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How do you feel about masturbation in a relationship?
How would you feel about your wife or husband masturbating?
Do you or would you masturbate by yourself if in a long-term relationship?

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SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Nick

I'm 67 and I use a pump to make it bigger. Than I go to the porn movies and let the other guys watch me as I jack off the big dick and shoot all over my chest.I have been with my lover for 35 years and still going strong.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Pilgrim Smith

masturbation within a relationship has nothing to do with commitment to a partner and therefore is a neccessary and vital part of a relationship as long as both partners are4 like minded.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: FuzzBrain

I am a 38 year old male who has been married for 17 years. I started masturbating around the age of 13, and I have masturbated since. The frequency of jerking off has decreased dramatically since I have been married, and I never use it as a subsitute for sex with my wife. But it just happens that my sex drive is about 2 - 3 times greater than my wife's which means I want sex about every other day when she is happy with 1 time a week. So I use masturbation to supplement our sex life and to keep me sane in between.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: r84

LOVE IT!!!!IF YOU ARE IN OR OUT OF RELATIONSHIPS - GO FOR THE GUSTO! Partners who masturbate are having healthy sex too, they should be allowed, even encouraged to do so!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Dick

My wife and I enjoyed mutual masterbation when we were younger. Now at 65 she has no interest in sex or being around me when I do it. So I have to pick my times for privacy but I manage to masterbate 3 times a week. Its better than nothing but would give anything to be able to screw her.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Paul

I feel there is nothing wrong with masturbation when in a relationship. It doesn't matter which sex the person is and what they are thinking.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Cool White Boy

I began masturbating about the age of 10 with my best friend. We jacked together every day after school. We both married but kept our secret going for another 10 years. Occasionally my wife would jack me but it never was as intense as with my male buddy. I'm divorced and not presently in any relationship and jackin is great especially with all the porn on the web.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Male
TITLE: hotboy69

masturbation is terrific! I love it! When im in a relationship I masturbate less but still do it. Having someone jack me off is great whether it be a man or woman. The thought of it is sexy.

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TITLE: Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and she hasnt gone all the way with me, no head or anything. After a while of compromise we agreed that she would give me a hand job. We are both in our late teens, so that was the furthest shes been with a guy. One day she came to my house and we went to my bed. I pulled down my pants as she layed next to me. She gave me a handjob for what seemed forever but I never came. She was somewhat nervous about it so she rarely looked at my dick. When she thought I was gonna cum she would make "eww" like sounds. When I realized that wasnt gonna work, i grabbed her hand, which was gripping my dick and started to jack off over her hand. It felt great holding her hand over my dick, I was soooo turned on holding her small hand as she was pretty much being used to get me off. I came after 2 minutes, that was the first time she saw cum. From now on, all we do is have phone sex, shes made me jack off 7 times in one night! But its the only action I get.

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GENDER:
TITLE: Anonymous

I'm 49 and have been married for 26 years. I jerk-off at least 2 times per week when I'm not actually _____. My wife will tell me to go jerk-off in the bath room if she is not in the mood. Sometimes, we will be in the bathroom getting ready for bed/ work and I get the feeling to jerk. We will actually be in a discussion while I'm jecking off...all my wife cares about in cleaning the sink up.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: panasync

My wife and I are married several years. Sometimes we masturbate together. She uses a vibrator and I am sitting between her open legs. I can see how she does it and this turns me on. When she finished, I lay back and masturbate to orgasm.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Me

I have been married 12 years - I masturbate every few days, and if my wife does not want to have sex, she masturbates me. She also enjoys watching me do it - sometimes touching my leg, just to see me cum. Sometimes I help her masturbate me. She enjoys that.

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: bigguy7

A man's gotta have time alone with his piece, pleasing only himself, indulging in his own twisted and non-so=twisted fantasies, creatively and selflessly strokin' himself till he blows...then it's all good. The beast has been released and it's back to the real world.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Davo

I am 61 years old, married and very sexually active, my wife has slowed down quite a bit as she has got older, thats OK I would never push myself onto her. She is a good woman, she knows I masturbate upto four times a week, all I have to do is tell her I am going onto the computer for a while and close the door. I explained to her that I needed to cum and thought it better to masturbate at home rather than hang around toilet block and get involved with other guys, this has happened from time to time and it is nice while it lasts but I always feel that I have done the wrong thing afterwards, I never go further than mutual masturbation and sometimes oral.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: caught

I feel masterbation in a relationship is all right------ Partners masterbating is exciting to me especially when they try to hide the enjoyment of the climax------YES I do masterbate by my self even though I'm in a 20 year relationship----

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: DeeVee

Masterbation is a key ingredient in any lasting relationship. You need to know how to please yourself and know what feels good to your penis before you can please another man.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Justin M

Actually, I wanna think I am str8, but I kinda think of this guy I work with who is so cool about sex just being sex, as long as it's safe, so now I am kinda thinkin of him alot. Anyways, I gues I might be a closet case yet to realize it. As for masturbation, I prefer it, even though I got a g/f. Her pussy isn't so tight, not that my dick is that long or fat (it's a nice size, just not like that guys I mentioned before...hmmm, now I'm thinkin I would like to see him naked and jerkin it with me...guess I am gay or at least bisexual). Oh well, so that's my story. I'm a newly 20 y/o outside of Pittsburgh.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Rudy

I started masturbating with a cousin of mine at the age of 9 or 10. I remember I didn't even cum then just had a great feeling in my uncircumised _____. The first time I truly "came" was with an older guy who showed me how to really stroke my dick. I am going to be 60 in July and have masturbated as many as 6 or 7 times a week, sometimes 4 times a week, and have also gone without masturbating for as long as a month. However, I miss it a lot and have always gone back to it. As a practicing Catholic it causes me much guilt and I always confess it to the priest but I will probably be masturbating before I die! I forgot to mention that mutual masturbation is always fun but like a previous person mentioned nothing is as good as your own hands!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: purple

i have enjoyed masterbating for many years. in my current relationship we have talked a lot about it and she enjoy's watching me masterbate as much i I love watching her

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Randyboy40

I have been wanking regularly since I was 13 (nearly 30 years m=now) & i have no problem about it in or out of a relationship. I think it is great to see a man shoot his loadan watchg those jets of spunk hit the wadrobe mirror!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Oldman

Masturbation can add to a relationship I would love it if my wife masturbated with me Yes I masturbate

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Male
TITLE: ajy

I jerk off 6 or 7 time a week and 3 or 4 time with my best male friend and we both have girls

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

been married for several years and masturbate as much as possible by myself and with my wife

SEXUALITY: Gay
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Anonymous

I first discovered I was gay when I was showering at the local YMCA after excercising. A guy came in and started showering next to me. I just took a quick look at his _____ to compare, but I had never seen one so BIG. Anyway, I literally did a double-take and just started to stare. I got a hard-on and he saw it and started laughing. I got really embarassed and turned red but he came up to me and put his hand on my shoulder and said "its okay". Then he kissed me on the lips. At first I was surprised and jumped back, but then he did it again and I didnt stop him. He put his hand on my dick and started to rub it. It felt really good. After I came he stoppped and went back to showering. After we were both done, we went out to his car and talked. But after a while, we kissed again. this time, I jerked him off. He and I are still dating after a year, and masturbation is a very important part of our relationship. We both try new things to pleasure each other. Before I realized I was gay, I had been with girls. One of them had jacked me off, but she really didnt know what to do. I think that masturbation between two guys is more pleasureable than between a man and a woman

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Longevity in Indiana

Waz up, I'm over 35 and married, and have been masturbating since I was five yrs old, like many of you I have tried different things over the years. I love to mstrbt, if I had sex with a girl and did not get off the way I wanted, I'd mstrbt later or witin a few days. Even after marriage I've continued to mstrbt (undetected). I've had great sex but, masterbation is fulfilling in a completely different way. I have not cared to have a partner do me because it doesn't feel the same, it calls for the right touch, no to slow or to fast. Women tend to pull to hard and kill the moment. I did not know this site existed, I'd love to get together somewhere with several fellas to watch and compare, seriously. I'm no freak, just a good looking dude looking for friends to mstrbt with and share the same passion. Not many people would share this way. I'm game! Oh, baby lotions great, mineral creates a warming sensation, just like the motor oil someone wrote about in a previous response.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Male
TITLE: Roch, 21

I am in a relationship for 2 years and my masturbation habits have not changed really, still do it about once a day, sometimes we do it together or my girlsfriend masturbates me (although I am much better at it...). I do not see myself stopping, dont see why and it doesnt affect our sex, on the contrary.

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