometimes she will do it for me. I masterbate most days of the week and will continue to do so for as long as I can.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Peter

I masturbate daily. I learned to jack off from a friend when I was 12. Several of us would get together and jack off. Later my cousin and I would masturbate each other until we started dating girls.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: jimmy

I always felt guilty and wanted to quit masturbating because I thought it said something about my character...never could quit. Met this girl who was really really into me...1 year we dated and I never had the desire to masturbate because she always read my mind and was always enthusiastic and ready to go. Now I'm single again (she was from a different culture and is now in an arranged marriage) and it sucks. I think masturbation sucks. If you have a girlfriend/wife and you have to masturbate I think she is American and doesn't really give a god-damn about you. Now if she is watching and it makes her horny, that is hot, but doesn't really count as masturbation in my opinion.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: slick

Its ok to masterbate in a relationship I think Its healthy and safe I,m into 15 years and I do to much. I try and get busted by waiting for people to walk In from outside I have recorded my self jacking off for hours and left the tape in on purpose.My sister saw me milking my _____ It made me cum even more. I hope my mom and her friends get here so I can be caught by a group of ladies I love to see their face. I masterbate so much I enjoy the hours after hours of jacking I want to be seen in the public by a crowed of people. Where there is a camera Im In the view Its common for me to ejaculate atleast 10 or 12 times a day get ready you would be stuned the kind of money I would make If doctors observed my habbit studied me I would do it for nothing.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: dandy

Yes, I have been masturbaing as long as I can remember, when I got married i didnt have to. Wife said she was taught "Good Girls Dont Do It" so it took a long time to get her to try it. Now we use it in our love making.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Bob

I am in my mid 50s, married for 32 years and have masturbated since early teens. Early in our marrage it ws less frequent, but now my wife has little interest is sex. When we do it is usually mutual masturbation.I pleasure myself 3-4 times a week

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: mav

i feel that 2 people in a relationship can masturbate togeather and each other

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: jamie

I enjoy masturbating and do it nearly everyday. My says she dosnt but she has a vibrator that we use during our love making and I know she uses it occasionly when Im not there, dosnt worry me, in fact I find it a turn on

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Jen

Yea Masturbation is great when I was in a long term relationship My boyfriend would tell me when he masturbated and I would tell him and it turned us both on. I would watch him sometimes it tuned me on so much. its a great way if you dont want to have sex yet or you want to wait. I, being I wanted to wait for awhile longer I think I'm still alittle bit to young to have the resposablity of having sex. Masturbating is a great way and I do it maybe 1 to 3 times a day or even more.

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